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Last Summer I hooked up with a guy down the shore and we've kept in touch. He's going down the shore with his friend and I'm coming down with my best friend in August. One problem, I have a boyfriend now. I don't want to hookup with the guy because I'm happy with my bf (And I wouldn't even consider cheating on him) The issue concerns my best friend who likes the guys friend, Chris. She has been really lonely the whole year since she hasn't hooked up with anyone but him and I know she really wants to see him. My friend said "Well, we'll just tell them we can't do anything. They'll find other girls" But I feel so bad for my friend, I want her to be with Chris (And I don't have a problem telling the guy that I can't do anything) but she refuses to let that happen. The way I see it, I have several options. Tell the guys we can't do anything & part our ways, let my friend and Chris do whatever they want and just stay friends with the guy, pray that my best friend gets a boyfriend so she can't do anything anyhow or maybe me and my boyfriend would have broken up before then (We're only 14, you never know what could happen) Or maybe theres something else I could do? I'll rate (link)
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is there anyway that your friend can see the guy she wants without including u in the mix?
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Ok, well... my best friend is a guy, and his name is Chris. He's really awesome, and we're really close. I've always thought of him as a brother to me. But lately everyone has been asking me, "Are you two going out?" and "Do you like him?" and everytime my answer is "no." but lately I've been thinking, and I feel weird whenever I talk to him now. Whenever he comforts me about stuff, I just feel... really really happy. Rediculously happy. Almost..fuzzy inside? I don't know, but I keep thinking that I'm starting to have feelings for him. But we're just friends.. friend's arent supposed to crush on eachother. But I can't help myself.
SO MY QUESTION IS: Am I in love with him? and if I do why do I feel so uncomfortable?
Signed..
JUST FRiENDS (link)
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You feel uncomfortable because alot of times people make friends that they end up really liking. You end up thinking..hmm...hes actually kinda cute now that i think about it. You end up thinking about your favorite people to be around and whos there for you the most..and when that name keeps coming up you cant help but wonder why arent we dating? why are we just friends? could i picture us together? would it work out? no one can answer those questions theres a risk youd have to take. The question is, is it worth it?
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Hey guys! my boyfriend was talking about the bases today and what r they....i alway thought 1st french 2nd feel 3rd sex.... but then i got to thinking, where does oral go and stuff idk, can someone please give me the detailed list. much love, rates high (link)
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-- First Base--
This was almost always kissing, although one guy I knew thought it
meant holding hands. Sometimes it was tongue kissing and sometimes
not.
--Second Base--
Variously this meant tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the
clothes genital contact.
--Third Base--
Usually this was a hand down the pants of you or your partner.
--Home Run--
This was ALWAYS sex, although it was rarely reached in the times
when you had to refer to it in terms of bases.
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the women I started to see again texts me last night saying "guess what? I heard someone you used to mess around with has aids" but "Dont stress I saved 25 percent on my car insurance from gieco. We broke up because she thought I was cheating on her, and then to send a text like that at 3:00 am that woke me up was wrong, then when I texted her back asking what she was talking about she never responded. So I called her she didnt answer the phone, so I left a messange telling her to stop calling me and texting me and that this is it. I also made an example to her saying that if you think i did something because you heard from someone that I did then maybe I should believe rumors I heard about you. I knew that was wrong so I texted her immediately saying I was sorry. That morning she texts me saying I was stupid and that it was just a joke, I replied I did not find it funny especially when she has questioned my loyality in a relationship. She said that she was happy to see the real me and that she was glad that she didnt start to really get involved with me again. I just dont think that the joke was funny considering what happened before. I need to know if I over reacted or was that joke just harsh and in poor taste???? (link)
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It sounds like a funny prank that i think even i would use on my friends....keyword...friends, not ex, if i sent something like that to a guy i thought cheated on me it would be a way of getting back at him, i think that's what she was doing, taking out all her anger from what happend in your relationship and decided to do a cruel joke like that
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Ok how do you really know if a guys flirtting with you? Like this guy hes seriouly like my best friend! I can tell him anything! Well he like jokes around with me and stuff but how do i know if hes actually flirting? Like is he just being friendly...i don't think he likes me cause where just good friends even though sometimes i wish he did...so what would you consider to be flirtimg? but yea any advide?? (link)
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If he lightly touches you on the arm while talking and is constantly around than maybe he does have a thing for you, but most of the time someone can tell if the other is flirting or not. Maybe you could be a little more aggressive and see how he responds.
