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She did WHAT!!!


Question Posted Monday September 5 2005, 12:10 pm

Ok, I have a friend named Sarah*. Sarah came to my house the other day and we talked and I thought everything was fine (because we wern't best friend a week ago). Then I hear the phone ringing and Sarah picks it up (which is unusual) and I must have picked it up at the same time. Well anyway it was Jamie* A bitch that I hate and is bad news. I herd her wanting Sarah to come up to her house to ride fourwheelers. So after they get off the phone. Sarah calls her mom and goes home! Well then about 15 or 30 minutes later. She isn't home and guess what I found out that she was at Jamies!!! What do I do? Confront her!?

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Additional info, added Monday September 5 2005, 1:55 pm:
I don't want people to think i am over reacting. Jamie has talked about me and I don't kare if she HAS 1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000'sa of friends. I don't care. Its just ever since she has started High School she thinks shes everything..

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sunnyville answered Monday September 5 2005, 6:21 pm:
Let her know you don't get along with Jamie and if you don't want her to hang out with her tell her not to but if she refuses then she would have to pick between the two of you.Try to calm yourself down when you see this girl Jamie even though you hate her so she won't think you don't have class but if she wants to act up all on you then speak up for yourself and defend yourself and so should your friend Sarah if she is a real friend.

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xomegaroni answered Monday September 5 2005, 12:56 pm:
uhh that's weird that she was picking up YOUR phone right? so she obviously told Jamie she was at your house. it seems to me like it was some sort've "plan" for them to hang out & make you mad er jealous er something. girls can be sooo stupid sometimes & i know that. you definately need to comfront her about it & tell her it's rude and mean to do that. yeah, you can't control who she hangs out with, but you can control telling her how you feel.

good luck!♥

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*ashlee* answered Monday September 5 2005, 12:40 pm:
you cant be mad that she has other friends and you cant tell her to stop hanging out with someone else just because you dont like them. but it is really bitchy that she ditched you for jamie. i had a bestfriend who did that same shit to me, now were cool, but we are definately not bestfriends anymore. we havent hung out a single time since the shit started going down. i suppose that sarahs attitude will change being around jamie and you two may grow apart if shes already showing signs of ditching you. you definately need to confront her about how you feel. dont tell her to stop hanging out with jamie, just let her know that your hurt about her ditching you and that, that isnt what a friend does. then you need to decide weather or not you want to be her backup friend for when she has nothing to do. its a tough decision getting rid of what you thought was a friend, so i hope everything works out for you. and if it doesnt things'll get better anyway, you dont need her bringing you down.

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TrojNgrl6907 answered Monday September 5 2005, 12:37 pm:
I think you are really immature to get all worked up because Sarah* is hanging out with "a bitch that is bad news"
shes can hang out with whoever she wants to, the world doesnt evolve around you, you can't tell someone not to hang out with someone because you simply don't like them. Maybe "Jamie" really is cool to be around or maybe "sarah" is just using her to ride fourwheelers...either way..you shouldn't freak out and over react over something that is not that big of a deal. Perhaps Sarah* wants to be friends with you, and wants to be friends with Jamie also and doesn't want to pick sides. Consider why you dislike Jamie, why do you see her as a "bitch" and why is she exactly "bad news" what exactly has she ever done to you before? If you don't have a good reason to hating her, then I suggest you get to know her as well as Sarah has. Maybe there is something to like about this individual

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xOalmaOx answered Monday September 5 2005, 12:34 pm:
Well that's kinda weird, if your friends answer your phone.. hmm, but I think you should talk to Sarah and ask her why she ditched you. That's really rude if she's at your house but goes to another friend's house. I think your friend Sarah is just using you for when no one else is avialable to hang out with. She seems really snobby like the girl Jamie. Hope I helped ♥//ALMA

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