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Age: 17
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Ok there was this guy I liked named Mike...well I thought I liked him but then I jst denied it because I didn't know what people would think..ya I know I shouldn't care but I did. Well he would always get in my face and do stupid things to get my attn. so I'm pretty sure he liked me, but I jst kept ignoring him..eventually he stopped. Now I realize that I reeally really like him...but I don't know if he lost interst or just moved on! Yesterday we were standin in this little group of friends nd when i looked up he was atarin at me so, idk doeas he still liek me or what? If he does how can I get us talking?
*I'll rate!!*
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well as you can see the tables have turned, so now either you have to talk to him or flirt with him and see if he flirts back!i hope everything workds out for you!
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I tend to not think before I do or say things and Im trying to work on that because I tend to think i do stupid things around guys that I really like or around people that I want to like me. Do You have any ways I can stop this? (link)
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you should just be yourself. i dont think that tyou would want to be friends with a person who thinks you are 'stupid' which are are NOT! if you get nervous tell yourself to calm down(maybe take a deep breath) and try to only talk when answering questions or asking questions. then when you get more comfortable aroudn them you can start having "better" and more comfortable converstaions. good luck!
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here is the background knowledge you need to know. I have a lil bro . I am in 11grade. he is in 9th. I am the smart one. top of the class, honour roll and all sorts of crap. My lil bro is on the point of dropping out. for midsemester he got like 5 Fs (out of 10). My mom depends on me to ve the good example to him.
OK
now, today after class, I was on the bench outside od my class. My friend showed me a copy of the Chemistry test we are supposed to get tomorrow. So all of us on the bench (my freinds only) start to work it out and copy the answers for ourselves. NOW, my lil bro just comes out of nowhere and sees me copying down the answers. He was in a hurry and did not say anything but I think he saw me. what to do ?
and if he asks me when he gets home, what should I say?
i don't want him to think copying is the way to go. (link)
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you are in a touch situation. sit your brother down and talk to him about school and how important it is. try to tell him about how if he wants a good job he should really work hard at school, explain that not everything about school is going to perfect, like when he saw you coppying. you dont have to always be perfect, but you should try your hardest. if he doesn't respond thankful to your statement and/or accuses you of cheating then try to find out if there is something (such as problems with friends or bullying) that is hurting his self esteem to do good in school. good luck!
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ok i'm really sorry but this is really long and i need your help so please read this! xoxo
Ok, well there's this boy (lets call him Bob) and Bob likes a girl (well call her Kate) and Kate had a boyfriend at another school. Bob really REALLY likes Kate he'd always flirt with her and talk to her and stuff. BUT Bob would also flirt with me so i started liking him. But he like Kate more and I was there for "comfort" cause Kate had a boyfriend well Kate and her boyfriend broke up so Bob asked Kate out and now their going out and I'm really sad. But I kept telling my self don't fall for him he likes Kate and plus why would he like me I'm not pretty or anything. So yea basically my question is how can i like get over him and tell my self i have no change or how do i break them up well... atcually i don't know what to do all i know is I really like Bob and i think he likes me too a lil like very very VERY little cause he flirt with me too but anyways ways and i want him to be mine or not to have feeling for him. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME! THANKS XOXOX (link)
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dont' put yourself down for not getting asked out. you should really talk to your friend if you think that it's going to hurt your friendship. don't forget that you are going to meet many boys in your life, so dont' give up your hopes because you failed with one. try to be happy with your friend for getting the boyfriend. but remember, if it's something that is really hard on you, talk to your friend and she'll probobly do the right thing, as i hoep you well. good luck!
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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help (link)
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you are in a difficult situation but what you need to do is ask your best friend if he would mind if you asked his sister out on a date. i know that this is a free country and you should be able to do whatever you please, but when it's your best friends sister, you need to make sure you won't be freaking out your best friend.If he says yes than go for it, but if he says no try to reason w/him that your a nice guy and you wouln't ever hurt her. good luck!