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my friend is 13 and she had sex with a sixteen year old and she got pregnant because her cheap boyfriend couldn't spare the extra 3 dollars to buy the good condoms and it ripped, so now she's all excited about having a baby and i told its nothing to be excited about and i told her that when your that young and have a baby that its not very safe and you could die is it true?
and by the way i love my friend to death and i have know clue what to say to her about the whole thing and she's mad that everyone is calling her a slut which she is! (link)
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She doesn't even sound like she is ready to have a baby. That kid is going to have one immature mother. Let her know that her boyfriend probably wont even support the baby since he's only 16. And let her know that she needs to think about renewing her life, starting over on a clean slate. Refreshing her reputation by thinking over her mistakes, accepting what she did, realizing it was wrong and absolutly NOTHING to be proud of, and she should respect herself and her body. She should make some resolutions for herself and stay true to them. She needs to know her priorities and ask herself what she values most in life. Like, she should live with the consequence of her mistake and have this baby, but she'll have to deal with the aftermath. The baby's father supporting, her family im sure are not happy with her. She needs to for example become a better person by choosing not to make the same mistake again and choose to abstain from sex at this age. She'll have to change, and she'll have to change for herself. Once she is a different person, other people will get to know her and see her in a new light.
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Last night my boyfriend fingered me. I really uncomfortable with it at first, but I just thought what the heck and was okay with it. At first he only did one finger, then he tried two. When it was only one finger it was alright, pleasurable in some ways, but when he got two fingers in it becaome quite uncomfortable. It hurt a whole lot. I started wincing and became all tense. I think that he got the wrong impression and though I was liking it, but I wasn't it hurt terribly. I don't know what to do because I know he'll try two fingers again next time. It's not supposed to be comfortable like that, is it? Why was it go painful? (link)
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Whenever its painful just go out and tell him say "stop..that hurts" guys understand that especially with virgins. Same thing has happend with me, my bf at the time had thought that i was wincing cause i liked it and he went further, so i had to grab his hand and move it away, thats when he asked "whats wrong" and i told him not to put that many in because it hurt, you have to let them know how far the limits are or else it wont be pleasureable and he wont have very much confidence after
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hey i have my foral coming up.. well in march lol hehe but my friend and me have been looking at dresses but i can't find anything to really look good on my figure im size 30C on the bust with size 8-10 on the hips, i have a flat tummy. but i just cant find a perfect dress that makes everything look in shape lol any ideas of styles i could look at, thanks a bunge huni's! xXx (link)
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Short, tall, average, slim, heavy, busty or hippy, there is a dress to complement your figure. You can wear a neckline type of dress, but look for something with fuller coverage so you can make sure you have support. If you would like to draw attention away from your chest look for a dress that attracts the eye to the hem.
Heres some sites
Find your exact shape of body and the perfect dree for it: http://www.kingproc.com/examples/promgirl.html
http://www.dresses.com/thesaleroom/saleevening1.html
http://www.venusswimwear.com/xq/aspx/BRANCH.7~72/dept.Dresses/qx/products.htm?src=tlga&kw=women_dress&engine=adwords!2609&keyword=%28women+dress%29&match_type={ifcontent:content}
http://www.cbslimited.com/2005-prom-dresses/2005-prom-gowns/prom_precious_formals-10-30
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OMGG I realllllly wanna go to the Fall Out Boy concert and my sister just told me that she was going...FOR FREE..How can I get my mom/dad to bring me?????
