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Im Nicki, im 15 and im from London. I love helpin people out and some people on this site give really good advise which has really helped me too xxxxxxxx
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Location: London
Occupation: School Girl
Age: 15
Member Since: February 28, 2004
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Last Update: August 2, 2005
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Does sex always hurt the first time? My friends say it does... but are there any ways for it to not hurt at all? (link)
well the more 'tense' or nervous u r the more it will hurt, if ure relaxed and ready then it wont hurt as much. it kinda also depands on da size of his dick!! lol. xxxx


Hi, OKay I skipped my period for 3 months and then started again. But I am really heavy compared to my normal. Is that normal? (link)
Yea dats fine, but if ure on 4 more dan 10 days den it may b worth goin 2 c a doctor bout it!!!
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okay.. whats the difference in making out.. and french kissing and normal kissing? sorry... but i honestly dont know..

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well.....
french kissing - using touges
kissing - without touges
making out - jst a bit of both really!!


do people really like stick gerbils or animals in thier buttholes? (link)
ermmm dats totally growse - not 2 mention cruel, i hope not coz dats realllllllyyyy sick!!!


there is this guy that i like.. and well he likes me too.. and we acted like we were goin out.. and now that we are.. its like he doesn't want to talk to me.. and i like him a lot.. and one of his friends said that he told him we were goin out but to keep it secret.. wut does that mean.. and i dont know what i should do... (link)
well maybe he's embarrased 2 ave a girlfriend in fornt of his m8z!! guys r wierd like dat, it cnt b dat he dont like u coz he woulnd b goin out wit u!!! i no dis is probly not wot u wanna hear but i would tlk 2 him about it coz theres nt much else u can really do!!
hhope it goes k xxxxxxxxx


im 16/f and i really like this boy but hes in a younger grade then me. hes still older than me because he got held back. he really likes me and wants us to hook up, but i dn, for some reason, the grade thing really bothers me...and i dont even know if im ready for a relationship. i like him most of the time, and other times he is a bit too immature...what the hell do i do? (link)
well y dont u go out AS FRIENDS and see what happens, hey if you dont like him in dat way, or arnt ready then u havent commited ureself to anything!! if u do like him thoe, go out again!!
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Hey I want to loose 100 pounds in 1 year! Thats my goal. Anyways. What are some excersizes i can do and how often,how long and ect to do them. What food do i eat? And do you have any sites? That can help me. Thank you so much i will rate everyone a 5 if you help! Ill even rate you if you didnt help because you tried lol. (link)
k well i lost 3 pounds in 1 week by cutting out chocolate, sweets, crisps and fizzy drinks!!! and playin about 5 hours sport a week. i would just try eating healthy and when you feel hungry drink water and if your still hungry eat fruit!!

i rekon you should take up a sport, e.g tennis. meaning that you can enjoy it because its socialble, but achive somethng by getting better and loosing wieght. you could join a club, then you will meet loads of new people 2!! If you jst use an exercise bike - its no fun and ure jst counting the time left and the calories!!

let me know how u get on xxxxxxxxx


Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem? (link)
i couldnt b that she is pregnant 4 a start. But it might b the sign of something else, so i would advise her to see a doctor about it jst incase
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Hey, my girlfriend and I are really close and i love her so much but lately she doesnt seem as interested in me as her friends, i don know maybe its just me but it feels like she doesnt like hanging out with me anymore, even though i know she loves me. please help me. (link)
well girls always love hanging out wit their friends, somtimes i prefer it 2 hangin wit my boyfriend. girls love chattin and spendin girly days shoppin and stuff - all things dat boys arnt very gd at!! (no offence) but its true. She must still like spendin time wit u ovawise she wouldnt in a relationship wit u. but her friends are jst as important in her life as you are. so bear with it, but i would tell her how u feel if u are really not happy!!
hope i helped xxxxxxxxxx


i am finally over my ex but now i find myself constantly thinking about my best friend's ex. i missed him while i was on vacation..do i have a crush on him? If i do...what should i do? should i tell him? my friend still isnt completely over him.. what if he likes me too? oh and im a 14 yhear old girl (link)
ok well ask ure friend what she thinks, if shes dat good a friend she will understand, but dont ruin your friendship ova a guy!! becuase you should always put ure friens first xxxxxxxx


hi does toothpaste rellay work on pimples/zits?!
KLG (link)
erm neva tried1!!! y dont you try spot cream!!! xxx


ok so i got those glasses with the plastic frames last year cuz i liked them (at the time). they r blue with sparkles. i got them from da adult section cuz they werent in the kids section. at the time i didnt realize that they were too big for my small face soo i never wear em anymore. im afraid people will make fun of me, so i dont risk it. im only supposed to wear them at school and at home watching tv or sumthin anyway but sometimes i feel like i cant see anything without it being blurry. i dont want to wear the glasses at school cuz they look bad on me but i need to c the board. last year i got bad grades cuz i couldnt see anything. please dont nag me for getting the glasses in the first place, i cant fix that now. its already been done. please, i dont want to wear them cuz i made fun of enough but i need to see. what should i do? (link)
well u could tell ure mum that and den she mite sypathise enouge 2 let gt u another pair or even contacts!! no1 likes 2 b made fun of!! maybe she'll understand!!! let me know what happens!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


ok well i'm usually an active person. i play soccer and basketball alot and i'm on the school teams... i hurt my ankle so im out for a little in my soccer season... how can i stay in shape for when i can play again and possibly lose a little weight? (link)
eat healthily!! i cut out chocolate, fizzy, sweets and crisps and lost 3 pounds in a week!!! try sit ups, and stomach crunches!! theyll tone up ure tummy 2!!!


