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ok i just got a letter inviting me to join the people to people ambassador program and our oriantation is at carrol senior high school in southlake! has anyone here been on a people to people trip and if so, how much was it because im sure its really expensive and do u have any good fundraising ideas!! thanx so much!! (link)
i went to california and it all added up to around $4000 but i loved every second of it (2 weeks) and im so glad i went

for fundraising let people no what your fundraising for and that is educational and all that

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good luck


I know i already talked about this but i dont care. its REALLY BUGGiNG ME. my bestfriend krystal got a new bestfriend heather. and everything about her just kills me. the simplist things. i dont care if im accting immature. i dont want to make new friends. and i dont want to be friends with heather, the one who's stealing krystal away from me. all krystal talks about is heather this and heather that and how GOOD she is. it gets to me, so much. i cry myself to sleep so much. what do i do? i have already told krystal multiple times that i feel left out and ignored. (link)
hahaa your a real comedian your the kind of person that i hate someone comes on here looking for help and you give them so stupid remark

ok now about krystal and heather

okay well krystal is your bestfriend right?

so krystal should always be your bestfriend with or without heather

if krystal doesnt understand that you are left out than krystal doesnt understand anything about being bestfriends

krystal doesnt sound like much of a bestfriend to me

thats all i have to say

good luck

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Well Lately people have been spreading rumours about me that I am easy and a slut and stuff. And then one of my really good friends called me easy and a slut and it really hurt meh! And I really hate rumours like this! it hurts meh really badly. And also lately my parents have been yelling at me about stupid phone bills! And my dad pushed my sister about it and it really scared meh! I used to be abused when I was little but my family got help and its ok now but when he pushed her it just brought back all the bad memorys! Also for about two yeaars up until around march I was suicidal but then I got the cops called on meh and they came to my house and it was really scary so I stopped cause I didnt want that to happen again! Also I was anerexic and balimic on and off for about 2 years also. Lately alot of things have been happening that have made me want to result back to cutting but I don`t want to and I find myself going into the bathroom alot staring at blades just thinking about it and wanting to but then I come in my room and stay here. Also Sense the rumours I have been feeling useless and like I`ll never find a guy that will treat meh good and Ive just felt like I wont ever be special to anyone and its been getting me really depressed. Wanting to work out heavely to make myself look prettyer. I dont know what to do! I Want to know ways to look prettyer and maybe get guys to like meh and I need advice on my cutting and all the other stuff I wrote about! please help
14/f
_please
love maddie (link)
well maddie, by the way i know alot of hot girls named maddie well okay sorry i just had to say that

ways to look prettier well i would say act prettier... don't make guys notice you LET guys notice you let your image speak for itself

i dont no much about fashion so i cant help ya there

but if at 14 there's any guy worth dating he's going to care alot about who you are inside

good luck

if you need anymore help put one in my inbox or email me

baseballislife4444@yahoo.com


i just broke up with someone and want them back, i was wondering what guys would find more attractive. i girl that plays hard to get and pretend im over him then tell him when im ready i still like him or tell him i like him and i regret it and stuff. thanks (link)
don't play hard to get it doesnt work if you dumped him because he probablly still wants you back and if you play hard to get he might get the wrong message and then the relationship would be ruined

don't be hard to get

good luck


I want to do something fun and exciting on a date wiht my bf. somethin that will really be fun. any ideas (link)
this may sound weird but try paintball... it's alot of fun and guys love it and paintballs dont hurt bad they just sting for a second wear sweatshirt with a long sleeve t-shirt and sweat pants with a pair of shorts underneath (make sure these aren't important clothes as they will get dirty) and i would just wear a cheap pair of tennis shoes

hope it works


I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do? (link)
ok the worst that could happen is he says no and your already prepared for that right? so what do you have to lose
belive me you'll feel worse if you dont tell him and never know then if you tell him and he rejects him

one of my friends told me that our worst regrets are those that we areselves could have prevented


I was wondering...what is the song called that the end of the chorus I think goes like "I'm beggin you, I'm begging you, I'm begging you to be my escape"? Also, who is it by, and do they have a cd?- what is the cd called? Thanks. (link)
its called be my escape by reliant k and they have a new cd out called MmHmm

if you have an intrest in music email me baseballislife4444@yahoo.com


When should you start visiting colleges and looking at them? (link)
junior year


I'm 35 yrs old, met a great person after a bad relationship, for four good years of ups n downs we stuck it through. the fifth yr we had a child, we got much closer, our child help us realized that even though we were sruggling in our relationship we needed to care for him together till the end. Unfortunately the next 31/2 three yrs it went downhill, even counseling did not work, I loved her enough to continue but she needed out. So it happend, we went our separate ways, but our child came first in everything. I fell in love with a wonderful woman that has three children, 6,10 and 15 yrs of age. She is wonderful, but we do have our differences. Been seeing her 1 yr now allthough its not perfect between us, we both agree we are in love and should make a future together. We both tried to end and let go several times but gave in to our feelings for each other each time. Right about now my X wants me back, she is the biggest hearted person I have ever met, and her intentions, as far as I'm concerned, will always be wonderful. Realizing she was wrong she found that all she needed was time to clear her mind, knowing that it could be to late for us, she asked me to be a family again, which is what I wanted all the time. I don't think can get used to the feeling of me living a future with good children and knowing my own child is without me. But I realy love this other person and its hard to be with out her. I love my X dearly but its not the same any more, she needs me more than ever now and my heart is aunxiuos and willing to be there for anything she needs, my 5yr old also needs me by his side it kills me to think of life for us both without each other, and me giving time and attention to others. My god tells me to come home and take the pain and leave the one I truely love and hurt her as well, and my heart can't stop thinking about my true found love. I cry when I think of it. My child, his mom and there need for me, my mind is so messed up because and my heart longs for the woman I love. It's time to make a decision and I can't. Either way I loose. Can someone try and help please, WHAT CAN I DO? (link)
okay im 13 and i hope you take this seriously but dude your kid needs you man so whatever you picked dont forget that your son needs you



I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."