PLEASE HELP I'LL RATE 5''S FOR almost ANYTHING!!
THANKS IN ADVACNE
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Hey i want to come too!!! lol Just tell your parents the whole "its not fair" deal and say that you want to come also, and that your sister gets to go. Tell them you want to spend some quality time with your sister and say "look at the bright side, at least you only have to pay for one ticket since she got hers for free"
You could always do extra chores around the house or whatever they usually hate doing, do for them. Make them dinner, bribe them into it.
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theres two guys who like me...
my ex-boyfriend and my neighbor i'm not sure which one to ask out becuase with my ex-bf i would only see him once every two weeks or something but i really like him but then my neighbor is 2 houses down and i really like him too but he stayed back and it would seem like i'm going out with someone whos not my age.
So which guy do i chose? (link)
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Your neighbor does seem like a better choice, trust me on the age thing, im 16 a junior and i dated a sophmore but he was 16 also, and yes it seemed like i was going out with sumone younger but the fact that he only got held back and actually is the same age as me was comforting.
Think of the relationship you had with your ex. How did it end? Was it the best or worst relationships you have had? Is he worth giving a second chance or will he break your heart? Sometimes going for someone you've already tried isnt the answer. When you find someone new, its fresh and you get to know them. I is only 2 houses down. Think hard on it, don't think about who likes you, think about who YOU like
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I go to bed about 10:30 every night. For some reason I keep waking up around 3am and then I can't go back to sleep. Then I start getting sleepy in the afternoon when I can't sleep! Anyone else have this problem, and if so what do I do? (link)
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yea i have this problem too, you should just go to bed at a reasonable time or take something that'll help you feel more drowsy
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Okay, I'm on birthcontrol. But, when you're on bc do you have to use a condom? And can he cum inside you and you still be safe? I"LL RATE 5's!!! (link)
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If your concerns are about being safe, i would suggest use a condom and be on birth control. I know that is the only way i would want to have sex, and even then i could still get pregnant..nothing is 100% unfortunately
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okay so i dumped my boyfriend because i like this other guy a little bit. Although i dont know who i like better, my boyfriend or my crush..its like 50% boyfriend, 50% crush..i am so cought up in this i have tried killing myself..please help! (link)
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Search your heart, there is noone that can tell you who you like better. Most people can close their eyes and picture who they would rather want to be with more. I would go with the guy you have a crush on, because something led you to dump your boyfriend for him.
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i was just wondering what a christians view was on cousins going out. is it a sin? and no, i'm not going out, or in love with my cousin! (link)
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Yes having that kind of relationship with your cousin is a sin, even though it happened a lot in the biblical times. Note..that all happend before christ came, so they were only following scriptures, not the words of God. So many people had made mistakes. The Lord definitly would look upon you breaking his commands or laws of our country. It is illegal because it can cause birth defects and most people in society would definitly frown upon it. Give advice to whoever you know wants to date their cousin and tell him/her that it is not a smart or godly thing to do.
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I've been married for a year. We're both 21 years old. My husband has thiss gross habbit if picking his nose, rolling his bugars up, and then flicking them somewhere into the house. I've nagged at him to put them in toilet paper and put them in the trash or flush them down the toilet. But he wont. I've turned a bit of a blind eye on it, but today has been the last straw.