ok theres this guy that i met online ad we talked and stuff and i sorta like him and he likes me and we talk on the phone everynight now he wants to meet me do u think i should meet him (link)
if you are 100% (and i mean 100%) sure that he is the age he says he is, if uve seen him on webcam then you can get a rouge idea of what he looks like. but if youve only seen pictures of him he could b anybody!!! i would go 2 meet him with a couple of mates - dont go alone thoe!!! he mite not b as nice as he makes out he is!!!
hope it goes ok xxxxxx


my best friend changed so much in the past year. when i first met her she was almost prude and she was such a lil goody goody. she said she would never let a guy go up her shirt and how she would be afraid to jerk off a guy because she would think she'd hurt him lol. well she has been with this guy for about a lil bit over a year now. she has changed so much. she's drinking now, she has sex.. like too much sex (she does it with him every night like 3x) i really dont know what to do. i hate the fact that she has changed so much. all of our friends say the same thing and talk behind her back. they say stuff about how shes changed so much and how gross her and her boyfriend are when they are out in public with us. a little while ago her and her boyfriend were on me and my boyfriend's asses about how we hang out too much.. well now they are being hypocrits bc ever since they started having sex, they have been hanging out like everyday. i wonder if its because they wanna have sex? idk but i really need to say something but i dont know how.. what do you think? (link)
i kinda know what you mean, my best friend who ive known since i woz like 3, has turned into such a slag, having sex like all da time wit her bf's. she used 2 b luvly and really nice, now shes hangin round smokin and gettin pissed. I really wish she went back 2 how she used to be. Ive still stayed in touch with her but weve gone our separate ways, it is hard but if thats what she wants to do then you cnt change that, but i would talk to her and see if you can sort it out first. hope it goes alrite hun xxxxxxx


does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me (link)
well age doent really matter, BUT.... he is probably going to want to do more things than you will probably be ready to do, if you do end up going out dont let him pressurise you into doing something you dont want to do!!! hope it all goes well hun xxxxx


I am a mother of young children . You probally dont have any , I hope not . Anyways you are young so I'll see if you can help me ; WHAT CAN I DO TO GET MY CHILDREN TO LISTEN TO ME ? I have to tell them to do something like a hundred times by then I just get mad . Thanks AAWE (link)
just threaten them that you will take away their pocket money, or worse - tell them that if they dont do what their told they will not be allowed to go to that party they've been looking forward to. The thing is if they dont do what thier told you have to go through will your punishments, otherwise they will never learn!! xxx


my son will start secondary school in a year and already he`s been told how the year 11 pupils put the year6 head down the toilet and push them around, hes panicking over this, ive explained that its all just a myth but hes worried, can anyone reassure him that this doesnt happen (link)
im in year 9 now and i have NEVER heard of anyone who has ever seen 'the blue fish'. Dont worri you'll be fine, i no loadz of yr 11z and day dont do dat - i promise

Hope it helpz!

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I love someone very much. Everytime I see him I feel like I can fly. But he has a crush on my best friend. But she doesnt like him that way. I love him with all my heart. How can I let him know how I feel? I'm afraid if he doesn't feel the same way I'll lose our friendship... (link)
.YOu have got it bad for this guy - i would so go 4 it. Drop hints and get your friend to talk to him about you, get her to drop hints dat you like him 2! Take it slow dont rush things and if you 2 were meant to b something will hapen!

Let me no how it all works out !

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx gd luck!xxx


Why are people so mean?? Are any of you like that...you know...where you think you're too good for everybody else? (tell the truth) Because I want to know what you guys think...and I just hate life sometimes. I pay them NO MIND...but it's just sad...to watch how other people squirm under their wrath...I hate it...
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i am not normally a mean person but if someone starts on me or bitches about me i can be such a bitch to them.

Im 14 and there is some girls in my class like that, but the thing is as much as you want to knock em out you no that you will have the sh*t beaten out of you if you do!

My friend got beaten up the other day really badly for just giving one of them evils - sad eh? she had a broken nose and there was blood everywhere.

But just think about it they wil be nowhere in a few yrs time and youll be the 1 with the gd job, friends and a family. They will be the ones with no job and a kid hu they dont no hu da father is

Dont let em get 2 u everywhere you go there will be people like that you just gotta put up wit it - its life im afraid!




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