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Hey people my name is Christan. I'm 17 years old I am a junior I have been through a lot in my life I have a dad somewhere out there that I don't know. He left me when I was born my mom and my step dad were in big time drugs we did not have really any money we had to steal from stores to get food we got food from churches. If it weren't for my grandpa they would have been living on the streets.

So now I am adopted and am doing a lot better then what I would have been doing.

Obviously if your reading this then you are on my page then you will know that I am good at answering love questions, friendship questions, and computer questions so if you ask a question I will try to answer it as best as I can. Thanks!!!


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how do i become one???
do i have to have a paid account?

No you dont have to have a paid account. Here is how you can become a moderator:

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i hear people saying that people who love you look at you a certain way... what way is that and can you tell??

Well how sometimes they do it is that they stare at you then when you look at them they turn there head really fast. But thats a way to tell if there interested in someone but I have never heard that you can tell that someone loves you. I mean my gf loves me and she does not look at me anyway different I mean we flirt a lot and the usual stuff but I have never heard that. So I hope this helped in anyway.

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13/f
ok, a couple weeks ago i went to a party in miami.
i used to live there so i knew a few people there.
but there was this one guy that i didnt know.
and i was dancing with him all night.
before me and my friend left i made out with him.
EVERYONE knows about it.
even at his school.
im going out with him now.
and he was the first guy i ever made out with.
but, do you think im a slut?
thanks in advance :]

Umm no your not a slut me and my girlfriend did the same thing its alright you made out with someone that you just knew. There is nothing wrong with that its not the end of the world. Well thats all I can say because you are not a slut. I hope this helps. A slut is: A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous. There that is the definition of a slut.

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i have been trying to lose weight for a little while now and my friends say i dont need to but recently last year i had an eating disorder and i got over it. i cant spot eating unhealthy food and find it hard to get motivated to do excersise. because i know if i dont then it will drive me straight back to the eating disorder i had and i dont want that. how can i stop myself from eating the wrong foods and excersising more so i start to feel good about myself again???

Well I dont advise you to go on a crash diet cause I kinda did that and I almost had to go to the hospital put I would do the same thing you are doing but eat half as much as you would eat proportions of what you usually eat. Eat fruit drink water instead of pop or if you want try to drink a diet pop instead of regular pop. About exercising you have to motivate yourself but if you are exercising dont over do it. Exercise for thirty minutes and stretch. Lay off the sweets eat one once in awhile. I hope this helped in anyway.

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Ok well this alittle long but I just want to write everything down so hopefully I would feel better. Ok so i'm a feshman now in highschool. When I meet my ex I was in the 6th grade. It was like love at first sight seriously. I couldn't stop thinking about him. We went out and I ended up braking up with him because my friend liked him also. So when I started 8th grade I spoke 2 him again and we ended up going out. He told me all these sweet things and I just love him so much.we lasted for 10 months and then he broke up with me for no reason. Then he wanted to try things again but I can't becuase I'm afraid of loving him more then I do. My friend goes to his school and she told me that he flirts a lot with girls and that I don't deserve him I deserve someone better.but I can't forget about him. Its like my heart is attached to him I feel so depressed its like I can't move on. he sends me text messages sometimes telling me that he loves me but I'm just afraid. What should I do?. Should I forget about him if so what are the best ways?. But I love him so much. I jsut don't see my life without him. Please help thanks!

Well I would just move on and forget about him cause as your friend said that he is basically a playa so I would just get over him I would ignore all text messages from him and tell him to stop cause we are just friends. No one wants a playa as a boyfriend I'm sorry if I'm sounding mean in anyway but I'm telling you the truth that you need to forget about him. Get rid of everything that reminds you of him like I would delete all texts messages from him get rid of things that maybe he gave you get rid of pictures get rid of everything. Well I hope this helps and if you need anymore help let me know. Thanks!!!

