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I love to give people advice!!
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is this a nice phone? i really like it..
are phones that arnt flip phones out of style?
im willing to pay $70 for this phone its really nice.
http://www.t-mobile.com/products/images.asp?phoneid=242032&class=phone
It is a cute and nice phone. $70 sounds good!! Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"?
Well, for me, friend is just a friend. Friends, they're nice to us. Bestfriend, is the one we can share stuffs with. Bestfriend understands your feelings. Bestfriend knows you more than anyone else. Bestfriend won't tell your secret to anyone. Bestfriend will always love you just the way you are. Bestfriend gives you advices. Bestfriend helps you when you have troubles. Bestfriend is there whenever you need her/his helps. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
Do you think it is okay for a young person to have plastic surgery? I really don't like my nose but I don't know if I should say something to my mom now or just wait until I'm older. What do you guys think?
I think you should wait, but you have to tell your mom first. I think you have to be 18 or older to have a plastic surgery. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
Do you think its okay to teach your child to hit someone back if they hit him first?
It's okay. Because your children need something to defend theirself. If they just stay calm, their friends will hurt them. Hope I helped!
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Ok, first off if you are reading this and you know your just going to put something everyones going to say, please stop. I really truely need help! Ok, my best friend, lets call her 'Kristina' and me are going out with these 2 guys, lets call them Drew and West....ok well i go out with 'Drew' and 'Kristina' is going out with West! wellll....are relationshiphs with them are very....serious! i mean we love them to death buttt....me and 'west' have been talking online and becoming really good friends! and now...i find myself thinking about him sometimes and thinking about if i was with him and ive also had like 2 dreams about us making out or being together or something like that! andd everytime i think about this i cry and get upset because i dont want this to happen....but i think it is! i really dont have a clue what to do....somebody seriously needs to help me! like please dont send a smart remark please please try and see things from my point of view! act like you were me! ....thanks so much!
This is a hard question. Well, if I were you, I would re-think and make sure who do I like more, Drew or West. Because sometimes you feel like you like someone more than your boyfriend, but then after you break up with your boyfriend, you'll regret it. So, I don't want that thing happen to you. I think you should re-think it again, and if you find out yourself loving West more than Drew, you should break up with Drew. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
My boyfriend sits by like all girls in most of his classes, and he always seems to be flirtin with them. It also doesnt help that they're prettier than me. I was wondering if it's normal to feel jealous about this, and if so what should i do? I already tried talking to him about it, and he just kind of blew the subject off saying 'o no we werent flirting', evne though it looked like him and the girls were. Help please!
Yes, it's so normal. You're his girlfriend, right? Hmm.. I think your boyfriend doesn't feel like he's flirting with other girl, or maybe he's trying to make you jealous. So, you should tell him that you don't really feel comfortable of the way he flirts/ talks to girl Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
ok so i have a boyfriend who i met online. he(20years old) lives in england and i(18) live in spring grove, pa,so as you can tell there is a distance problem. can a long distance relationship work?
thanks for any help,
jami
Of course it can! My dad n' mom used to had a long distance relationships. If you both love each other, everything can happen! But of course, you'll might have a little problem cause you met him oL and so.. You need to be careful about that. If you have time, please rate me.. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
Ok i have so many friends, but one of the mjus wont like leave me alone! She wants to were her hair like me and wants to dress the same but i cant deal with this until senior year!and im only goin ot hte 7th grade!! I am starting to get real tired of this and i dont kno how to tell her with out hurting her feelings or anything. PLEASE help me
Signed
Headache&Miserable
You should talk to her. I meant, tell her that you're not her twins and you don't want her to dress like you and anything,politely. Also tell her that, it doesn't mean that you don't like what she's doing, just tell her it's kinda annoying. She will understand if she's your truly friend. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
well is it wrong to go out with your friends ex but what if you went out with him before she did
we weren't friends at the time when she went out with him but then we became friends but I've known my crush longer than her ,me and my crush are really really close not in the touchy feeling way.like I trust him an he trusts me
Wow, I'm having the same thing, I'm going out with my bestfriend's ex. LoL. Some people think it's wrong, but I think it's so not wrong. I meant, your crush doesn't like your friend anymore, that's why they aren't going out, right? So, there's nothing to worry about.. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
hey,
today I got in a hung fight with my mom!! i'll spare you the deltails but i will tell you this, it envolved slamming plates, both of us yelling and crying and stuff...wow she told me that i was going to H*** (i am a goody-goody i've always made sure i was going to Heaven) and she sed to burn in H*** and i got so upset
what should i do? i;m just not getting along with her PLEASE HELP I RATE WELL!!!!
