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Heyy my names Jessica, but most people call me Jess. Im 17 and its my senior year! I love to have fun. I'm always laughing, mainly at myself. When i first meet people i tend to be shy and i hate it, but once you know me you realize how outgoing and crazy i am. I don't swear cause i don't find a reason to. I hate crying, so i never do. I love watching movies. I listen to music everyday. My iPod is always with me. My friends and family mean everything to me.

Ive been on this site for three years now and im in love. I like to give people my advice. I can relate to a lot of things because i've been threw a lot of things in my life. Feel free to drop anything my my inbox or you can e-mail me.

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http://sfbay.craigslist.org/sby/car/553576106.html

Is this a girl-appropriate car? Or is it more of a guy car?


How can you tell if a car is a boy car or a girl car?

I never really thought there were "girl cars" or "guy cars". If you like it then buy it. Its not really my style so i don't like it but i could see girls driving it.

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This is really TMI, so sorry in advance! I'm supposed to start swimming in school on Tuesday, and I got my period on Saturday. Not swimming is out of the question, and I'd really, really like to avoid wearing a tampon. I've never worn one before and I have absolutely NO IDEA at all how to use it. It's a pretty light flow, but still enough to stain a bathing suit. Not enough to actually show in the water, though. Would it be completely awful to just wear a bathing suit with a skirt-type bottom, and have a pantyliner in it? I'll only be swimming for about a half hour. It sounds crazy, but would there really be any actual harm in it?

Any other ideas?
Thanks SO much in advance, I'm really concerned here ;).

Thats kinda unsanitary for the rest of the people in the pool. I would suggest wearing a tampon. You mine as well use one now, plus it will help you in the future because there so much easier than pads. But if you really dont want to try to get a note from your doctors or a parent to get you out of it until your period is gone.
good luck =]

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So i've been talking to this girl for a while, and I kind of like her but im just getting to know her and her friends. We went finally got a chance to

hang out and we went to the movies last night and i had my arm around her most of the movie but didn't make a move cause it's hard to do in a

movie, plus hanging out with her the first time but...anyway i txted her that night and said what a great time i had and she said "me too :) you

should come over kelseys tomarrow" and i said yeah just lemme know what time and ill go :]. So the next day comes around but she doesnt get back to me, and i heard her friend did have people over

her house, now i'm wondering do you think shes interested? i mean some text conversations we have usually indicate that shes pretty interested lol but i don't get it, any girls have input on this? thanks alot!...im a male btw

I think shes interested but she might not want to take it too fast. Plus she might have thought it would be awkward if you went to her friends house just because you don't know them too well, she wouldn't want you to feel left out. Just keep talking to her and try to make plus to go on a date alone so you can get to know each other better. The movies aren't always that best place to go wen you first hang out cause you cant really talk to the person, take her out to dinner or something.
good luck =]

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i was wondering, to have birth control, can you just go out to buy it? or do you have to get it prescribed by a doctor?

you need to get it prescribed.

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Ugghh. I usually like older guys. But omg. There's this freshman! He is absolutely delicious. Hahahha. I'm a JUNIOR. He acts mature, could possibly pass as a sophomore :-D.... at least he's my height! We flirt a lot and I get BUTTERFLIES for a FRESHMAN. He tells my bestfriend how he likes me. Oh, FYI not trying to be "rude" but, we're both pretty "popular" and EVERYONE would know if we went out. Omgoodness. Do you think its wrong or weird or what? Some friends say "age is just a number!" Some roll their eyes. Some say "No! You need a read man!" I don't know what my mom would say! I don't want people to think I'm a pedophile!! Help!! Thanks!!! :-D

I'm not gonna lie i think its kinda awkward when i see freshman and juniors going out at my school. But When it comes down to it if you really like him then you should go for it. You shouldn't care what other people are saying. Age is just a number, if any average person saw you together they wouldn't judge you on how old your boyfriend was, nor would they care probably.
good luck =]


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two years of drama but i'm going to try to make it short.

