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mom problems
hey,
today I got in a hung fight with my mom!! i'll spare you the deltails but i will tell you this, it envolved slamming plates, both of us yelling and crying and stuff...wow she told me that i was going to H*** (i am a goody-goody i've always made sure i was going to Heaven) and she sed to burn in H*** and i got so upset
what should i do? i;m just not getting along with her PLEASE HELP I RATE WELL!!!!
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Well, I am not that good with situations like these but this is just a sugesstion, you can go up to your mom and ask her why she had said this to you. Or you can always try and put it behind you and start to be a friend to your mom. do things with her and help her out. Yeah this wont do anything to solve it quickly but you can always wait to see if she sayus sorry about those word she had said. As i said before be nice and help her out with chores or getting groceries. Some day you might get an apology but the key is that day will come. Jst remember this is a sugesstion.
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well id try and talk to her and apaligize and say ill stop being a bitch if you will deel? and she might get pissed or she might say deel but you gotto take the chances
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Move out to one of your relatives houses or your friends for a little while. She just needs to cool down. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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Okay well... No matter what your mom does she always loves you!!! And she probably didn't mean what she said. When someone gets angry they tend to say things that they don't mean. I would start off by saying that your sorry for what ever it is you did. It's better to talk to your mom and not yell at her. She won't start to throw plates at you if you don't get her mad... I would just tell her that your sorry.. (Chances are) She won't ignore you when you say your sorry or confess to being mean. Don't stress out, it will be okay.. You can never stay mad at someone who loves you for to long. Deep down inside your mom doesn't mean what she said and you and her both know that. If you keep fighting with her then thats really bad. Your mom will never understand everything in your lyfe so while you live with her your going to fight but don't make it so you fight with dishes and etc. It's better to talk things out. That probably sounded really orignal but its true. You don't have to tell her everything that's going on in your life to make her understand you but just say to her "I'm sorry for what i did" chances are she won't accept it right away (although she might) but after you say that just walk away and go into your room (don't slam your door) and chances are in the end it will all work out. Also make sure you at least "sound" like you mean it when you say sorry. Don't take this word for word or don't use this advice at all. But be sure to write some feed back.. Best Wishes Amanda, and Rebecca
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go to consueling and they will help!!!!!!!
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listen..its so0o normal for teens to fight with parents..sometimes things get out of control. what do you do?
-let her cool off. my last fight with my mom wasnt as bad as yours, but what i did was i made plans with friends so when she got off of work i was already out..and when i came home she was asleep. in other words..give each other space.
-after a day or so..i think you should make the first move in patching things up. shes your mom and she loves you..right now shes probably thinking about the fight and wanting to make up as well.
after you have given each other space..talk to her..apologize for what you did wrong (dont get angry iff she doesnt apologize about her share right away)
give her a hug.tell her you love her and you want to start fresh.
see how this works..inbox me if it doesnt work out
-melissa
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Just so you know, there is no hell or heaven so don't worry.
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Well, what actually happened between you and your mom? I think you should say sorry to her, even though it might not be your fault, but she is your mom. You have to respect her. Every mom will forgive their daughter.. So, you should say sorry to your mom. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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Oh my gosh. Well first of all your mom did not mean that. Things like that just come out during arguments. Just calm down first of all. You need to talk to your mom. Even thought you might not want to, it would be the right thing to do. She is your mother and you dont hate her and she doesnt hate you. Apologize to her. For whatever reasons your were fighting just try to forget about it. I mean I argue with my mom sometimes and I told her I hated her and she got really sad about it. It hurt her feelings so I can imagine how your mom feels right now. Just HORRABLE. Just calm down and forget about it. Its okay to be mad and upset but you need to forget about it. Think of all the nice things shes done for you. Just let her know that she hurt your feelings but trust me she didnt mean it when she said burn in hell. She loves you a lot. Good luck.
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