Well, what actually happened between you and your mom? I think you should say sorry to her, even though it might not be your fault, but she is your mom. You have to respect her. Every mom will forgive their daughter.. So, you should say sorry to your mom. Hope I helped!
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Would it be possible if a 14 yearold boy would like a 12 year old girl? She's sorta developed for her age. Or is it a waste of time?
Friend wanted to know
It's possible, everything is possible. It's not a waste of time. There's nothing wrong with a 14 years old boy likes 12 years old girl. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
I'm 15/f if that's gonna help. Today i met this really nice gurl at my school. She's really sweet, pretty, and alot more to me. I think i'm starting to like her but i'm not sure because i've only known her for like a day!!! And i dont know if she's bi or w/e. I'd kinda like to know before i start seeing her as anything more than a friend. Are there any ways to notice if she's interested??? I dont want to exactly ask her because she's new and all. But i still want to know. Any tips other than just ask her??? I'd appreciate ANYTHING!!! I'll rate ya high!!!
Well, you have to be her friend first. Cause, you know, you can't just like walk by and ask her 'Are you interested with me?' right? So, I think you should be her friend first. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
when youre a moderator and you rate questions, what do each face stand for?
Emm.. the very left one, like the sad face thing, that means the question is really bad, or the question is so stupid. The middle one means the question is okay. The very right one means it's a very good question. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
Is it bad for you to use a tampon when your not actually menustrating? I am supposed to start today or tomorrow and i just don't want to get caught by suprise. Would it be harmful if i put on in while i was still clean?
No, it's not. Don't worry about it! Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
ok..i have this guy friend and he is really flirty towards me but i cant tell if he likes me or not..should i ask him if he likes me or should i get someone else to find out?((i like him))
thanks
i rate
Ugh, if I were you, I will get someone else to find out. But, if you have those self-confidences, you should ask him!! You're not a shy person, right? So,, I think, you should ask him, but don't tell him that you like him. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
my mom found a open condom raper in my perse..and it isn't mine. but she thinks it is. i swear to her it isnt mine. and i think 1 of my friends is playin a freshman trick on me by doin it. and i got yelled at. i called my dad (parents are split up i live wit my dad my mom called and cussed me). i told my dad i didnt do anything that i think it was my friend tiara (that isnt her real name) and hes like ok. i said im goin to delete her off of my list and ignore her and not talk to her. cause i asked her about it and she never msged me back...my dad said if i did wanna start doin nething that my mom needs to take me to the court house. well i dont want to cause i aint ready just yet. what do i need to do. cause my mom thinks im a whore. and i didnt do anything
Oh!You're not in good position, are you? Well, did you tell your mom about what your friend did?? I think you should tell her the complete story first. Your mom needs some time, I think she's just shock. I'm sure she'll understand your condition. Sometimes dads can understand their daughter better than moms, right? Hope my advice works. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
If you're super skinny but A sized bra... would guys still go for that? I know it's personality that counts...but do they like it (you can't always have both, be skinny and have a huge ass/boobs)
I'm skinny too, but not super skinny. LoL.. It's okay, I think guys will still go for that. I meant, there's nothing wrong with skinny girls, right? Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
My friend and I use to be real close we would be together every weekend and then one year she like ignored me and now we are friends but she acts so different when shes around other people she'll be sorta mean to me its really hurting my feelings what should i do??
signed miss being bffs
You have to talk and ask her why did she do that to you. Well, my boyfriend, he ignores me infront of his bestfriends, and it makes me really sad and mad. So, I know how you feel.. She's maybe not your very best friend, cause if she's your real bestfriend, she won't do that. Or maybe, she doesn't want anyone to thinks that you're her bestfriend. So, my advice for you is to talk to her, ask her to explain that. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
There's this guy that I really like, and we're in a couple classes together. The problem is, we never really talked last year. But I'm really shy. How can I get over my shyness and just talk to him, or even say hi? Rate 5's for good answers.
So.. you're really shy.Hmm ...You have to gather all of your confidence, and try to talk to him. It's not that hard to talk to a guy. You have to believe in yourself, and I'm sure you'll get over your shyness. If you have any problem, just ask me, okay? Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
Hey. My mom doesn't know it yet, but I finally have a boyfriend. We don't really talk about this kind of stuff but I really would like her to know. I just don't know how to tell her. Do you guys have any ideas on how to tell her? Thanks so much.
Good question, I have the same problem. Hmm, I think you should tell her very carefully. Oo ya, does your mom allow you to have a boyfriend? If she does, it's not going to be that hard to tell her about your boyfriend. But if she doesn't, you should wait for the best time, so she won't get mad at you. And, one more thing.. Congratulations!! Is your boyfriend nice? Hope I helped!!
-ViTaChaN-