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ok sorry its long but... i have a lot of problems and i dont know whats wrong with me. there are just so many things...here are just a few:
1-i cut myself...like really deep to the point where i pass out and wake up with blood all over
2-i pull the ends of my hair on urdge
3-i feel tension and stress about everything bad
4-i over analyze EVERYTHING makeing it scary and bad
5-i think about suicide all the time
6-my mood can change in an instant-one minute ill be all happy and something will happen or someone will say something and ill go all depressed
7-i burn myself on occasion
8-i find it really hard to express my feelings and what imthinking b/c ik that noone will understand...they will try but they just dont get what im going through unless they r goin through it too
9-i am always tired all the time b/c i dont sleep much...i havent in like a week
10-i have lost a lot of weight b/c i refuse to eat and when some one makes me eat i throw it back up
11-at times i will find my self sitting in my room and all of a sudden i will just like start crying and i will cry for hours
12-for the past year i have been trying so hard to make it sound like i am happy and im so good to the point where my parents think that i am a "happy delightful young lady who is fun to be around"
you see? there are so many things wrong with me and like i have tried sooo many different ways to cope with the stress in my life but like nothing that i have tried works! its just realy hard and idk what to do.
ill rate high for good answers...nothing cocky plz
♥ rrenef ♥ (link)
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all of these things are releaving you from some kind of stress/problem and you need to identify that. it could be from loss of friends, a divorce,self-image problems, boyfriends...the lists go on, but you have to talk to someone because you are carrying too many hurful feelings. find a trustworthy family member, friend, or even the school councelor,and just tell them because people do care about you. i care about you and i want so bad for you to become better, but you have to want that to, and that means that you shoudl talk to someone. telling someone may fell like walking around naked, but it'll help, trust me. good luck !
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I just wanted to get this off my chest and I wanted to know if it seems as though I'm going through alot for my age...I'm only 13. Here goes.
I did drugs (cocaine, and pills), I was constantly getting in fights, I've been to court 11 times, arrested 3 times, longest was for 7 months, I've been taken away from my family for a little while because I needed "help", I had a boyfriend for three years,then we got into a fight because he was moving, as soon as he left my house after the arguement he got into a fight with these people, got hit in the back of the head and died before I could say sorry about the fight, I never told my parents, they still don't know about it, after that I started to get into cutting, then I tried to kill myself by doing the following : drown myself, hang myself, stab myself in the stomach, from which I now have a scar on my stomach, had to stay in the hospital for that for a couple of months, then got taken away from the family again, then after I got out I tried to shoot myself but accidently left it on that safety thingy and couldn't get the nerve to do it again, I tried to get an ex whom was the boyfriend at rhe time to shoot me and he almost did 'til his mom walked in, I got taken away from the family again after that and was gone for about a year, he got arrested, and then I got heavier into cutting to the point where I would cut everyday even without a reason. That's when I got into the drugs then I got expelled, got sent to rader, my family now does not mention me to friend's, they tell me to my face that I'm an embarrassment, they all tell eachother they love eachother in front of me but have not once said it to me. Then I became bulimic, then anorexic, then after I stopped I found out my mom was over dosing and was bulimic and still is to this day. My brother might die at any moment because he now has heart problems and he's supposed to take medicine to help him but he doesn't take it, my parents are trying to get me sent away to korea or tennessee so I'll be out of their lives but none of my relatives in either places want me with them, I have no clue what's going on in my life anymore, my family insult me constantly, my dad and brother both hit me and I have serious health problems ( I get headaches at a minimum of 4 times a day, I pass out at least once every other week, and i throw up at least twice a week and I have no idea why) and my parents won't take me to the doctor to find out why, they've told me they hate me, and I do not understand myself whatsoever, and my parents told me pretty soon they plan on kicing me out with out a place to go and I'll just have to find out how to take care of myslef, and are trying to get me sent to a "institute" for help. And I was forced into sex because the person threathened me and I don't know if that is considered rape. Am I going through too much for my age?
Sorry it was so long... (link)
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wow you have really been through a lot and i can't make you do anything, but you know that you have to be strong. first, try talking to your mother about it, she is your family afterall, and if she can't be there for you than try talking to your school councelor or call a psychologist. i know some people think that psychologists are a load of garbage, but they are willing to listen to you and help you become well again. you know that somewhere in the future everything is going to be better, but only you can make the decision to do so. good luck.
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ok... im f/14 and weigh 109.. i was anerexice in the summer and in the begining of the school year... and weighed 102... I have been eating and as u can tell i have gained weight.. But yet i still have the thought that im fat in the back of my head... but as im eating i am getting told i look to skinny more often then i have befor.... i got told i look disgostingly skinny...? but i wiegh 109? idk im kinda confused..... (link)
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recoving from anerixia can take a long time (sometimes even a year) and you should probobly talk to a trustworthy friend/family member that can help you recover. whenever someone tells you that you look too skinny tell yourself that you are healthy. remember to eat well, exersize and feel good about yourself. if you can do these things your anerexia will be gone in no time! good luck!