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We have a couple. The man crosses the river to work. When he is supposed to come back home, he doesn t show up. The woman worries and tries to cross the river to find her husband. A cannibal offers to get her across the river ONLY if she has sex with him.
Who has the biggest share of fault in this story?
Go downwards for instance
1)Cannibal (Biggest Fault)
2)Man (Medium Fault)
3)Woman (Less fault).
There are no other variables. You dont know how long was the husband was late, or if he could communicate and didn t etc.
I will tell you what it means on my feedback. You ll learn interesting stuff about yourself just by answering this question.


This is not like the usual dumb quizzes you find on the internet.

confusing but hey
the man
the cannibal
the women

confusing and I have no idea but hey this will be cool to understand this. This comes from a movie I believe called Slave of the Cannibal God it was made in 1979 I believe am I right cause I have no idea lol well thanks lol.

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Alright I know we all hate these questions but im finally in a position to ask for help.....
Here it goes...

I have a boyfriend of 4 months...But basically 6 months from the time we really started talking.
Then i have a boy that i was on and off with for 2 years. We never "went out" but we hooked up and EVRYTIME we see eachother we always get these feelings back!!!

Well this other guy called every 2 weeks asking if i am still together with my BF and i say yes and hes like okay il ttyl. So finally he called 3 days ago and he wanted to hangout so i was like YEAH!!! so I hungout 2 days NON stop. And I got these feelings back.
I missed him SOOO much.
And ive thought about him while being together with my BF.
BUT my boyfriend knows about the relationship we had or 2 years and that we were on and off and that we like loved eachother.

What do i do?
Do i leave my Bf who I love?
For someone Ive loved 2 years?
I keep thinking i should do I can just HAVE FUN for a while! But Im scared of doing that and Missing my BF terribly.
This is killing me and i havent said much to my bf I kinda avoid calls cause I wanna decide before I talk to him so I have something to say.

PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!

Well it seems like you did make up your mind like the one said. But which one do you really like? To be completely honest with you I would go with the one you have known for 2 years because you probably know him more then you are currently seeing. So thats my advice. I hope this helped!

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are aloe vera drinks good for you

theres like aloe powder or w/e in it so im guessing not??

is it better to drink it or put it on your skin or what

what products are good for that

Well it is good to drink stuff with aloe vera because here is the reasons: in your body its General tonic, cleanser, detoxifier. on the outside of your body: its helps Minor burns, sunburn, eczema, psoriasis, skin irritations, insect bites, minor cuts, scratches and wounds. Drinks like sobe and other drinks with aloe vera are really good for you. So I hope this helps.

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Hey, um, have you ever masturbated with other guys?

If you have can you tell me the story?

No I would never do that. who do you thing I am? thats gross!!! and I'm really sorry but I dont think I would even tell you if I did thats a little personal dont you think? I'm sorry but no I have not masturbated on any guy and dont think I will ever do that cause I'm a guy and thats just gross. So again no!

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13 Female

okay, I go to a private school and i absolutely DESPISE it. I've asked my mom to change my schools and she says not until i bring my grades up and stop missing so much school. but the problem is...i fake sick as much as i can so i dont have to go. ( like i said before, i DESPISE the place) and i know it seems a bit childish, but if my little act doesnt work at first I start crying, like REALLY crying. i realy dont want to go. its a super small school and whenever i'm there I have absolutely no privacy. as a matter of fact, i feel like everyone there knows more about me than i do. And I've known the principal ever since kindergarten so she expects so much of me and i just cant live up to her standards anymore. My mom sent me to a counselor the other day bcuz she was worried about me and I told the counselor about school and how i wanted to switch and she actually agreed with me and said that she thought that would probably be the best thing for me. i told my mom and she just got mad and wouldnt talk to me for a little while. can anyone think of some way i could convince my mom to let me switch??? please, anything would help. thank you.

Well I have been to a couple private schools and I really hated them really I did. But the thing I don't understand is this why did your mom put you in a private school and say that you cant go to a different school until you raise your grades. Don't she know that private schools are college prep there a lot harder then public schools thats what I don't understand. But thats none of my business. But I would just tel her about that and she wants you to raise your grades maybe she will do that. And if you go to a public school it will probably be really easy for you cause they do like college work in private schools. Well I hope this helped.

