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BB cat has started killing animals every day starting this March. His owner got him from the SPCA when he was a kitten. He was a closet cat. He is now 6 or 7 yrs old. He cleaned the hair from his nipples and he wants to eat all the time. Yesterday he didn't just kill the mouse he dismembered it but he didn't eat it. We tried to keep him in at night but he starts breaking things until we let him out. He has killed bats, birds, mices, rats, goffers and yesterday he killed a humming bird? What's going on, what made him change? (link)
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yeah this sadly sounds like this cat needs the op. The one that take of his 'you know whats' this is sure to calm him down. He's already so 'busy' this should calm him down to a normal cats calmness
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I've never been on this web site before. Anyway. I am 13 and my boyfriend is 13. His brother is tremendously rood.The first time I met him he says hi sexy do you want to be my girlfriend of course I say no.His brother comes(my boyfriend) I tell him what he said to me.my boyfriend was so mad.One day I go to my boyfriend's house and his brother answers the door and I walk in he just starts grabbing my butt and saying I should go out with him. I don't like my boyfriend's brother at all. How should I tell him to leave me alone. (link)
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you should defiantely talk to your boyfriend his brother shouldn't touch you at all. His brother thinks he's winding you up but forgets your only 13 and your his BROTHERS girl not his. make this clear and hes not allowed to touch you at all.
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I have a very severe panic attack and anxiety disorder. I'm very bubbly and social when I'm comfortable, but most times my disorders make me nervous and its hard for me to associate with new people. I have a few very good friends but I really want to make more friends. I already take medication but I don't know how to socialize because I get so nervous and end up being shy. Please help me. Does anyone know what I can do? (link)
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okay well I had a friend like this and it seemed like if she was around people she was used to and comfprtable with she was calm and bubbly and if she wasn't she srot of froze and wouldn't speak she looked terrified. Trust me other people have this problem, it's not just you. I was very shy when I was younger also. What you have to do is go and introduce yourself thats probably the scariest bit when meeting new people but once thats over the do some work and the rest flows. Whats the worst that could happen? No one will tell you to get lost they'll probably say hi and introduce themselves back and there you go thats your start. Join some clubs of things that your into I gaurantee you'll find people who you are in common with or are shy too, but you WILL be fine theres nothing that bad thats worth you being so afraid don't let it take voer your stronger then that you can do it :D xx
Goodluck, Chloe xx
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Okay i know this is going to sound bad but it happens. Ok i liked this dude but he didst know about it or me really so we decided to hang out wit some close friends and we had sex! I wanted to but after i didn't hear from him so i kind of started to feel bad. I continue to hang with his friends and i started liking one of them and this time he likes me back but im afraid to talk to him like that because i don't want to seem like a hoe. I don't know if the friend knows but i also don't know what to do and this guy is really cool. Ugh i messed up bad (link)
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okay just talk to his friend and ignore what happened before just be careful his mate might have said your 'easy going' so he could just be into you for thta. Make it plain to his friend if brough up you sorta regret that because your not like that and play innocent you'll be reight
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So, my ma said i could get a job tutoring but i realized, i need help advertising. Does anybody know any website for free ads (link)
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Some ideas here-
GET A FREE KIDS WEBSITE BY TYPING IT IN TO GOOGLE SO YOU CAN ADVERTISE
CREATE SOME FLYERS AND PRINT THEM OFF
TAKE THEM ROUND TO LOCAL CHIP SHIOPS AND BUSINESS' WHO WILL LET YOU PUT THEM ON THEIR WALLS/COUNTERS
TAKE SOME INTO LOCAL SCHOOLS AND LET THEM PUT THEM UP AT THE FRONT DESKS FOR PARENTS AND TEACHERS TO SEE
PUT IT ONTO FACEBOOK OR TWITTER TO ATTRACT ATTENTION
GOOD LUCK :) X
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My Question: What do I do?
My fiance and I were at a party, a young girl is claiming he was making out with her and ended up having sex at the party. I know this is not true because we were together the whole night.
My fiance is telling me to let it go, she is young and wanting attention. I would let it go if she were not telling our family and friends...and some of them believe her. My family dont understand why im still with him and think im desperate. This is one of many of her accusations...she is 17. My fiance is 23. (link)
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if your certain that this is just a rumour then first of all you have to tlet your boyfriend know you believe him. Then tell your family you trust him and your happy they're all looking out for you but you know this girl is making things up about him. Try looking into why she'd make it up to back up your point but if not you still need to talk to this girl face to face. Don't make it like your having a go just ask this girl what happened and tell her your side. If she denies starting it tell your family. Alternativley don't say anything to anyone and ignore it like your husband said. But now your definite your fiance didn't do it but this might eat away at you until you doubt it and it may wreck your relationship, sort it and be happy. To be fair you Fiance should be sorting this out think why has he said to ignore it??
