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Name: Josh
Birthday: December 16th
Sign: Sagitarius
Grade: 12th (Senior)
Nationalty: Lebanese
Hair Color: Black
Eye Color: Varies (depending on what I wear)
Additional Info:
Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Drink: Starbucks Hazenut Latte
Favorite Food: Lebanese Food!!! And mom's homecooked meals
I am junior in highschool at a small private school in NY. I am involved with many extra-ciricular activites at my school such as Mock Trial, Model UN, The Enviro-thon, Ecology Club, NCCJ, and I do alot of volunteering around my area. I have been told by friends many times before that I am a good listener / adivce giver and I have decided with the persuasion of a friend to try my talents out. Looking to answer your questions, and maybe to meet some new people.
Can't reach me here? Or do you have a private question? Feel free to IM me on AIM at AskTrevorWolf.
Gender: Male
Location: New York
Occupation: Entrepenuer
Age: 15
AIM: AskTrevorWolf
Member Since: October 4, 2004
Answers: 51
Last Update: April 17, 2007
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It really bothers me that those damn kids won't give that nice bunny any trix...i mean u are suppoused to share right....gosh that is so mean...what should i do to get over it? (link)
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I feel the same exact way. I am like, give the damn trix to the bunny, or wish the bunny would make off with it by himself. Just keep telling yourself that it is only a commercial and it is a made up character. And keep thinking that yes, sharing is the right thing, and think that YOU can give trix to the rabbit! =D Hope I helped! Rate!
Sincerely,
-TW
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Hey everyone.. well i'm kinda worried.. i don't kow what is wrong with me! i feel really guilty whenever i eat. i'm pretty sure it's not anorexia but i just dont know what it is. i've gradually started eating less and less because the guilt is just overwhelming. im 99 pounds and 5'2" and i know that's liek average or whatever but when i look in the mirror i always just see myself as HUGE. i have been getting really bad headaches lately from not eating as much as i usually do but its not enough to make me eat more because i just keep thinking about what my thighs would look like if i ate say a cheeseburger. at first i just started eating healthy foods but now im even afradi that THOSE foods will make me fat. help!!!!
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Its ok, by no means are you fat. And no, 99lbs is not average, it is on the unhealthy side. You need to be putting some meat on your bones. You may have a small case of anorexia, and the best thing for it is to start eating again. Do what you were doing. Eat health foods such as vegetables and meats. Breads and fruits, and processed carbs tend to be the ones that cause you to gain weight. It is healthy to get a balance between all the food groups. My suggestion for a healthy diet is to search the new food pyramid on the web. This will give you the diet plan for you based on your age, height, etc. and you designated weight. You shouldnt feel like this, no one should and your headaches are definitely attributed to this. When you don't eat, your brain does not get the proper nutrition and is working off stored glucose. This is making you feel light headed and having a headache. If you have any other questions, feel free to IM me. Check out my SN in my column. Hope I helped! Rate!
Sincerely,
-TW
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How much should you tip a massage therapist? (link)
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Tipping a massage therapist is based on your disgression. It depends on how well of a job you think they did. If you think that they did good, give them a $3-5 tip. If you didnt think that they did so well tip them in the $1-3 range. It is pretty much the same as getting a haircut and tipping the person who cut your hair, because mostly the money paid for the massage is going directly to the therapist. Hope I helped! Rate!
Sincerely,
-TW
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I am a preschool teacher at a church. The church supplies us with a yearly budget for craft supplies and snacks. My assistant is in charge of getting snacks for the students. She charges these at a grocery store on the church's account. When I checked the receipts I saw that she had charged two inexpensive personal items for herself and the chruch paid for it. She is my friend or atleast I thought she was. The church never asks for the itemized receipts only the total amount. Should I report her?
