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I'm In Love
I love someone very much. Everytime I see him I feel like I can fly. But he has a crush on my best friend. But she doesnt like him that way. I love him with all my heart. How can I let him know how I feel? I'm afraid if he doesn't feel the same way I'll lose our friendship...
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First, I think maybe you should sit down and have a talk with him. You shouldn't lose your friendship when all you're doing is being honest. Get what i'm saying? YOu can't help but feel more for him. Tell him how you feel. Maybe he feels the same but also feels he is going to lose your friendship. Life is about taking chances its time to take a chance.
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The problem with crushes is that it can make you an idiot about other things. Eventually his crush on your friend will be gone, especially since she just doesnt feel the same way.
He may come around to caring more about you, but dont be upset if he doesnt. There are plenty more males out there and if he doesnt notice you then someone else out there will, you've just got to wait.
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.YOu have got it bad for this guy - i would so go 4 it. Drop hints and get your friend to talk to him about you, get her to drop hints dat you like him 2! Take it slow dont rush things and if you 2 were meant to b something will hapen!
Let me no how it all works out !
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx gd luck!xxx
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Hey!
Aw hun, I've been in this situation and it's terrible. In fact, I really like someone whose been one of my best friends for years, but he's going away to university next year and I was in two minds as to whether to tell him or not.
Well, my advice to you is to sum up how much you value this guy's friendship, and how likely it is that he will react badly. You say he has a crush on your best friend, so maybe you could tell her how you feel about it. If this guy is genuine, you'll be able to sit him down and talk to him about this; but i think you really have to consider your friendship. I went out with a guy called Tony. We were really really close friends, but when we went out he cheated on me and things deteriorated and he never got my friendship back, and I never got his.
I know it's tough, but trust me, you're not the only one. I hope everything works out for you x
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Ahh dude, never let your heart rule your head, look you obviousely see that if you admit your feeling that your friendship might be put on pause for a very long time, so try not to become obsessd by this guy, i've been there and its not to much fun once they find out, the chase is always better than when all has been revealed. wait and see weather he give signs of attraction to you, but becarefull because your 'inlove' they might seem like they mean more than they actually do.
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