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Ok. This might be a bit long but please, read.

Since I was so stupid, I decided to SHAVE my eyebrows instead of plucking. So now I'm stuck with little hairs poking around my eyebrows. Then I continued to shave the little hairs and it just looks terrible. So then I started plucking the little hairs like I was supposed to. But my question(s) are these:

How can I make it so it doesn't hurt so badly?

And, when I shaved them, I did them totally wrong and small and they gah. It's just so bad.

How can I get them to look good and thin?

Thanks. :( (link)
How can I make it so it doesn't hurt so badly?

Ice it before, it really helps with the pain. Besides that, I don't really know what would help.


And, when I shaved them, I did them totally wrong and small and they gah. It's just so bad.

I did that once. They looked HORRIBLE! Here's what I did to cover up, take some eyeliner that's similar to your eyebrow color, or blend 2 if there's 2 that are close. Fill in where your "old" eyebrows used to be, and then blend it so it doesn't look so weird. In the meantime, you'll have to wait for the hairs to grow back. Here's a list of foods that help with hair growth: http://www.naturallycurly.com/phpBB/viewtopic.php?t=81834


How can I get them to look good and thin?

Here's what I did yesterday, they look great! First, I take a white eyeliner pencil, and draw lines where I want the hair to stop. On the arch, I draw just under it, and pluck out any hairs that I don't want there. On the sides, I take the pencil a and draw a line to match up the inside corner of my eye. This is where my eyebrow will start. If you don't like that, then wash off the line put it where you want it to start. I do the same thing on the outside, but only I like mine to be a little bit longer than my eye.

I hope I helped!

-Angie ♥


well, here's the whole story.
this girl, samantha, is the most annoying person on earth. she cussed me out twice for no reason what-so-ever and then no one would shut up, so i forgave her, stupidly.
she copies every single thing my friend does and says, "i only do the same stuff you do because i think it is a good idea and i appreciate you."
all she does is talk about people behind their backs, copy everything me and jessica do, make all these retarded noises, if you don't tell her a secret between you and another person that has nothing to do with her she gets really mad at you, she sings along horribly with every song that we listen to, gets mad for no reason, follows us and wont leave us alone, she's obsessed with being popular, and she's changed a lot since i first met her.
i seriously hate her now. i really just want to kind of keep my distance from her so that maybe i dont have to be such close friends with her. she doesn't even get the hint i don't like her and she doesn't realize that she's change a lot in a bad way!!
ugh! SHE'S ANNOYING THE CRAP OUT OF ME!!
what do i do or say to her to just get her to back off?! (link)
I have this same problem! None of my friend like her, and she's like obsessed with them! SHE WRITES ALL OF OUR NAMES ON HER BINDERS AND WRITES BEST FRIENDS FOR LIFE! She must be crazy! Just ignore her, I know it's hard. One day, we all wore shorts and pink tank tops to school, and we told her to wear jeans and long socks. She felt left out, and got the idea that we don't like her. Just leave her out of everything you do. She gets mad at us and is like I'm going with my REAL friends.. like she has any. Invite all of your friends to a party except her, or just go up to her and say WE DON'T LIKE YOU! DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT! Don't feel bad about being mean either, she's the one that's mean to you! she was the one who cursed you off for no reason!

I hope I helped!

-Angie ♥


my friend always tells me how everyone tells her shes sooo pretty. & like it gets annoying. & like im not jealous, because twice as many people tell me im pretty. so its not like im jealous. i just dont go around telling people, what other people say to me. like she does. so how can i make her stop?? besides saying like i dont care. bc i already tried that.. & well right now i just did & i can tell its turning into a fight. soo yahh


help? (link)
My friend does that too, I just roll my eyes. People like that are trying to dig comments out of you. That's why so many skinny girls are like I'M SO FAT even though they know they're not. They just want compliments. You're probably already confident because you don't go around trying to get compliments. This might sound a little mean because you would be talking behind her back, but trust me it worked for me, tell another one of your friends that it's soo annoying when she does that, and that she does it to get compliments. Then, tell them to tell your friend that. When she hears it, she'll probably get mad, but she'll stop, hopefully.

I hope I helped!

-Angie ♥


uhh how bad is drinking for you actually? I'm 15 I drink almost every day but I'm pretty much an honor student so I don't get it what's so bad with it? (link)
my uncle is an alcholoic. trust me it's bad when ever i see him walking around drunk, it breaks my heart it really does hurt the people around you. drinking also damages EVERY organ in your body. and if you keep on drinking, you can forget about being and honor student. drinking messes up your memory and causes birth defects. also, your breath will smell pretty bad. and if you get caught, you'll be in big trouble so please stop, you're doing more harm to you than you think.

-Angie ♥


I have light brown hair and I was wondering what I could do to get blonder hair. Not totally blonde but light blonde or dirty blonde. And I dont really wanna buy something. Maybe I could make something. (link)
some people use lemon juice, but it dries out your hair. Honey works good too, and it moisturizes your hair!

