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Question Posted Monday August 8 2005, 10:23 am

school's starting soon and i have no friends there. i usually follow this group around b/c i have nobody else to. they never talk to me ever. nobody does. i'm like an outcast with no friends. i try talking & they talk back, but then it just doesn't work out. i've tried everything, i can't make friends. i make friends real easily outside school b/c i'm outgoing, but in school, i try being outgoing and everyone blocks me out. i can't move to a new school. i don't know what to do. please help i need friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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shutupnkissme98 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:24 pm:
try talking with a different group of people. you and the people you hang out with rite now are probably just on different levels and dont get along relly well.hope i helped XoXo

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xO_aLex_xO answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 2:25 am:
what i did when i changed skls was that i just kinda struck up random conversation with like- " did you think that science test was hard?" or like " are you excited about the dance, what are you gonna wear..." this will lead to conversation...try to get people when they are alone- its harder to talk to a group cuz theres too many people...if you end up befriending one person- you will eventually end up befriending all of their friends- and BAM- youve got friends!!

hope i helped

muchh lovve

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margarita_luvs_ya answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 6:44 pm:
You sound like this girl I know at school. Well if people can't accept the person who you are then it's their problem just act friendly to everyone. I'm sure you'll find a friend soon. Try throwing a party. Or if you think it'll help a mini make-over nothing drastic but like anew look for a new start...Good Luck.

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Teza answered Monday August 8 2005, 12:38 pm:
Making friends will take some time. I mean you have to get to know everyone first. There is one thing you need to do though.. JUST BE YOURSELF. As all of us say that we're right. If people dont like you because of who you are then that is just really lame.. anyways. The best way to get to know people and make friends is sign up for clubs && sports at your school. A lot of people do them and you will be talking to people there like crazy. Dont just go so you can make friends but have fun with it and be outgoing and friendly and everyone will like you. Good luck!

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baseballislife44 answered Monday August 8 2005, 10:29 am:
ok first off you cant make anyone be your friend

now onto making friends
if you school has any sports like baseball softball football basketball chearleading try those (sorry i dont no if your a boy or girl) also find people with common intrests maybe you like the same bands as someone or maybe you like the same college football team something like that and also just try to act casual
dont be all like nervous and jittery...
make them think that you would like to be their friends but you dont NEED to be their friends...
well hope i helped good luck and stay calm
friends come and go

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X_Amanda_X answered Monday August 8 2005, 10:29 am:
Just be yourself! If you can't find any friends that like you for who you are then there is no point in having friends at all! If you just talk to people and be yourself, there will be at least 1 person who likes you for who you are and you will become friends!


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