When we were in bed, I saw him pick a really big, really gross bugar. I told him it was gross, got out of bed and told him to dispose of it. He didn't. I've tried talking to him, telling him it was gross. I've tried telling him that since he doesn't care about the house, then I wont either(I wont do dishes, etc). How do I get him to understand, and to stop putting them all over the house. (link)
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Ummm...not my fault that you want "adult" advice on such an immature problem...he probably does this to annoy the shit out of you...props for him...You both sound really immature considering your idea of "solving the problem" is going on strike as a house wife and not doing the dishes
If you really wanted this as adult advice you should have mentioned it..sorry that i got a 2 and i will probably get a 1 on this answer but i honestly don't care because i should have done what everyone else did and not take the time to answer this really immature question about your ridiculous relationship
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what are some ways to foreplay with you guy other than hand jobs or blow jobs (link)
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Sometimes the smallest things can be great keys to foreplay, like leaving hickies on the neck or chest, biting is a usual aggressive act that most guys get super turned on by
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what are some good sex positions?? (link)
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be creative...this is normally an uncomfortable question to ask people, but it's pretty much self explainatory..watch a porno of something sometime and get some ideas
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hi everybody, this is a long one but i really need your help. ok so theres this guy that i know and he is like 19 or 20ish and im 16. and ever since i first saw him i thought he was like super hot! and so one day a couple of my friends told him that i thought he was really hot. and then they asked if he thought that i was cute and he said " ya shes definatly hott" and i was right there so i heard him say it and everything. and ever since then he would like sort of half way flirt with me and say like your really cute and stuff. but he hasnt asked me out or asked for my number or anything. so i was thinking maybe hes just, you know playing with me. but then i was talking to some of his friends and they were telling me he was talking about me and i asked what he said but all his friends would tell me is it was nothing bad. and sometimes when im around him i would sneek looks at him but i would already see him looking at me first (does that make sense?) so i dont know what to do because i reallllly just cant stop thinking about him but its been like a month and nothing has happened. i dont really see him that much though, i use to see him like maybe 2 to 3 times a week during the summer since July-ish but now i mayyybe see him once a week. but no other guy i talk to compares to him. so does he like me or do yall think hes just playing me and what should i do about this? if you answer seriously i'll rate high!! thanks yall!
o ya and hes not like some stuck up college guy, hes kinda...geekish which isnt normal for me to like but people told me i was like the hottest and nicest girl to ever like him. (link)
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He does like you, but there is a reason why he hasn't made a move towards you...perhaps he is cautious to get with someone your age..There is only one thing you can do..I know most girls hate making the first move, but you absolutly have to or else nothing will happen. You do not want to regret never making a move because you were afraid of rejection. Just be aggressive and do something spontaneous, hand him a peice of paper with your name and digits on it and say "here sexy...hit me up sometime" or go straight for the kiss, i doubt he will pull away ONLY ONE WAY TO FIND OUT
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Ok, I have a friend named Sarah*. Sarah came to my house the other day and we talked and I thought everything was fine (because we wern't best friend a week ago). Then I hear the phone ringing and Sarah picks it up (which is unusual) and I must have picked it up at the same time. Well anyway it was Jamie* A bitch that I hate and is bad news. I herd her wanting Sarah to come up to her house to ride fourwheelers. So after they get off the phone. Sarah calls her mom and goes home! Well then about 15 or 30 minutes later. She isn't home and guess what I found out that she was at Jamies!!! What do I do? Confront her!? (link)
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I think you are really immature to get all worked up because Sarah* is hanging out with "a bitch that is bad news"
shes can hang out with whoever she wants to, the world doesnt evolve around you, you can't tell someone not to hang out with someone because you simply don't like them. Maybe "Jamie" really is cool to be around or maybe "sarah" is just using her to ride fourwheelers...either way..you shouldn't freak out and over react over something that is not that big of a deal. Perhaps Sarah* wants to be friends with you, and wants to be friends with Jamie also and doesn't want to pick sides. Consider why you dislike Jamie, why do you see her as a "bitch" and why is she exactly "bad news" what exactly has she ever done to you before? If you don't have a good reason to hating her, then I suggest you get to know her as well as Sarah has. Maybe there is something to like about this individual
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what are some good moves to do on your guy when your on top??? (link)
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tie both his arms to the bed posts and blindfold him while you ride ontop
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