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I got a new laptop for Christmas that has a wireless internet connection.
The signal is pretty strong and up until now it's worked fine at a good speed. However, over the past couple of days the internet has suddenly got much slower and it's getting really irritating.
I tried running a disk cleanup, clearing the cache, deleting any unecessary programs and defragmenting to see if it made any difference - which it did for a short while - but it's still overly slow.
Does anyone know what the problem is or how I can speed the internet back up?
I use Internet Explorer 7 if that helps.

Thanks for telling me that you use internet 7.0 because a lot of other people did not and I had to list all the internet browsers. Well did you delete your temporary internet files and cookies sometimes if you don't delete those once in awhile your internet connection will get slow so go to delete browsing history and delete temporary internet files , cookies and how bout you delete history too cause that can make your computer slow too. And this is a thing to a lot of people on forums say that Internet 7.0 is really slow it takes forever to load and takes a long time to connect. I have internet 7.0 but I don't use it because it has adware on it that I cant get off even if I use the best adware and spyware products so now I use Firefox which is kinda similar to internet 7.0 but is a little different. I hope this helps if you need anymore help leave a message in my inbox. I'm just 15! LOL!

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16/f
ok i like this boy in my class. weve known each other since like.. 7th gradE? and we were just friends then but now we hang out more and flirt and stuff and im scared to tell him i like himmm.. i mean how do i do it! thanks

Go slow bring up subjects that pertain to that then bring it up that you like him. I hope this helps!!

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i have netscape 8.1, and lately its been freezing up a lot. the whole web browser goes white, and then i have to drop it down and wait a while, then bring it back up and it works again, but its extremely annoying. is there something wrong with 8.1? or is there something i can do to fix it? because i know its not my computer, because i can do other stuff on my computer when netscape freezes. thanks!

Well netscape 8.1 is probably a big task and It probably does take awhile and yea it is a big file it's 18.31 MB and Firefox is 4.5 so yea its a big difference so I suggest you switch to firfox or internet 7.0 which they say is kinda slow but its a lot safer so you can download Firefox if you want. I hope this helped!!

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Hi, I was just at my friends house and i found out that i lost my cell phone. so i walked back to his house and found it in the street, cracked. like the face was crushed and you cant see anything. it still dials, but you cant see the screen. i have verizon wireless's 2 for 2. you get 2 fones and 2 plans every year. i am right in the middle of my cycle and i was wondering what i could do, since i dont have 250 bucks to spend on a new phone.

please dont refer me to ebay, i dont like it and i honestly have had some terrible experiences with it.

any other suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

WOW well your best bet is to get it repaired and I don't like eBay either so I'm not going to say anything about eBay but thats your best bet is to get it fixed by someone I don't know how much it will cost but thats all you can do. I hope this helps and I'm sorry if it did not.

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i reciently started babysitting for a four year old girl who we'll call kim and and her 18 month old sister we'll call lynn. kim has this problem where if she doesn't get what she wants she gets really ugly. she truelly is a terror. she swears at her own family, expecially her grandma who is the nicest lady in the world. she is a total jerk to her sister and anyone who watches her or even her own family. I don't know what to do with her, we'll play games and she'll still get really angry. i need some advice on how to keep a crazy 4 year old child who can yell for hours on end accupied for a few hours while trying to care for her younger sister at the same time.

Well I really know what that is like and trust me on that she is like the devil from hell. What I would do Is threaten her like tell her I'm going to call your mom. My sister when I watch her she says no to me when I tell her to do something and I mean I am 15 going on 16 and she is 8 BIG AGE DIFFERENCE and I feel like killing her sometimes really I do and everytime I tell my parents. She does it again its really frustrating and I'm sure you know how it is but tell there parents and there parents will deal with it hopefully they will do something. Well I hope this helps.