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a lot of my friends have drifted away. what are some activities/ things i can do to get them back and let them know i still care? (link)
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as people grow up, they usually change and will make new friends and loose old ones. but that still doesn't mean you shouldn't see if they want to hang out still. ask if they want to come to a movie night at your house, go out for pizza, or go to the lake and swim or something. if you don't feel that you are having fun w/them anymore than you know you have drifted too far apart and their are plenty of people out there that would probobly want to be your friend! good luck!
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Hello. I was just at my friends yesterday and from about 6 to 10 she was on the computer talking to her "internet boy friend" so i hung out with her sister. Then this morning same thing over again. Her dad even told her that it was rude and she didnt care and she knew i was upset. Shes the one that invited me so it makes very little sense too me. Shes my best friend and i dont want to stop being her friend or going to her house but shes a little to attached to her computer. What should i do? (link)
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the one thing that can make a difference would be talking to her. don't yell at her or blame her for not paying attention to her. Nicely ask why she was on the computer the whole time because if you cannot tell your friend how you are feeling, then you may not be such good friends. if you still can't work up the courage to do that, try doing other activities that are not near a computer. some people become somewhat "obsessive" with messengers and certian websites. good luck!
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ok so heres the thing i just started dating this guy but he has done some bad things like he shopelifted once and he cheated on one of his old girl friends i really like him but i dont no y all my friends told me i shouldnt like him but my mom told me to do what i think is right but i really really like him and i dont think i should and it is just so confussing but he promised me he would never do that stuff agian i just dont no what i should do plz help
♥~*marykate*~♥ (link)
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don't let your friends tell you what to do. think over what you want. if he keeps his promise than i hope that you have a good relationship. tell your friends that he has changed. good luck!
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How can you tell if a girl likes you{dont say flirting}? How can you tell if a girl knows that you like her? Does anyone know any advice on girls that is hard to learn on your own or that no onr told you and you figured out yourself.
Thanks in advance.
I rate high.
--Caden-- (link)
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you can figure it out if she looks away when you look at her, if she tries to walk with you or talk with you alone, and if she smiles at you. try to get her to hang out sometime with some other friends or something...
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Hey, I'm a 14 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend and I'm ok with that and I don't intend on getting one anytime soon, but what my question is, how do I become a girl's best friend. As I said, I'm not looking for a girlfriend at the moment. I want to be close friends with girls and I want them to be able to be open with me. I usually just sit with my group of friends which I'm pretty much the "leader" of and observe the girls from far away. I want to be able to talk to girls and feel open with them and them with me. How do I do this? Thanks a bunch. (link)
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ok, you cannot make a girl be your' best friend, but try talking more to the girls you are already friends with. girls are closer to the guys that will talk and just be themselves are them. don't try to force anything...just have fun!!!
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Does anyone know how i can ask the following q's to a girl in away that wont make girls wonder why im asking it.Can you give me a sneakier way of asking the following q's
What do you like to find in a friend?
what kind of guy do you like?
Who are your friends?
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How can you find out stuff on a girl? Not like gossip but more like her fave movies and bands, ect.
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just start talking to her about music or something and then ask her what kind of music she usually listens to. Gradually fall into the subjects you want to talk about and then ask her what she thinks about this kind of guy, but don't be to questionitive or she may get curious. good luck!
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i dont know what to say or how to explain it really. im just simply, unhappy. i used to be happy, i dont know what happened. everything just feels so useless and people just suck. no one cares about anyone but themselves and i feel like im at a loss and i always find me second guessing myself. whats wrong with me? how can i be happy again? (link)
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there is nothing wrong with you. there is a way people become sad and think that everything is useless. they think that things are this way. next timek when you are feeling sad,angry or careless, try to think of good things about life. if you're bored try joining a group/club. talk to new people, and just have fun! only YOU can change how you feel.