16/f
two years ago i liked my best friend. i liked him so bad and the butterflies were so strong i felt like i was going to throw up if i thought about him too much. the day i decided to tell him litterally 20minutes earlier one of my friends told him that she liked him. they were going out for about two months before he started flirting with me. he told me that he didnt get much action with his girlfriend. our flirting turned into a cyber friends with benefits relationship but he would sometimes smack my butt while he had a girlfriend. they went out for 8months and a week after they broke up we hooked up. we didn't kiss but we basically just felt each other up. i went on vacation, came back and he had a new girlfriend. again i was crushed but he only went out with her for about 2weeks. so they broke up and again a week later he's back in my life and i ended up giving him a hand job. his first ex-girlfriend found out and everyone got mad because apparently the guy and this first girl were planning to get back together but i swear i had no idea otherwise i wouldn't have done it! me and the guy lost touch and weren't really friends anymore. so at the end of the summer(2007) they got back together. school started and the guy apologized to me for all the crap that happened and now we're in a cyber friends with benefits relationship....AGAIN. i feel bad about it because now me and his girlfriend are friends again but its so hard to stop. i've tried three times to stop this but i can't. he's only slapped my ass once and i smacked him for it and told him not to touch me. now i like him again but i would never go out with him because he cheats, i know he does. and besides having the cyber thing with me i always see him flirting with girls. i have to end the cycle but the physical attraction always brings us back together. what do i do about this?

He really doesn't seem worth all the trouble. You know that he cheats and its obvious he goes threw girls like crazy! If you ever were to have something with him it doesn't seem like it would be to serious or long lasting. There plenty of other better guys out there, they might jus be hard to find. Its obviously hard to get over someone just like that so it will take time, just try to be less flirty with him and maybe he wont be flirty back. Dont lead him on like you like him if you want to get over him.
good luck =]


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When you send a text message..... does any of the accually text message show up on the bill??

Im on cingular by the way


what shows up on the bill.. the number .. the time.. and what else...

i have cingular and ive seen the bill it just says the date time and the number you sent it to, then the town the number is from, chances are whoevre pays the bill wont even look at it though, unless the really want to look through like 6000 text meassage numbers

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what happens if you cut the sound off of your camera, when you're taking a picture?


does it make you're face clearer???

no it just makes it have no sound

Jess

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k so my homecoming is less than a month away. october 14. so i've been thinking about it a lottt lately. should i even go if i don't have a date? i get a free ticket because i'm in student council but i don't know if i should go. and if i do go when should i start trying to find a dress? like soon? and what kind of dress?

Its really common for people not to even bring dates to homecoming because its not that big of a deal. Sine you have a free ticket you mine as well go. Just got with a group of your friends.

For a dress look for something not too formal you dont want to over-due it. I usually get my dresses at deb(if you have one near you or they have a site online) or macys/filenes. Any place like that just look around or ask other people where they're getting their dresses. You can strt looking now but you have a while to chose what to wear.

Jess

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Ok! So, I have this best friend called Lucy. We've been best friends since third grade.
Lucy met another best friend in 7th grade, named Kelly. I never really hung out with Kelly except when Lucy was around and even when Lucy was around we usually didn't.
We all went to the same high school which was a big deal because Lucy was supposed to go to Granite Springs and me and Kelly were supposed to go to Newland Heights, where all our friends were going. Well, Lucy was really upset and freaking out and she was going through a bad time with her parents so me and Kelly, being REALLY good friends transfered to Granite, even though Lucy was, like, our only friend there.
So then me and Kelly start to hang out, which I guess makes LUCY really mad, I guess. Lucy starts yelling at us that she never wanted to be our friend, lying that she's fine, trying to TRANSFER SCHOOLS, acting really awkward, stuff like that. NOw I guess lucy and me are ok, but kelly and lucy are still on weird terms. It's really awkward now, like this huge elephant in the room. We've tried talking about it which makes everything SO MUCH WORSE, and we've ignored it forever and ou can still feel the awkwardness. There is a lot of things that Lucy and Kelly are mad at eachother for, but Lucy would never straight out say anything. Also, she's mad at me for hanging out with Kelly WAY more, but I value both of their friendships so much.Please, tell me how to heal this fractured friendship!


