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How do i get over him??
Hey Everyone!! Well I met this guy a month ago and we completly fell for eachother. The problem was our age differences because I'm 15 and he's 20 so he decided that he couldn't be w. me because i'm too *Immature.* Recently I've been checking out his profile just to look @ his pictures and I came across his new GF!! I have to admit that they look really happy together and I'm happy 4 him but @ the same time I wish that I was his GF. I can't stop thinking about the fact that he's moved on so quickly and I'm still getting no where. I really like him but I know there can't be anything between us..How do I get over him?? Please help!!
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I liked someone quite a while ago when i was 12 and he was 17 so i know what it feels like and i was friends with his girlfriend. You must accept his choice, but when he brakes up with his current girlfriend then you could try to get him again and act more mature around him this time. Then he may decide that he's made the wrong choice before, but if not then enjoy yourself at the age that you are, theres tons of great guys that are 15 that are waiting for dates =)
Good Luck getting him back and I hope this advice helps you
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Get A knew BoyFriend this time make sure that he is within 15 to 17 20 is way to old and make sure that he really likes you that way when you want to brake up you won't be hurt but let him down easy
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You can't just forget about someone just like that it takes time. Try doing something you like. A sport maybe or a hobbie? It's ok if your not over him it's gonna take some time. In the mean time hangout with some of your friends and do somethign together.
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well, first of all, stop checking his profile, that just makes it worse.
you are 15, and i know that having a BF is 'important', but you need to know that its ok to be single.
stop thinking about him, or try. things are going to remind you of him, but by going to his profile...that's just bad.
get together with some of your girls and some of your boys and just hang out. your mind will be off of him in no time.
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I apologize now for any harshness you percieve in my answer:
First of all, I'd like to tell you that you can't fall in love in a month. Fall in lust, yes. Love, no.
I have to tell you that you're right about the two of you not being together. At least, not now because you are too immature for him. You're 5 years younger than him, and you're a minor when he's an adult. If you dated him now, he could be arrested for statuatory rape, or something along those lines.
To get over him, you have to stop dwelling on him. Don't look at those pictures of him and his girlfriend. In fact, forget that he exists. Spend your time with your friends, at work, at school. Join a club, or a team. DO something, and eventually you'll find a guy who's your age, and doesn't think you're too immature to be with him.
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I kno its hard but always think of him as a friend! He probably is very nice and sweet but there is tons of fish in the sea!! Go fishing! lol
Dont worry about some one you cant have always think about all the guys out there you can have!!
If you meet some one you like start hanging out with him you will be over the other guy quickly!
good luck! xox
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Just think about if you were his girlfriend the cops would always be there. I think he just lead you on to see what you were made of. Your 15 and he's 20 of course he's going to say your immature. Personally, I think 20 and 21 year old men are so immature. God they get me on webcam showing me their dicks. I'm only 13. So screw him he's no good just try and think in the back of your head all you would have had with him was having your parents call the police if they ever found out and throwing his ass in jail. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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you cant get over him quickly thats the problem with all relationships gone bad
i probally cant say anything to make you get over him but one of my best friends told me this :time heals all wounds
hope it helped
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This might hurt you a little, but, its not hard for a 20 year old guy to get over a 15 year old girl. And besides, he couldn't be with you because you were immature. He couldn't be with you because you're not of legal age. He could be arrested if ya'll two were seen together!
Just think, there are so many guys that go to your school that I'm positive you'll find someone. Besides, you really should date closer to your age. If you still have feelings for him, you're gonna have to wait 3 years when you're legal. I answered the best I could. Good luck!
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it takes time to qet over someone .. just keep yourself busy [ bowlinq with friends, readinq, shoppinq ] you somehow have to accept the fact that he moved on and now has another love even thouqh thats qonna be hard =[ but it takes time
katie <33
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