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hmm help me please
Me and my friend Alex I thought were pretty good friends. Her and I borrowed some clothes from eacho other. And last week I called her to ask her if I could come and pick up some clothes and my mom was yelling really loud in the back ground and Alex said my mom hates her. I went to her house to pick up my clothes and she really didnt say much. It was homecoming week last week and AL and I did tug of war at our pep rally and she didnt even say anything to me really. I saw her at our homecoming on saturday and all she said to me was hi..I heard from this girl Rae that I know that Alex told her about my mom. And Al doesnt like drama. I dont know if her and I are friends any more. Its not my fault that my mom was yelling. I told Al that I was sorry about it..Al and I used to hang out alot and I love the gurl to death bc she was one of my best friends..Idk if I should just ignore the problem or talk to her about it..i am usually good with situations like this but this time idk what to do..I just want all this fixed..what should I do.
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Definatley talk to Alex about it. Tell her everything you wrote up there, and how you feel about it. Communication is key in any friendship, because I'm sure you would have wanted her to tell you what she was feeling or thinking. It looks like you should take a step foward. By that I mean sit her down and tell her how you feel about the whole situation and how you don't want to lose her as a friend. Ask her this: is this one incident worth destryoing our whole friendship? Personally, I don't think it is, but I don't know what either of you have on your minds, but probably something around those lines. Don't be nervous or worry too much about talking to her either. She's your friends - you know how she responds and what she is like and how to talk to her. Be yourself, and be confident. Don't make it seem like you are demanding your friendship back, or that you are extremley desperate. I'm sure that if you talk to her and give her some time and space and be there for her when she needs you, things should get back to normal. Hope that helped and good luck.
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ok, it's not your fault in ANY way so all you have to do is tell her in someway, (note, phone, e-mail, talking) that your mother likes her and that if she is a "real" friend she would not get mad at me for somthing that isn't true. if she choosed not to forgive you,then you need tot try to accept that she might not be mature enough for you. say that you are sorry that she feels that way about your mother, but tell her that she is a really great friend, so why should your mother have anything against her? good luck~
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jus tell your friend AL that you think your mom dosent hate her and that you really want to be friends and that you are sorry. basicaly what you wrote here! if she still dosent want to be your friend jus try and let go because she isnt the sort of friend your looking for!
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Tell her how you feel. And make it clear that your mom does not hate her. If she continues to ignore you, it is obvious that she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore. In that case, you should move on with your life. There are better people to be friends with than ones who treat you like shit.
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Aww Im sorry. Tell her what you are saying here. Say to her that you love her to death and that you are sorry your mom was yelling but you cant really help it. Ask her if she is OK. Take her out. ust pretend like everything is normal.
Hope it Helps!
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