-Angie ♥


I have very curly hair and i dont know what else to do with it. I like it curly more than i do straight. Its a few inches past my shoulders and its in short layers like only 4 or 5 layers...do u have any ideas? (link)
don't worry honey, you'll have great curls if you care for them!
here are some tips:
1. Get a trim if you have split ends

2. Don't shampoo everyday try once a week (shampoo dries out the hair, and curly hair is usually drier than straight hair because the scalp's natural oils slide down straight hair easier than curly)

3. If your hair is thick, use a creamy thick conditioner, if it's fine, use a more watery one.

4. A lot of curlies don't use products with silicones because they coat the hair and need to be removed with a sulfate shampoo (sulfate is in most shampoos) Since most curlies don't shampoo everyday, build up could occur quicker if they use silicones. (silicones are ingredients that end in cone or xane. some are water-soluble go here for more info about ingredients in hair products: http://naturallycurly2.com/curlcolumns/articles.php?id=326 )

5. Do a deep conditioning treatment every week or every month depending on how dry your hair is. I use conditioner, olive oil, shea butter, and honey mixed together and heated in a microwave.
Then i leave it on for hours sometimes overnight.

6. PLEASE DON'T STRAIGHTEN YOUR HAIR! IT DRIES IT OUT. HEAT STYLING IS BAD FOR YOUR HAIR! if you must blow dry, use a diffuser. (i use the cold setting when diffusing)

7. Visit www.naturallycurly.com this site has really helped me love my hair more! I hope that you do find out how to care for your beautiful curls, you're very lucky to have them ♥

-Angie ♥


My best friend of 9 years is trying to hook up with my ex-boyfriend, who is my best friend, WHO i had sex with. She acts like theres nothing wrong with it, but it bothers me. When i tell her, she just calls me drama and starts cussing me out. Do I have a reason to be upset? I feel awful! (link)
aww sweetie, just forget about her ♥
you DO have a reason to be upset. i think you should talk to your ex and tell him how you feel, and then maybe he can talk to her. i would go with your real friend (your ex)


I'm looking for something to whiten my teeth that actually works. I was gonna try the Crest Whitening Strips but I've been getting mixed answers from people, saying they don't work/waste of money, etc. Does anyone know of something like that that actually works and makes your teeth whiter? Thanks! (link)
i've used crest whitestrips, they worked but made my teeth sensitive :[ then i heard that baking soda toothpaste works, so i tried it and it worked! you can also use regular toothpaste. but i'm sure people will love your smile wether its extremely white or not!


14/f. yep, it's another dumb crush question. Tommorow I am going to see a movie with the guy I like and my friend thats a girl. I need ANY tips to attract him to me at the movies. I already know to sit next to him. (My friend told me to drink Coke cause he would like the taste in my mouth. lol). If he tries to make-out with me, it would be my first time... so any tips on that would be good too. (unless you say 'let him lead' or 'go with the flow' or somethin like that... then i dont want it.) =] I RATE. (link)
i wouldn't drink coke, because soda + mouth = burp. that would be embarrassing if you burbed while making out. brush your teeth before and chew minty gum, before you make out, swallow it, and your excess saliva so your kiss won't be too wet (ew)


Hey i want a sick pack like an abercrombie model. I do crunches at least 500 per day.. and hardly ever see results. I know that i also need a low body fat %. like around 8-10% right? I''m very active, and play football and basketball all the time. i try to eat right but, well theres always the tempting pizza that i cook at work. What is a sure-fire way to get low bodyfat? I want to impress my girlfriend cuz she deserves someone extra special =]. please help! (link)
try doing other excercises such as weight lifting and sit-ups. you need to do cardiovasuclar excersise to burn the fat around your abs. just doing crunches won't do anything. check out this site for more info:

http://www.exercisexpress.com/abtraining.htm

there's a section that says how to do the perfect crunch (it's in yellow)
even though i'm a girl, i do crunches too! if you have a pool, try resting your legs up on the concrete or water the land around your pool is and do crunches, it's fun! make sure you drink a lot of water and stay hydrated, and if you don't get the results you want, don't get upset, your girlfriend will still love you

AND WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T TURN TO STERIODS!


hey so i got this program bearshare which downloads music on to ur itunes but i cant figure out how to get it on to my i pod it wont go on there when i update it. if you could help me that would be great. i rate high.

ohh and is bear share illegal? (link)
i've had it before, uninstall it. beacuse it messes up your computer. the actual program isn't illegal (i think) but selling songs for free is because the artists aren't making any money off of their songs. i also had an assembly in school about this, and the guy who hosted it said that lawyers can find your IP address if you download too many and come to your house and demand money.


