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Okay i used to be REALLY good at school, but now my last report card i got four C's and one D. Wich is really bad for me! i got ONE A and that was in gym! I'm trying to get into The School Of Proforming Arts (a highschool) and you need amazing Grades to get there! How do i get good grades with still being able to hang out with my friends enough?
You wouldnt be going to vic would u?
well if it is vic, you dont need outstanding grades, just good ones!
hang out with your friends when ure homework is done, AND WELL
[can u please send me a message if u are going to vic :p]
okay, so there is this guy that won't leave me alone. i mean i wanna be friends with him, but he wants to be my girlfriend. I am really starting to hate him. i was talking to him in aim and he kept saying things like "i love you," or "okay, see ya girlfriend". i kept telling him to stop, but he WON'T! arrggggggggggggggg!
please help me b4 i kill him!
get a boyfriend :p
O.k i'm 14/fm and live in Texas. I want a b.f. so badly, but none of the boys at my school like me cause i have braces, and i'm 5ft 2inch. I've had boyfriends, but they were'nt very much true b.f.'s. I'm always told by a friend or something that i'll never have a true b.f. that actually likes me, cause they eather say i'm not pretty enough or i'm not smart enough. My dad says i'm pretty, and i get all a's in my classes. How come guy's still don't like me. Maybe a guy could answer this question for me. Thanx lots.
Love- Lacey P.S. i give people who answer nicely 5's.True answers to please.
Well, if they are that judgemental is it really worth it? The right guy will come, and he will like you for you, not for what you look like or how smart you are. Just be patient and fate will take place no matter what.
A friend of mine is having trouble finding a date to the prom. She has even asked most of her guy friends. All of them are either taken or dead-set against going. I suggested to her kidnapping and blackmail already so please do not inform me of those options. My question is, what should she do?
maybe see if you can get a good guy friend or a cousin to go with her
[sometimes if u stalk them they freak out and give in :D]
I have a ferret. He is so cute and I love him to bits. He's about 10 months old now, but all he likes to eat is his ferret food! He won't eat chicken or anything else! Should he be eating a more varied diet, other than his ferret food? If so, how do I get him to accept new foods?
LOL, dont sweat it, if the ferret only likes ferret food, dont worry about it, maybe occasionally go to the pet store and buy him something that looks yummy [yeah...] my bird perfers our food over her own, her favorites are chicken, eggs and gingerale [?]
lol
I feel bad about myself sometimes because I'm skinny yet I don't look all that great. I want to feel better about myself and also look better. How is it possible?
Well... how dont you look all that great?
I am quite skinny myself and i found that i looked alot better if i wore form fitting [tighter] clothing, that way, it dosent just hang there on me. :)
I go to a private school, and my friend did also, but then she went public. i still keep in touch with her and she is still a really great friend. But now i have this other great friend in school with me and i'm not sure wiether to think she is a better friend or not. Should i replace her? is it bad that i do not feel as close to my previous best friend?
-dorinflower55
didnt anyone tell you its okay to have more than one best friend?! i have 3!
just do as the song goes
"make new friends, but keep the old, one is silver and the other gold"
My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!!
wait, im sure there is nothing worse than being a preggie teen, if he really loves you he will wait until you are ready and still stay commited to you when you are at different schools. if you do decide to have sex, get on the pill and use a condom, just to be safe :o)
so im planning a sweet 16 and i made a guest list and came up with 66 people so far. This was without crossing off the "questionables." what i mean by that is those people who you dont really talk to..but you dont hate either..and the couple of people who had a sweet 1 in september but didnt invite you..and now it seems we are a little more friendly. Hope i didnt confuse you guys..any tips on what to base who you invite on? anyone ever been in my place before? how did you decide who to cross off? i dont usually talk to the "gangsta" group..but i figure inviting them would spice my party up..is this the wrong idea? i need help lol so dont be afraid to critisize
5's for everyone who isnt obnoxious
just invite who you like, dont bother with anyone else.. and maybe dont invite the gangsta group, the party may get a little to spicy
I dyed my hair yesterday and i always straighten/flat iron my hair and i was wondering if its safe to flat iron it after i dyed it? would it dye it out? my hair is well conditioned so it doesnt look or feel dye but i was just making sure. Thanks!
itll b fiiine
i'm afraid that if i start using tampons it will give me that disease thing and plus the thought of tampons just grosses me out but my pads always leak and i feel so uncomfortable with them. ew i dont know what to do.
the deseise thing is realllllly rare, and if u change them every 4 hrs or so ure fine
is it normal for your breasts to hurt during your period?
meh, mine seem to always hurt...
i made my friend a cd with 'happy' 'upbeat' music..does anyone have a catchy title i can label the cd.It could rhyme..as long as it's cute..Thanks!
Happy Pappy?
Flappy
When I tried putting the tampon in for the first time, I slid it in, and I tried to do what the instructions said to do, but the whole plastic part came out.
All that was left inside me was the cotton part and the string. Is that what's supposed to happen? Or did I do it totally wrong? Cus it made me nervous...
how do I do this?
lol, the plastic was supposed to go off, no worries, ure fine
Ok well I have tried to use a tampon like a million times but everytime I try to put in, It doesn't go in all the way even though it looks like it!! When I walk, it's realllyyy uncomfertable..What am I doing wrong???
try using the teen ones, (the kind i use) have a really silky smoothish outside thing that helps me put it in. maybe get your mom to help, it mite be imbarrasing at first, but it may just be nessasary, make sure ure relaxed, otherwise it wont go in
my friend is depressed. she always tells me her problems and itold her to get therapy bcuz it helps and ive been through it. but after i tell her this she always says "see thats why i cant count on you. you never help me with my problems" she always makes me feel so guilty. How can i help her?
i have a friend like that, i got fed up with it and i told her that if im not helping, to shut up and fix her own self.. tough love
ok. So I met this girl on the internet, shes really nice, my age, lives near me etc.. but just a little while ago, I rang her up.. and she sounded like a guy.. I mean, I'm not shallow or anything, but it kinda just freaks me out, And now I don't know what to do.. should I give her a chance, or not bother?
BTW I have another girl I aslo likes.. she is also really nice, 15, fun, and yeah...
signed, Confused 17/m
ahh! that is kinda freaky... maybe she is both :S
I want to make a pie for my friends on pi day, because it's funny and dorky and this monday (3/14!) but I've never made a pie before. What's the easiest pie to make?
pumpkin pie for sure, it was delish and turned out great the 1st time i made it
I've got shoulderlength fine brown hair. I was stupid and my round bristle brush got rolled up in it and i can't get it out. How do i get it out
PLEASE HELP ME!! I rate 5's to EVERYONE who gives me a CONSTRUCTIVE answer ON SUBJECT!!
LMAO! ok.. just take the hair out individually, its slow, but u wont lose all ure hair :P
all the boys at my school(but one)are cute in there own way and my mom say they really like me i flirted with some they flirted back but i never became closer to any of them but friends and enemys i don't know whats wrong im surronded by flirting hottys and i never get closer i feel invisable but i don't like it every one had a bf(or gf)'cept me i don't know what to do keep trying or just give up some one please help me ! ! !
~confused and lonley
i honestly dont know whats wrong with girls these days! if you like someone, ask them out. it dosent mean diddly if u have a bf or not unless you like them!