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I need help on translation .. on these lyrics

http://www.lyricsspot.com/adriana+maciel-sozinha+minha-lyrics-404624.html

No translation sites. They don't work correctly.

If not,
I'll just like to know what "Sozinha Minha" means.
*No translation sites*
I will know if you use them.

This song is in Portuguese it goes like this and I hope this helps here it is.

Alone mine when see to your Sad face when lime, sad when speaks I see the silence of the Alone pain mine, the
your gesture that collapses Squeak barely tear, rhyme barely tear Forgets the your eyes in myself Without try
to say That is everything equal AND everyone walks of that skill Always the same skill That alone gives will
of disappear Because is everything equal AND everyone walks Always the same skill Then embraces me and forgets
All the mourning that that world has


and thats all I got hope it helps!!

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okay, so there's a guy that i've known for a couple of years, but was never really friends with. i really like him and i have every way of talking to him at school and i have his e-mail. right now i'm taking it slow and getting to know him. and everything is figured out.

but later on after the patience of waiting,which i can handle, how will i be able to tell if he likes me or not? how can you tell if a guy likes you or not in general?

i'm a girl and i'm straight. just to let you guys know.

thanks in advance. =]

Well from my experience lol a guy will flirt with you and hang out with you more then he would usually would. He could even ask you out or something. But he could act kinda foolish around you and act kinda dumb thats what a lot of guys do just to let you know. Well I hope this helped.

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I am 16/f, just to get that out of my way.

Let me just start off by saying, I have been in and out of maybe 6 relationships ever since 9th grade, I am now in 10th, and those have never lasted longer than 2 weeks. Various reasons to be broadly stated.

So I've been off dating field for about 6 months when I meet this great guy and things went good so now we are going out and I am surprise to say that we have been going out for about 3 weeks...(ha yes, 3 weeks isn't long time but it is to me compared to other relationships) and just couple days ago my bf told me, "i know this is a day late(referring to valentines day), but I love you"

and i was COMPLETELY shocked by this. My head is going out of control thinking, how could you love me? how can someone LOVE someone when they known each other for less than a month and have been going out for little over 2 weeks?

I mean i didnt tell him, I just told him that I am really not ready to say I love him, but i really do like him a lot. Which I am glad that he understood perfectly well and wasn't upset in any way.

So I don't regret anything on that, but What my real question is, Is it possible for someone to love someone in that short amount of time?

I mean, I am not doubting his affection for me and his respect for me nor am I really going to ask him but on the back of my mind, I can't help but to wonder, is he really saying that because he mean it?

I mean i did ask if he meant it and he looked at me straight in the eye with serious face...

and also, how do I know if i LOVE him? obviously I have never loved somebody... Yeah i know I am suppose to just "know" if its love but still...

I was thinking of asking him that question... "Define Love"

Thank you

Well ok I have a girlfriend and we have known each other for more over a year. But then we just knew that we liked each other and then like 5 months later I think i told her I loved her it took awhile so my point is that you need to be careful cause I don't think that relationship should go that fast I'm not try to say anything but relationships and things you say should not be that fast. I hope this helped if you need anymore help just let me know and leave it in my inbox. Thanks!!!

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Hi, can anyone help me, I'm turning 16 in a few months and I've never even been on a date!
I feel so pathetic, no boys ever even smiled at me!
I have loads of friends (mostly girls) and they tell
me I'm pretty, but I think they just feel sorry for me. Does anyone have any advice (I'm a girl by the way) even if I do get a boyfriend now, he'd probably be into much more serious stuff than I'm ready for.

Well advice is to be flirty around the guys they like that and for your friends you should not worry what your friends think about you cause if you are not the best looking person they will fill sorry for you and lie to you so flirt around guys and then get to know some of them and just go from there. Just relax and have fun I hope this helps.

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Does anyone know any foods that will make my skin look good? I need to look PERFECT at my grad

They say that fish helps its the fish oil and you can buy fish oils at a vitamin shop. Hope this helps.

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