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For a very long time I have wanted nothing else but to go to college, then uni and become a midwife. All of a sudden, with like 3 weeks before i'm meant to start college I really don't want to go. I don't see the point in getting debts at uni so I probably won't do that and at college I have taken 4 subjects, 3 of which I don't want to do or care about. I've been thinking about acting professionally, but I'm not sure what sort of professional experience you need for that (all I have is an A grade drama gcse?). I'm getting quite upset about it, and I'm thinking I would rather get a full time job instead like one of my friends has done.
Does anyone have any advice on how I can either get straight into acting or find an education ish route that works for me?
16/f, just left school. Thanks :) (link)
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okay no keep with college cold feet are usual but don't give up. First of all get a part time job instaed that fits around your college hours they're everywhere just get looking. In the future you'll have plenty of time to persure a career in acting and stuff so do it then. I actually know a man who went for being a copper to a drama teacher it's possible. Secondly these 3 subjects you don't like might be totally different at college than school. You might get there and actually not mind them or enjoy them don't judge the class by it's name. Give it a go if its that bad drop out and get a full time job but if you ask me finish it off and do what yoiu want when you have the freedom to.
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I'm 13/f,and had a friend who was 16/m.We were talking one day,and he asked can he make out with me.I said no,and he just said ok.But then after that,I never heard from him since.He didn't talk to me for 2 1/2 months.So I thought he was mad at me,because I wouldn't let him make out with me.So I went and bitched off to him.He wouldn't talk face to face,or on the phone with me,so I messaged him.I told him that he was a bitch,for not talking to me anymore,just because I wasn't ready to make out with him.I told him that I hate him.Then he came,and messaged me back the next day,and told me to never talk to him again,because I was a bitch.He told me that none of those things I said about him were true.He said he liked me,and stopped talking to me because he was in the hospital.So when I messaged him back,and said I was sorry,and asked why he was in the hospital,he told me it doesn't matter why he was in the hospital,because I didn't care about him anyways.Then he told me to fuck off.I felt so stupid.So I tried a week later to apologize,and he told me to fuck off again.Every since then,we haven't talked,and I miss him sooooo much.I liked him back too.But I just wanna know if it's too late for him to forgive me?Did I mess up huge this time?And if so,how can I fix things because I truly miss him? ='( (link)
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hm, don't feel so bad if he won't tell you why he was in hospital maybe it's because he wasn't. At age 16 he's hot more experience than you at making excuses he could have said that so he dosen't look like such a big dick when you say what happened in your opinion. The point is I know what it feels like and you won't rest until in your mind it's sorted out so leaving won't help. Tell him if he was in the hostpital your sorry and was only angry and bitched about him because you sort of liked him too. say well whatever happened I guess we'll never find out how things would have gone if they hadn't got messed up. This will give him an option to agree or say well its ok and i guess we could try again, or ask him if you could start again and apologuise. But this wasn't your fault it's his for not replying for whatever reason don't let it get into an arguemtn and in future don't bitch ask why. good luck xx
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Id like to hear yalls opinions about tongue rings on girls 18+. Ive always wanted one because I loveee piercings/tattoos, I like the way they look, and I always like to have something in my mouth like straws, pens, cigarettes (i really want to quit). I wouldn be that girl whos always showing it off and would want it far back enough where its not terribly noticable.
Do you think its trashy when a girl has a tongue ring? (Like i said, not showing if off but if you just noticed when she was lauging or something)
Thanks! (link)
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I've spoken to a lot of men about this they say it looks dirty and trampy and they also think the same of tattoos plus the risk of infection is not worth it
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20/F I have a friend that I met at a place we both used to work. Now that we don't work there anymore, we never see each other because we live like 3 towns over. When we do see each other, it's always a let down. I never have as much fun as I anticipate I will. We're just so different. He's extremely social and likes to hang out as a group, but I like to hang out with people exclusively. The sad thing is, even when it's just him and I, which I usually prefer in a friendship, I'm so bored...I feel like I'm getting nothing out of our friendship, he's a really nice person, but I feel like I'm wasting time and effort. Should I just avoid his phone calls? Just because he's nice doesn't mean I'm obligated to be his friend...Am I right? Opinions, please? (link)
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your so right your not onbligated to be his friend in anyway although he's nice. Look this might be a problem if your 40 but your only 20 ha, dont get tied down go out and have a few flings and a bit of fun, i'm sure when you get old in a marriage you'll be bored enough. Just tell this guy being in a serious relationship that needs so much effort just dosen't work for you right now, offer him friendship, if he refuses it so what, you have plenty of friend and go have fun, most of all just don't worry :) xx
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Can you get your cherry popped by a guy fingering you? (link)
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I don't think so to be honest,
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the furthest we've gone is kissing but i want to go further and im not sure if he feels the same way because when we're kissing for along time he jumps up and says he needs to go to the bathroom and im like what the hell well anyways everyone including him thinks im sweet and innocent and im not really sure how to bring it up so please help (link)
