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does he like me or not?


Question Posted Monday September 5 2005, 12:30 pm

hi everybody, this is a long one but i really need your help. ok so theres this guy that i know and he is like 19 or 20ish and im 16. and ever since i first saw him i thought he was like super hot! and so one day a couple of my friends told him that i thought he was really hot. and then they asked if he thought that i was cute and he said " ya shes definatly hott" and i was right there so i heard him say it and everything. and ever since then he would like sort of half way flirt with me and say like your really cute and stuff. but he hasnt asked me out or asked for my number or anything. so i was thinking maybe hes just, you know playing with me. but then i was talking to some of his friends and they were telling me he was talking about me and i asked what he said but all his friends would tell me is it was nothing bad. and sometimes when im around him i would sneek looks at him but i would already see him looking at me first (does that make sense?) so i dont know what to do because i reallllly just cant stop thinking about him but its been like a month and nothing has happened. i dont really see him that much though, i use to see him like maybe 2 to 3 times a week during the summer since July-ish but now i mayyybe see him once a week. but no other guy i talk to compares to him. so does he like me or do yall think hes just playing me and what should i do about this? if you answer seriously i'll rate high!! thanks yall!

o ya and hes not like some stuck up college guy, hes kinda...geekish which isnt normal for me to like but people told me i was like the hottest and nicest girl to ever like him.


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MELiixMARiiE answered Monday September 5 2005, 1:51 pm:
It does sound to me like he does like you.. he just might be catious because of the age difference. Because it's illegal to date a minor, and he might be afraid of getting in trouble or something..I know you probably don't want to, but if you want something to happen, you might have to make the first move here. Just go up to him and be like," Hey, your friends said you like me. I like you too. Wanna go out?" ( lol or something like that.. I've never asked anyone, so I don't know ) he could just be shy to. I hope I helped!




Love,
MELii

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rachii_piie answered Monday September 5 2005, 1:43 pm:
hey.. yea i think he does like you but hes not doing that much becuase your 16 and he might get in trouble if anything happend.. but yea he deff likes you.. just keep doing what your doing maybe something will happen =D

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TrojNgrl6907 answered Monday September 5 2005, 12:44 pm:
He does like you, but there is a reason why he hasn't made a move towards you...perhaps he is cautious to get with someone your age..There is only one thing you can do..I know most girls hate making the first move, but you absolutly have to or else nothing will happen. You do not want to regret never making a move because you were afraid of rejection. Just be aggressive and do something spontaneous, hand him a peice of paper with your name and digits on it and say "here sexy...hit me up sometime" or go straight for the kiss, i doubt he will pull away ONLY ONE WAY TO FIND OUT

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xotara621xo answered Monday September 5 2005, 12:40 pm:
aww! From what you say it seems that he really likes you and you really like him. This is a normal stage for people to go though, its just the question of who is going to make the first move. I think that next time you see him ask if he'd like to go to dinner with you some night! (PS if you have teh time could you give me some feedback i am new at this...thanx...good luck!!) xoxo tara (Oh and dont listen to them... he's not to old for you...look at jessica simpson and nick lachey she is 25 and he is 31 its totally normal!)

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xOalmaOx answered Monday September 5 2005, 12:39 pm:
Well I think it's a little wrong for you to be going out with a 19-20 yr old, but I'm not going to act like your mother. If you simply like the guy then maybe you should make the first move. Since you said he's kinda geekish, maybe he's just shy. It seems to me that he does like you! It seems like you guys would make a good relationship. But I think you should ask him to maybe go to the movies with you sometime or something like that. I hope i helped ♥//ALMA

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