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First of all I'm a 14 year old male. I would like to know if this girl likes me at all. Here's why I think she does: Everyday when I hang out with some of my friends, if we pass by her, for example at a football game, she'll only say Hi to me and she'll get all excited. I'm a shy kind of guy and I usually just say hi and blush. She's a popular girl and even in class when she sits on the other side of the room she'll stand up and wave and say hi. I talk to her on ICQ sometimes, but it's nothing big. Should I go up and talk to her, I mean, I do sometimes but I don't have anything to talk about. Also, She usually hangs out with older guys, would she want to talk to me? Most of the guys in my grade are immature jerks though. (link)
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it can be very confusing trying to figure out if someone else likes you. Try flirting with her and see if she flirts back. if you want to ask her without actually asking her just ask if she wants to study for a big test coming up or ask if she wants to play basketball or something sometime. spending more time with her may bring you both closer. if all else fails, just ask her if she wants to go out sometime. the worst she could do is say no, and if she's a good friend things will not change if you ask.
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ok so knowi found out that the 3 of my bf talk smack about me and call me names behing my bak. and i cant stand them because i tell 1 of my bf a secret and she tells the other one then the other one tell the other one a and everything starts going off wrong. now all of us hate each other except lets just say x and z but i dont know wut to do cuz they r my bf but like they r always talking a bunch of stuff bout me so shouldi be their frinds or just try to hang around with new ppl.? (link)
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it hurts a lot when friends disrespect you, but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't do anything abiout it. try telling them that you feel distanced from them and then ask if it's true (you heard from someone) that they said something. don't be mad when talking to them. just be calm. if they say that they are not feeling close to you anymore than try being friends with others will will respect you more. good luck~
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16/m I started Junior year a few weeks ago, and I realised that I was not having as much fun as in Sophmore year... I couldn't figure it out at first, but I realised eventually that I was not talking to my friends as much, and had sunken back behind the plane of quietness once again. I worked hard to get through it Sophmore year, and I probably still would be in it if my scenario hadn't increased.
I have friends. Last year, myself and these friends were closely bonded. Well, 1 of them became drum major. As a result, he became involved with the duties, and with the other drum major. He's gone now, and we rarely talk to him. 2 of them had formed a band with 2 outsiders last spring. They are now just so involved, that all they do is talk about the band and hang out with each other. Another 2 got girlfriends, and no longer really speak to anyone but them. A sixth and a seventh are girl magnets, and never have really been with us. 1 is the opposite pole of a girl magnet, but tries to physically be attracted. AKA, he touches them and doesn't leave them alone.
That leaves 3 of us left. 1 of them is just, different, and never has had a true relationship with us. He's all of a person who makes a hundred jokes, yet has no substance for a friendsip... Then the last two are myself and one other guy, and we get along fine and have a close relationship (Friends.)
So, what do I do? (link)
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being quiet was something i had trouble with for a while as well. the first thing you need to do is ask yourself why you don't speak up, because when you have something to say, then say it! sometimes you need to accept that your a more tranquil person than others. next, call up your friends and ask them if they want to hang out, maybe mentioning that 'you havn't done anything in a while' and then see what thier reaction is. sometimes people change so maybe a good change would be to find more friends. just remember one thing..be yourself!
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Me and my friend Alex I thought were pretty good friends. Her and I borrowed some clothes from eacho other. And last week I called her to ask her if I could come and pick up some clothes and my mom was yelling really loud in the back ground and Alex said my mom hates her. I went to her house to pick up my clothes and she really didnt say much. It was homecoming week last week and AL and I did tug of war at our pep rally and she didnt even say anything to me really. I saw her at our homecoming on saturday and all she said to me was hi..I heard from this girl Rae that I know that Alex told her about my mom. And Al doesnt like drama. I dont know if her and I are friends any more. Its not my fault that my mom was yelling. I told Al that I was sorry about it..Al and I used to hang out alot and I love the gurl to death bc she was one of my best friends..Idk if I should just ignore the problem or talk to her about it..i am usually good with situations like this but this time idk what to do..I just want all this fixed..what should I do. (link)
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ok, it's not your fault in ANY way so all you have to do is tell her in someway, (note, phone, e-mail, talking) that your mother likes her and that if she is a "real" friend she would not get mad at me for somthing that isn't true. if she choosed not to forgive you,then you need tot try to accept that she might not be mature enough for you. say that you are sorry that she feels that way about your mother, but tell her that she is a really great friend, so why should your mother have anything against her? good luck~
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im a sophomore in high school and theres this senior that is really hott. lately ive been starting to talk to him, but hes really shy, and so am i. what could i do to get us to talk more?? (link)
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Talk to him! you have to work up the courage somehow to do this because if you cannot talk to him or just go up to him and say hi, than how do you plan on even having a friendship with him?
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