Caught in the Middle

Well with kelly and lucy not being friend you just have to let them deal with that on their own. Even though you love them both and want to help it might just makes matters worse so leave it to them, don't get caught in more drama than you need to be in.

As for staying friends with both of them, just be as loyal as you can. Let kelly and lucy know that even though there not friends you still are friend with both of them, they cant tel you who you can and cant hang out with. Most likely everything will boil over sooner or later and things will go back to normal.

Jess

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I really love Lifetime Movies. Unfortunately, it seems like every time I watch one, I have to go somewhere or do something which makes me miss the end of the movie. So I was wondering, does anyone know any websites I can watch a movie on for free? (It should be a trusted website, and no hidden fees.) I really want to see the end of Human Trafficking and some other Lifetime movies. Thanks.

try peekvid.com
im not sure if it has lifetime movies but you can check it out :)


Jess

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I heard that putting toothpaste on a pimple could help get rid of it sooner... is that true? If not, what else could be used? Thanks. :]

yupp it works mazing, just out it on overnight and the pimple will be gone the next morning, and if not then it will at least be less red and less noticeable.
Jess

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ok i am going out with this guy, and it is going good expect one thing!!!!
he NEVER talks to me!!!!!!!! like we talk on the phone but it is like all silent and everything!!! and then when we are on yahoo we talk all the time and stuff!!! and then at school we dont talk but we give each other eye contact and when i am in the hall way he will come up to me and like pump me and will say o i didnt see u there and stuff ina funny way!!!!
but i just dont know if it is going on the wait track!!!!!!!
i like him a lot too!!!!!!!!
so can anyone help????


How long have you been going out? It doesnt seem like you to comfortable with eachother. He might just be shy. Maybe you hould just stay friends a while til you know eachother better and can actualy talk in person. Or g out on a date with just you to so you can talk and be more comfortable. Hope it goes well.

Jess

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Does anyone know where i can get these boots from? Not online, but a store that i can go to so i can try the boots on to make sure fits.

http://www.theprincess.dk/catalog/images/footware/Boots%20Pink.jpg

i have seen them at the store aldo if you have one near you. or maybe famous foot wear.

jess

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Hey, does anyone know of some good rap/hip-hop songs that pump you up? I need stuff like Role Call by Lil Jon & The Eastside Boyz. I'm making a video and I need some hard rap like that. Thanks in advance.

www.pandora.com

type in te name of a song or an artist and it will give you songs that sound like what you typed in. Its an amazing website.


Jess

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if i tell my hair stylist to texturize my hair what will she do to it and like what does it do to my hair?

hmm i have never really heard of that but she will probably give you layers so it will give your hair more volume. Just ask what she will do when you get there, shes the stylist she knows best.

jess

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My friends birthday is coming up and she has liek evrything!! she loves desigghner slothing and all that vintage stuff. she has amazing taste.
last eyar she spent 45$ on my preset so i am willing to spend 45-50 on hers.

what can i get her?

not make up or perfume.



when im not sure what to get for my friends i usually buy them a cute purse and then fill it with things, like jewelry and a shirt. or candy or anything random that they might like. They alway love it. If shes having a party buy her a tiara so she can wear it :)

Jess

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what happens if you dont get any answers or a good answer here? where else can we go besides answers.yahoo.com?

Try asking the auestion in a different way or adding more information, everytime i have asked a question on here i alwasy get a good answer, or just kinda take a little from everyones advice and add some of my own.

you could also look at some colomists as your favorite and ask then privately.

Jess

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I need to get a house key made with a picture on it. Where can I get this done? Home Depot? Anywhere? Thank you!

i got one done at wal-mart

Jess

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ok well meg cabot is my favorite author and shes basically all that i read, the problem is i have read almost all of them, so does anyone know of any good authors that are similar to meg cabot, preferably for young-adults? thanks in advance

Angus thongs and full-frontal snogging
there are seris of the books their amazing!
i think you would like them.

jess

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