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boyfriend cheating?
my boyfriend Junior. I've been knowing him for about a year now. there's this girl, stacy, who's his "ex" me and Junior have been going out for a couple of weeks now and since the day he asked me out, we've been hanging out every single day and talking on the phone/texting every day. he's introduced me to some of his cousins, and a lot of his friends as his girlfriend. a couple of days after he asked me out i heard he was still with his "ex" so i confronted him about her. he said that she still hasn't let go of him because she had a miscarriage by him and she's emotionally attached. I believed him, put that whole situation in the past then a couple of days ago one of mine and stacy's mutual friends told me stacy's telling everyone they're dating still but now i'm kind of starting to believe her because she knows a couple of his cousins that i've met and one of mine and stacy's mutual friends said that the cousins always talk to her about Junior as if they're together. I don't think she could be THAT stuck in the past. Someone's lying. I'm not sure how to go about the whole situation. He's cheating on me, he's cheating with me? he's lying, she's lying? it's confusing. I don't know what to believe at this point. I'm supposed to hang out with my boyfriend today. I want to tell him that if he has any feelings towards stacy then he should just be with her instead. I don't want to let him go, but I don't want to be played. I would talk to Stacy myself but she's not the type that someone could conversate with. I don't want to accuse her of lying but i also don't want to see her get her feelings hurt because of me, even though it's not exactly my fault. Any advice on how I should go about this while situation? Thanks in advance.
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Tell him staright get it off your chest and if your unsure leave, you'll find someone better so he can go and be with his "ex" who cares youll hurt for a few days and get over it and see him months down the line sad, lonley maybe with a kid on his arm while your living a great life, and he'll be like crap Why didn't I keep her shes amazing ;p
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Here is a rule of thumb: because there is a drama underway doesn't mean you have to be dragged in to acting in it. Bow out and let the other contestants figure it out. Your life will be a lot simpler, less stressful and you can find another circle with less duplicitious people.
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Best thing to do is talk to your boyfriend and tell him everything that you feel and everything that is being said... tell him that you dont want to let him go but you dont want to be hurt... and if he still wants to be with her then he needs to go now before you get any more involved... there is an old saying "If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were"
if it is meant to be it will be... I wish you all the best good luck
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1. You have been dating a few weeks
2. This "ex" had a miscarriage by him
She is jealous, She is pissed, She IS still attached. If this girl is too much of a pain in the ass then it is your boyfriend that should tell her to give him some space. Why believe her? Of course she is going to try and sound convincing she wants him back and doesn't want you in the picture. If his cousin is talking to his ex, Let your boyfriend handle that too. Your best bet is to stay out of it, If you get in between you are going to cause a load of problems between all three of you. Trust your boyfriend but talk to him about how it bothers you and you feel he should confront them. Your boyfriend is with you, Not her and if he needs to show her that he has moved on them so be it. Some people just can't move on and perhaps she is one of those people but the sooner your boyfriend tells her to back off the quicker she should get the picture. Stacy is an ex, There should be no need at all for her to be in the picture. Your relationship is between YOU and your boyfriend not everyone else.
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