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Don't know my sexuality
My gay relationship has recently ended and now I don't know which sex I want to be with. I'm male and I'm attracted to girls physically but not for sex and I'm not attracted to lads but like the sex. This was my first gay relationship now I don't know what I want. I'm so lonely and really confused please help .
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You could be bisexual.. It is entirely possible to like both guys and girls, be turned on by different things visually and physically. Don't try to pigeon hole yourself into one or the other. If you like someone or think they are hot then go for it; who cares what gender either of you are? :) You could tell people you are bi if they ask, it covers all the bases.
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You might be homosexual. Since you like guys and girls, but I'm not sure about the liking them in different ways part.
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Well maybe this is the time to play the field see what your options are. Think about what is going to make you happy. Flirt a little. It's okay to not know what you want and maybe since you're single this is the time to figure out what you really want. I went through a period where I was trying to figure out if I liked guys or girls. I think everyone goes through a time where they are experimenting and such. I weighed the pros and cons and thought about what I really wanted. Point blank you have to be happy with yourself first so don't assume that when you find someone they will make you happy because thats not the way it works. 'Happiness comes from within' and that's the honest truth. Be patience and think about what is going to make you happy! Good luck!
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