the furthest we've gone is kissing but i want to go further and im not sure if he feels the same way because when we're kissing for along time he jumps up and says he needs to go to the bathroom and im like what the hell well anyways everyone including him thinks im sweet and innocent and im not really sure how to bring it up so please help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cocomac101 answered Thursday August 4 2011, 11:25 am: He sounds slightly nervous about the idea to be honest. Im not sure how old you are but if like you say you haven't done anything before with him he might be a bit scared and lack self confidence. Even sweet and innocent people go further,but what if in his mind he's thinking I want to be a gentleman and she's so innocent and sweet she wouldn't be up for it yet and i dont wan't to spoil things. Clearly you need to talk to him. Tell him just between you and him it's confidential. Open up with something like- so lately I've been thinking about us and are we ready to go futher?, might be a good opening and let him say his opinion if he's not say ok but trust me he'll be the one who then has to tackle his own self confidence issues to be with ANY woman. good luck :) xx [ cocomac101's advice column | Ask cocomac101 A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday July 27 2011, 11:42 am: You can talk to him about it. Thats what I would recommend you do.
It sounds like he is doing his best to be a gentleman. There sure isn't anything wrong with that either. Most guys would just maul you & not worry about your feelings very much.
It sounds like you have a good guy. He is trying not to rush things. He may have religious reasons
for wanting to wait or his own personal reasons.
Talking to him about it would be the best thing to do. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
nkem answered Wednesday July 27 2011, 10:56 am: my dear if really he is ur man there is nothing to hide. any way i think what you should do is dis... when ever you re kissing again start touching him in sencetive parts like his man hood, also try removing his cloths i think that will help [ nkem's advice column | Ask nkem A Question ]
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