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He sounds slightly nervous about the idea to be honest. Im not sure how old you are but if like you say you haven't done anything before with him he might be a bit scared and lack self confidence. Even sweet and innocent people go further,but what if in his mind he's thinking I want to be a gentleman and she's so innocent and sweet she wouldn't be up for it yet and i dont wan't to spoil things. Clearly you need to talk to him. Tell him just between you and him it's confidential. Open up with something like- so lately I've been thinking about us and are we ready to go futher?, might be a good opening and let him say his opinion if he's not say ok but trust me he'll be the one who then has to tackle his own self confidence issues to be with ANY woman. good luck :) xx
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my boyfriend Junior. I've been knowing him for about a year now. there's this girl, stacy, who's his "ex" me and Junior have been going out for a couple of weeks now and since the day he asked me out, we've been hanging out every single day and talking on the phone/texting every day. he's introduced me to some of his cousins, and a lot of his friends as his girlfriend. a couple of days after he asked me out i heard he was still with his "ex" so i confronted him about her. he said that she still hasn't let go of him because she had a miscarriage by him and she's emotionally attached. I believed him, put that whole situation in the past then a couple of days ago one of mine and stacy's mutual friends told me stacy's telling everyone they're dating still but now i'm kind of starting to believe her because she knows a couple of his cousins that i've met and one of mine and stacy's mutual friends said that the cousins always talk to her about Junior as if they're together. I don't think she could be THAT stuck in the past. Someone's lying. I'm not sure how to go about the whole situation. He's cheating on me, he's cheating with me? he's lying, she's lying? it's confusing. I don't know what to believe at this point. I'm supposed to hang out with my boyfriend today. I want to tell him that if he has any feelings towards stacy then he should just be with her instead. I don't want to let him go, but I don't want to be played. I would talk to Stacy myself but she's not the type that someone could conversate with. I don't want to accuse her of lying but i also don't want to see her get her feelings hurt because of me, even though it's not exactly my fault. Any advice on how I should go about this while situation? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Tell him staright get it off your chest and if your unsure leave, you'll find someone better so he can go and be with his "ex" who cares youll hurt for a few days and get over it and see him months down the line sad, lonley maybe with a kid on his arm while your living a great life, and he'll be like crap Why didn't I keep her shes amazing ;p
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So my uncle has me watching the children for the week because they don't have to go to summer camp. Problem is he won't let me put them in front of the TV. All day so I need to know what to do with them. They were 8 and 6 (link)
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okay awesome ideas> go buy some colouring books or arts and crafts to do that should last a week
play games outside like tig and football, hide and seek? they like all those games. If theyre girls paint their nails and beauty and stuff, boys get on with the football and sports, tennis?
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Im married with 2 kids and there is this male co-worker who would joke that we are soulmates everytime we wore same color of shirt. His bestfriend sometimes teases us too. There are some instance where he would stare into my eyes n hold it for a second. I think im in love with him now? is it love or attraction? (link)
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haha, don't worry its neither I think your just expiriencing lust. If you didn't have a husband you'd have jumped on this chance. Most women do find this 'soulmate' guy but you didn't even want him until people started joking and sorta put it into perspective for you. Don't have a dumb middle aged affair your husband is your soulmate, this guy is just a bit of eye candy for you and keep it that way nothing more. Just think about how much your hurt your children if you decided just to indulage in a bit of eye candy, not worth it stick with your husband he's safer and hes the one you love lust must be ignored :)
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Me n him have been together for 5 months now, he told me about his kid who is 8years but now when I call him at night there is a baby cry or he doesn't take my calls at night. He keep his promises and he hardly tells me how much he loves me or even say I love you. Calling oh shame too bad for he hardly calls. I love him and really wanna be with but I think I'm wasting my time. What should I do? How do I talk to him about these? Plz help (link)
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you don't need a guy who can't be trusted. I'm thinking you can do way better, get out there and find someone new without a family who you can trust. If at 18 your getting tied down with a man like that AND his fake or real kids you seriously dont need it. Go find your self a nice and truthful guy, chuck him and go and have fun :) you can do better
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whats the difference between sex and oral sex? (link)
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sex is just normal sex and oral is with your mouth :)
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If you're gay or bisexual, and have come out, how long was it from the time you started seriously questioning your sexuality to the time you started coming out to people?
Just out of curiosity. (link)
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I'm not gay or anything, but from what I see most people can keep this a secret for years the longest ive known, he kept it for 19 years, got a bf and then told people
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well i am 15 years old and theres this guy who comes up here during the summer, he is basically my neighbor and he likes me. I kinda like him too but i didnt want to start a relationship with him because he is my neighbor for the summer, but ive been hanging out with him for the past couple of weeks and we ended up kissing yesterday and we made out today. So now i feel bad because i didnt want to start anything with him but i really like him:/ should i stop or what should i do?
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aww well this is a summer romance alright, just keep talking and having fun, but try not to fall for him as long distance never works, tell this to him and you'll be fine :)
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My Girl friend and I used to indulge in fore·play and now she force me to cum on her face and she's forcing me to have an oral sex.
So is there a chance pregnancy. since we never had intercourse (link)
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unless it went in her vagina, theres no way :)
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