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help!!
okay so i dumped my boyfriend because i like this other guy a little bit. Although i dont know who i like better, my boyfriend or my crush..its like 50% boyfriend, 50% crush..i am so cought up in this i have tried killing myself..please help!
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okay dont kill yourslef over a guy! it's not worth it... think about that. okay well i was just going through the same situation. and i think that you should listen to your heart even if that means hurting one of the guys. in my case i listened to my heart (chose the crush) and it didnt work out @ all but i didnt regret it because i realized that if i broke up with my bf then i must not have alotta feelings for him. so yeah my point is to listen to your heart and follow wat u beleive in. i hope i have helped. ~megan
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Ok first of all calm down. Killing yourself way way over the top extreme for this situation. Maybe you should try to take a break and see if you really miss your boyfrend. Sumtimes you never realize how much you love sum1 until there gone.
Really hope this helps <333
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heyy girl
do not go trying to kill yourself. boys are not the world trust me.if you cant decide follow all of this.
you have to take into consideration everything about the two boys.there previous love life,how they get along in relationships, why there ex dumped them or why they dumped the ex, how they treat a girl, how much attention you are looking for in a man and if he will give you that... and also look for things you are intreseted in for a man
its teenage love killing yourself isnt the answer
if i were you i would stay with your boyfriend or the ex if you already dumped him because he loves you and thats why you were a couple. but it is totally up to you. dont like a man just for his looks
thats all i have to say. hope i helped. make your decision carefully. xoxoxoxo tz
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Killing yourself over this is not the answer. I helped someone else with this and they said it was a good idea. So what you should do is take out a piece of paper (or do it in your mind, except on paper would be better). What you should do is write down each good quality in the guy and bad quality. Than once you think of all them you look at it and see which has the more good than bad. Most likely the guy with the most good and least bad is the one you like more. 99% this should help you figure out who you like better. Because the guy who has more bad than good qualities is 99% the guy you like least. hope I helped <33
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First off, suicide because of relationships is not the answer because relationships are all tenuous and temporary. Suicide because of depression is also not the answer because all depression goes away eventually. But, this is about you and your boyfriend.
Here's what I think. You and your boyfriend broke up, and he is hurt. I think that you should quickly go and ask him back, saying that you made a mistake. The reason is that he was with you before this other, and you knew him better. Also, it is a sure thing that he likes you back, this crush is unknown.
Besides, if you were to get together with your crush, people would see you as a type of person you do not want to be. Shallow, Short Lived, and a cheater in relationships. I have seen people do that type of stuff, and I know that is close to what I think.
Anyways, good luck! Don't do anything to hurt yourself, for it's not worth it. Besides, you hurt both yourself and anyone who ever cared about you, including both your boyfriend and your crush.
-Steven
(Wow, it's early morning, and I can tell it...)
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Search your heart, there is noone that can tell you who you like better. Most people can close their eyes and picture who they would rather want to be with more. I would go with the guy you have a crush on, because something led you to dump your boyfriend for him.
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