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real confused!!
hi, it's me again who wrote before, "wat do u think" well bascially i have this male friend in college and his quite older then me, the thing is we have a good times by ourself or in groups but the thing is sometimes i'm confused in what things he say's to me and why? he say's thing's like it's just like being married to you? i mean wat was tht all about?? and he also said this in a joke way before that he said "you need relationship counselling i think" as in a jokey way though, then i replied and said; well look who's talikng when you are then one had lots of breakdowns in your past relationship and being dumped ny your ex-girlgriends then he say's; i actually dumped them when only he was trying to deny himself but when i said that he had a grin on his face and went red.
As in the other hand i'm single and i havn't been out with any one for a long time even though i had lots of guy's askin me out in college and out of college but thats not the point i didnt say this to him though because he was saying to me in a joke way and saying are you trying to play hard to get? wat was he on about there! not only that he say's that he has a great sociable time with me when were alone and has called me "you'r such an sex symbol" and no wonder why older guys prefer you more is because you are so attractive and nice/very mature and loving caring person etc...
He also said the other day i can imagine already bumping into you in 8yrs time having lunch with you while you tell me everything about your life.
i mean he does talk to me alot and has a happy smile when i say something to him or make him laugh alot and sometimes he goes red, i'm just confused when he says things tome and why does he say it and what does he mean about it's like being married to you. Recently he has been in a funny mood blanking me then talking to me and sayin is everything ok and how r u etc.. but then agian he makes me be the last perosn to be looked at while he takes his time talking to other girls but i don't mind it's just that why doe she keep me the last one to be listned to is it because he is trying to get my attention or what? and when he talks he looks deep down m eye even thogh my hair is in the way it's like he is trying to serach them and when he talks to teh other girls he always try to glance at me every now and then if i'm looikn or not or wat am i doing? also he does tease me alot and jokes with me alot and winks at me when ever he see's me and say's frount of people it's like being married to you, and he does say hi all the time or if i don't reply he will say it continously and tells me at least you can smile back at me or say hello! and not only that he said i remind him soo much of his ex-girlfriend as he was laughing but he used to say nice thing about her, even though it's his x and he said i also remind him of somebody else with a happy face but why does he mention these peculiar things to me or says it to me then somebody else and he always takes me as a game or a joke and somtimes not taking me seriously or listening to me apart from mirroing me with his face expression or when i say something he is trying to make laugh and always pull his eye-brow up and down but why it's really annoying and embrassing, but we are only gd frineds though we only known each other for 6/7 months. SO PLEASE HELP ME OUT I'M REAL CONFUSED LIKE HOW THIS PERSON IS ACTING AND SAYING THESE THINGS HELP ME UNDERSTAND WHY OR WHAT IS THIS PERSON TRYING TO SAY? ansd i never know what he means it's like being married to you he was realy laughing and having a grin on his face when he said that. well srry about this long essay and thanx ever soo much 4 ur reply tke care! bye sweet facex
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Age doesn't matter. It really doesn't. As long as you two know eachother well enough, love eachother, and can bare eachother for millions of years to come, then there is no problem at all. Unless he wants a piece of your arse! =0!
I think he is trying too hard asking you out. Hehe...just ask him what's up.
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He could be joking...trying to play with your feelings, even if he doesn't know it. I wouldn't like it if a guy did that to me and then go look at other girls.
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I really don't know his that well so I wouldn't be able to tell if maybe he was just joking? However, he may have been hinting to something that he wants you to know. Get him to spill his feelings a bit more, you might get to know some more information to answer this question on your own.
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Well, your description was a bit confusing and hard to read, but as far as I can tell, the guy is flirting with you like crazy.
How old is he, and how old are you? It's possible that he's really interested in you but thinks it would be kind of sleazy to ask you out because of the age difference you mention. If that's the case, then maybe he's decided just to enjoy the flirtation for its own sake -- or maybe he's sending you the strongest I-LIKE-YOU signals he can in the hope that you'll take the hint and be the one to initiate something, and he won't have to feel like a dirty old man.
If the age difference isn't anything major, then I'm not sure why he hasn't just bitten the bullet and asked you out. He may just be the kind of guy who likes to be really sure the girl is going to say yes before he takes a risk, so he's sending a lot of test balloons your way before taking the plunge. Or there may be some reason he can't date you -- maybe he's got another girlfriend? -- but he likes the sexual tension. There's really no way to tell, besides just asking him what's going on.
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