K my bff is 14 f just like me. Like a week ago we were talking my friend seemed upset. I asked her what was wrong and she asked if I could see a lump though her bra. I said no, but I can sorta see it if i look she said she had a golf ball sie lump on her brest and is freking out, I don't know what to do she won't tell anyone and I think it would be akward for me to anyone help! (link)
she should tell an adult. it's probably just a cyst. i've had one of them, and it's no big deal it will go away, but don't worry!


okay im trying to lose weight this summer. i already know how im going to exercise but what are some good foods that i can make and are easy which are healthy?

please dont tell me fruits cuz i already know that. thanks.
ill rate high! (link)
stay away from white breads because they turn into fat easily. Salads of course are healthy and easy. Also know your portion sizes. For example, 1 serving of meat is about the size of your palm. Try new foods, varity is a key to good nutrition.


last night the kid i like asked me out, the only thing is, i dont want a boyfreind right now because there is only 7 days left of the school year until summer! and i go away alot in the summer and i just want to be free and hang and chill and stuff. so i wouldn't be able to see him a lot. so i told him no, but didn't handle it the best way. i like him still and i want him to like me, but i feel bad! what should i do? talk to him about it? still flirt with him? (link)
tell him how you feel about him, but also mention about staying single in the summer. Tell him that you won't be able to see him, and you'll also meet other people, but get his phone number and talk to him over the summer. make sure that your friendship stays strong so that when you go back to school, you can start dating again. i hope i helped! &hearts:


I'm not sure if this is the right category.....
I'm 13 years old,112 lbs, 5'0
I don't think I'm fat because I am very athletic but I haev very wide hips. It makes me look a lot bigger than I am because I have big thighs and I'm wide. This makes me wear a size bigger (3-4 short) in pants and I can't wear tight shirts that cut off right at my hips. Please help with ideas of how to change (exercises) or some ideas of things to do or wear so that I don't look so wide. (link)
a size 3-4 isn't big. try wearing longer shirts and shirts that are all one color. also, learn to love your body!


It's so weird, for some reason tonight, I'm so nervous, I can't eat, I can't sit still, and I keep on thinking about what's going to happen at school tomorrow.

The problem is, I have n-o-t-h-i-n-g to be nervous about.

Any advice on how to
a.) calm myself
b.) figure out why I'm so tense/nervous

Thanks! (link)
maybe you think something will happen at school, and it's making you nervous. try taking a long bath to clear your mind of worries. maybe you were stressed out the day before, and it's all the adrenaline is building up so you're worrying about nothing.


i know people must hate these questions..but this could save me from doing something really dumb to myself. i've been through a lot lately and i'm not afraid to do things that would hurt myself..i'm getting a lot better but there's one thing that might help if i knew. i'm 14/F, and i weigh about 130 pounds, and i'm 5'4". is that overwieght? thank you! (link)
According to your BMI, you're not overweight. You are at the 79th percentile, and the percentile for being overweight is 95. (85 for being at risk of overweight) you should be about 92-136 pounds for your height, so you're fine. Also, you're still growing so you can be overweight one year, but turn out to be fine when you're an adult.


the guy i like, we were getting along so great!!!! he even treated me like his girlfriend! well now something is going wrong. all of a sudden he hasnt been talkting to me for the past 2 weeks. just like that. click! i dont get it. i didnt do nuthin wrong. we had so much fun together. there are 3 and a half more days of school left and i want to talk to him real bad but im afraid to because im afraid he doesnt want to talk to me for some reason and hell get annoyed if i do or something. i always walk past him and stuff. we never make eyecontact anymore and we never talk and before i had this gut feeling that he liked me too before but now i dont feel anything. my question is what can i do to get him to talk to me again. just like to start a conversation. i did it the first time im just afraid now. thats how the whole thing got started. we were switching classes and all of a sudden i talk to him about my groups project and everything was fine from there. can i get some tips on what i should say to start a conversation. to get things fired up again. im also afraid to tell him i like him or call him. what would i say for that? i always think negative. so what can i do to talk to him or get him to talk to me?
(link)
Okay, this may sound weird, but you can like tell him you want to stay in touch over the summer. Then, don't pay any attention to him. If you do that, it will make him want you more.


whats a good way to get rid of bacene...ive tried a whole bunch of stuff... but they havent worked for me. does anyone know any things that does help? (link)
I recently went on vacation. When I went swimming in the ocean, it cleared up my bacne pretty well. I also use sclyic (spelling) acid products on it.


I'm 13/f. In school, I am not a nerd, but i'm not really popular either. I'm like in the middle..i guess.
Anyway, my 6th period class contains the guy I like, along with this really popular girl with gimoungus boobs that doesn't talk to me.
Everytime we are allowed to work with one another, he goes off to work with her.
I want to talk to him and get to know him stuff, but that girl really intimidating to me. Thats the only class I have with him, and I don't know him well enough to talk to him outside of that class.
What do I do? (link)
Try asking him to be your partner, and be like I don't have one, will you be my partner? Make sure you look your best too. He's probably only partners with that girl because of her boobs. Don't be jelous, boobs are just fat. So that girl is probably fat too. (or just pudgy) She might not even be that pretty either. Build up your confidence and then ask him to be your partner. If you show him you're confident, he'll probably be your partner. And if that girl gives you a hard time, just tell her she's fat.




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