I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.

I can't believe this. :( (link)
i've gone through this a few times with horrible break ups and heart breaks
okay well the first thing you need to understand is that this is just 1 guy and their are much more guys that are probably much better people this guy sounds like he's a jerk so just don't worry about him and about this shea girl dont worry about her dont let her get to your head or anything just forget this guy ever happened

okay and if you wanna talk more my email is
baseballislife4444@yahoo.com


13/m hey i need advise on askin a girl out. im about to ask her out but then i get chicken. HELP!!! And i have never made-out with a girl and im 13. do most kids make out b4 13? And when will i no wen to kiss her? (link)
hey dude im 13 and i havent made out with anyone and im popular play baseball and all that...
ok and take your time asking her out
go somewhere and then at the end be like "this was fun wanna do it again sometime" and it should be fine from there

i play for parma thunder 13U travel puritas eastern ohio... we're pretty good and if you would like to talk more email me baseballislife4444@yahoo.com


Im going into 7th grade and never had a bf!
Everyone tells me im pretty and I've been popular and everything at my school. Im even a model!
But I dont brag or anything
But anyways theres this boy I like and I really want to get closer to him. Once he tried to kiss me but my mom walked into the house and he stopped. And now were kinda like friends. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me again? (link)
i'm a guy so i no about these things

now guys love it when girls tell them they like them.

back when i was your age there was a girl that sounds very much like you and she liked me so she got me to dance with her and it just clicked so if you have any dances dance with him and also ask him little things like if he likes your hair
hey it worked for her :-)


Hey Everyone!! Well I met this guy a month ago and we completly fell for eachother. The problem was our age differences because I'm 15 and he's 20 so he decided that he couldn't be w. me because i'm too *Immature.* Recently I've been checking out his profile just to look @ his pictures and I came across his new GF!! I have to admit that they look really happy together and I'm happy 4 him but @ the same time I wish that I was his GF. I can't stop thinking about the fact that he's moved on so quickly and I'm still getting no where. I really like him but I know there can't be anything between us..How do I get over him?? Please help!! (link)
you cant get over him quickly thats the problem with all relationships gone bad

i probally cant say anything to make you get over him but one of my best friends told me this :time heals all wounds
hope it helped


ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem? (link)
its cool that u like a younger girl and its no big deal either and its not a problem man so just dont worry about it and if anyone gives you crap for likin her than defend yourself and who you like


13/f Ive played basketball for 5 yaers but this is diffrent i realy wanna make the JV squad and lets just say since last season ended in March ive done alot if couch sitting and junk food eating...what can i do to get back in to shape...tryouts are November 4th (link)
run every day for about a mile a day...
sittups pushups increasing each by 5 every week...
also bike ridings great... ride your bike to the store or to an ice cream shop also eat healthy


Ok, I'm 13 (14 next week), 5'1", and 161 pounds. I'm very overweight. Embarrasing, but it's the truth. I need to lose weight. I really want to lose like 50 pounds by Christmas possibly sooner. My mom was going to order the Nutrisystem foods for me but it has been delayed(probably cancelled) cuz we just can't afford spening 300 dollars on something like that right now. Is there anything else out there that can help me?! I don't want diet pills or ebooks but maybe some type of prepackaged food meals that maybe are a little cheaper. Or like a diet plan just for me that doesn't cost much!!! (link)
okay first off excersise is really important
do pushups & situps increasing how many you do by 5 every 2 weeks do that
every day then after you do your sittups and pushups go running around your block or street
and you should run about a mile a day (walkmans and cheap cd players r good and you could get them for a cheap price)

now about eating... ok nothing fried... not to many calories... try things like rotissere chicken and veggies and fruits and not to many sweets... and if your hungry for junk food that just means your hungry for real food and should eat something good...
good luck


school's starting soon and i have no friends there. i usually follow this group around b/c i have nobody else to. they never talk to me ever. nobody does. i'm like an outcast with no friends. i try talking & they talk back, but then it just doesn't work out. i've tried everything, i can't make friends. i make friends real easily outside school b/c i'm outgoing, but in school, i try being outgoing and everyone blocks me out. i can't move to a new school. i don't know what to do. please help i need friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
ok first off you cant make anyone be your friend

now onto making friends
if you school has any sports like baseball softball football basketball chearleading try those (sorry i dont no if your a boy or girl) also find people with common intrests maybe you like the same bands as someone or maybe you like the same college football team something like that and also just try to act casual
dont be all like nervous and jittery...
make them think that you would like to be their friends but you dont NEED to be their friends...
well hope i helped good luck and stay calm
friends come and go


i have scars from acne on my forehead, i was wondering what can i use to have to scars fade awayy? any help? (link)
vitamin e works sometimes...


alright. this will be long.
me and my boyfriend have known eachother since kindergarden. we went out in sixth grade, and broke up after 4 months of seeing eachother.
i am in love with him, and he knows it, because we have been going out again since the 2nd. last night he told me he loved me as well.
my parents do not approve of him though. i think it is because my mom thinks he lies to me (which he doesnt) and my dad never liked any boy i went out with (because that's just how dads are) my sister doesnt like him, either, and i dont know why she doesnt.
how can i get my family to approve of him?
(link)
have him over for dinner and tell him to shake ur dads hand
dads love it when boyfriends shake thier hands




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