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How to become a girl's best friend.
Hey, I'm a 14 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend and I'm ok with that and I don't intend on getting one anytime soon, but what my question is, how do I become a girl's best friend. As I said, I'm not looking for a girlfriend at the moment. I want to be close friends with girls and I want them to be able to be open with me. I usually just sit with my group of friends which I'm pretty much the "leader" of and observe the girls from far away. I want to be able to talk to girls and feel open with them and them with me. How do I do this? Thanks a bunch.
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ok, you cannot make a girl be your' best friend, but try talking more to the girls you are already friends with. girls are closer to the guys that will talk and just be themselves are them. don't try to force anything...just have fun!!!
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ya ok you either sound like a really sensitive girly guy.. or a fag. and it makes me laugh. jp but ya i dunno your funnyyy
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okay to get closer is to just call her up and talk to her about anything be yourself and if you be someone eles and she finds that out you can be screwed but it depends on the girl. just ask her out to dinner and to a movie or just to hang out at your house or even go bowling something fun and somewhere that you can still talk about anything....hope it works out!!
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Nobody says that because she is a girl, that you need to treat her any differently from a guy that is also your friend. Be yourself of course. You know what I mean about what stuff not to say around them though. Be open with them, and even listen to everything a girl may have to say. If you listen to a problem, don't try to come up with a solution right away: most of the time the girl just needs somebody to listen. If you can be that somebody, then things will go well from there. How do you know your friend doesn't feel the same way about you? If you aren't confident yet, then once you are, it will definatley install some confidence in your friend if she feels the same way. Also, be able to listen and talk about anything, wether its about music or purses, or just personal problems and feelings - thats what any best friend is for. So yes, start by being open yourself, and with some time, I'm sure things will fall into place. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Just go up to a girl and say HI. Introduce yourself, & if she seems like she's into the conversation, keep talking. Talk to her about anything. Get to know her better and let her get to know you. Be open with eachother. It WILL take time, but eventually she will feel open enough to talk to you. It really depends on the girl though, because every girl is different. Some are extremely shy, but once you get to know them, and they get to know you, they are really cool and talk more (because you're friends). Some girls are very open and willing to talk about anything. For example, I would consider myself one of those girls. I would most definately go up to anyone, introduce myself & start up a conversation =)
So basically, just get to know these girls. Once they know all about you & begin to have trust in you, you should be very open with eachother.
Don't be nervous or shy. & Once you become friends, start hanging out with eachother.
Good luck with "her" & If you ever need a girl's opinion, I'm 14 too, don't hesitate to ask =)
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you just have to understand them. and once you achieve that then hang out with them like you would with your friends. but to have them open up to you you have to make them feel comfterble and open up a little your self.
<3 simone
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