Thank you (link)
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If she is doing this consistently, then yes. But the first time I would let it go just for the sake of keeping everything in good shape...not fighting, arguements, etc. If she does it more than once or seems suspicious after that, then yes...report her. The chruch expenses when teachers or other assitants are in charge of it are all in good faith. You also might want to look into it a little more and ask the person in charge of finances, if this Jane Doe has paid them back for her charged personal expenses. Don't always jump to conclusions...Hope I helped! :-D
*Trevor-Wolf
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Ok well I like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and I’m well... kinda preppy. The only reason I’ve really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When I talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized I liked him. I really don’t know if he likes me because he's so different from guys I normally like.. And so different from me. Anyway we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and yea.. He always smiles and waves when he sees me and he is so nice. I mean from what I can tell I barely know him though... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now I have no classes with him... I’m really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyway.. I really want to talk to him and just get to know him better. But there are some problems... I’m pretty outgoing but I can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude... most of his friends totally hate me (mostly cuz I’m a little preppy, and smart).... And most of my friends don’t really know him (and I wont tell them who he is)... and I have no classes with him. He still waves to me though. I need advice on how to like talk to Frankie and like really have a conversation with him or just play around. I’m pretty creative, but with all the problems I dunno what 2 do.... And I’m just not very bold when it comes to guys... please help me find a way to talk to Frankie! (PS. in case it helps, I'm 13) (link)
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First...Are you a guy or a girl? And if you would like to talk more about this in private through IM that is totally fine with me. Sorry it has taken me so long to respond, I have been sooo busy, but I have to go because I have a long day tomorrow on a ecology club trip. PLEASE IM me!! I want to help, and for you to be happy! :)
-Trevor-Wolf
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I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers... (link)
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No one is 100% straight, but then again people are not 100% gay...well the could be. But anyway, just go with what you really feel, this includes finding out what gender you like to do sexual things with more. Just because you think girls are cute, doesn't mean you couldnt be gay, or it could. Its really hard to say since you really have to go by person to person. Each person is different. But don't stress...your 14 years old, most people who are questioning dont know until years to come. Jus Chill, and it'll come to you sooner or later. Hope I helped, leave anything else you need in the inbox.
-Trevor-Wolf
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is the national sales tax percentage rate 5% (link)
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No, the national sales tax ranges, from 2.5-3%. But this is included with your state taxes in sales. This varies from state to state. But there a few exceptions such as Delaware, Montana, Oregon, New Hampshire, and Alaska. One of the lowest state sales tax rates is 2.9% in Colorado, and 8.25 or 8.75 in New York State, and unfortunately...I live in New York State. :) Hope I helped.
-Trevor-Wolf
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I am 23 and have an awsome girlfriend, We have great sex but some times I don't really feel like having sex I don't get it? She is the most beautiful girl in the world very sexy and yet sometimes I just can't get in the mood it's not an erection problem it's just a mood problem. (link)
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Thats pretty common especially among people in their late teens or early twenties. Your horemones are still raging and your moods tend to go up and down. Is there a particular thing that gets you into the mood? Why don't you try something such as a nice night out for dinner downtown talking, talk a walk by the water or downtown, and "end" it with a nice invite back into your house for a romantic night. I think that would be something to get you into the mood. But I saw someone else said to use viagra...but obvoiusly they shoudln't be answering your question because viagra is for erection problems mostly, and you already expressed thats not what you have. Hope I helped, leave one in the inbox if you need anything else. :)
-Trevor-Wolf
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but i was wondering how you can make the salsa out of those jars for like tostitos and stuff not as spicy cause we bought medium spicy but its to hot for me and my mouth is on fire!!! but its sooo good so i wana know if theres a way that you can make it not as spicy. thanks. (link)
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I have an awesome reciepe for homemade salsa which is amazing! You can make it as spicy as you want it to be. Leave one for me in my inbox for the reciepe, or IM me. :)
-JTrevor
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Sometimes my computer goes really fast and sometimes its soo slow. Well I was trying to go on advicenators and it wasint even loading then I tried another site and it worked fine. I then tried to go back onto advicenators, and it was going slow. Is it because my internet is sick of being on advicenators so much(lol) or what? I'm confused! I'm on right now because it just started getting fast again..so yeah anyone know whats going on? Its making me sooo mad :D!
xo_sherry_ox (link)
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Well, it may be your internet connection, depending on what type of connection you have. Also it may be your computers MEmory or Ghz depending on how old the computer is. Try restarting it and seeing how it works. With Adviceinators, it is a complex site with alot of things to load just like a journal site called Melodramatic. If you need more help or anything, leave one in my inbox. :)
-JTrevor
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ok so my friend(lets refer to her as X) has some serious problems in her life(money, family and stuff) and shes usually always hungry. anyways, her mom doesnt have a job and shes always asking her mom 4 money so she can buy food and recently, X started cutting herself because she blames herself that her mom never has money. i dont know if X will keep on cutting, but hopefully she wont. anyways, she wont talk to me about it, even though ive known her since 4th grade. i HAVE to do something about it if she keeps on doing this, but i dont know what to do. plzz help!!!!!! (link)
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Your her friend, explain that to her and tell her that she needs to get some help if she thinks it is her fault, because it is not. The best thing would be to go with her to like a counseling center, or a center for teens. If you go online, you will be able to find a clinic or a place where you and her can go to get counseling for this and maybe even solve the problem with her mom. So in reality you may be helping both of them. But it is important you re-assure her of your friendship and that if she does decide to go for counseling, that you go with her as a friend. That would be the best thing to do. Also, why don't you think of inviting her over for a sleep over or dinner one time, like a girls night together or something. This might make her feel more open to you, and it will show her you care and want to, or want her to get help. Hope I helped, if you need anything else...leave one in my inbox. :)
-JTrevor
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Well i was in school and my two friends told me that this kid,told them that he likes me! and i was wicked excited cuz hes cute,hott,funny,smart etc. and i like him. But now he says its not the rite time to have a girlfriend because he just got over this girl that he liked for 3weeks cuz she was the biggest bitch ever! how do i show him that it is the rite time? or should i just wait for him to get over everything hes been through? i really like him and i don't know wut to do..omg please help...sorry its so long but pleaseee give me some advice (link)
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Yeah, just let him do his thing and let things take their course. You never know how people are going to react to "pushing" them into the right time for a relationship. He will soon realize that the time is right and that the other girl isnt worth pondering over anymore. When the time is right, then he will tell you and things will work their course. If something comes up and he happens to not say anything to you after he gets over his problem and goes to someone else, then it wasnt meant to be in he first place. I am sorry to bring you down, but it is true. There is no sense in forcing something that you dont is real or not. Hope I helped, and leave one in the inbox if you need to talk some more or anything. :)
-JTrevor
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I'm a 15 year old girl. I am realy depressed like all the time. I moved to a new school and I'm finding it hard to make friends. My "friends" from my old school are not in my life anymore. I ended the friendship with my 2 "best friends" because they were just really horrible people. But I find that I am still really obsessed with them and miss them alot. They are both on my mind all the time. The thing is if I went back to them and they forgave me, well they were just so horrible when I was friends with them. (i.e.- they would hook up with the guys I was hooking up with and made it look like I was the bad person because I got upset over it) I don't know what to do. Please help! (link)
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Well I think that your obsession is just caused by your move to a different school. Now it seems that since you have known these people for so long, you dont know what to do without them, especially being at a new school where you have to make new friends all together. I think that you should just make as many "real" new friends as you can at your new school. You're right, your previous 2 best friends are horrible. A real friend or best friend for that matter would never cause someone to look bad or interfere in their life problems to make them miserable. IM me if you want to talk a little more, I am more than willing to help you out. :)
-JTrevor
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Hey, I have this friend and well shes obsessed with Ireland. And she also looks Irish, which adds to the obsession. Well she met this guy on an irish-penpal thing and they email and write to eachother. I read one of his letters and he calls her like "Princes Jenny" and all that good stuff. Well, shes going to Ireland and its not just because of the guy. Shes always wanted to go but shes gonna meet him there. Shes 16, hes 21..and I'm kinda worried..I joke around saying "If you get raped, I'll kill you" But I really dont think meeting this guy is a good idea. Should I tell her something or is it not my buisness? Thanks~ (link)
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No definitely say something and tell her how you feel. Meeting someone that you meet online is a very dangerous thing. They could be an unknown indentity, and someone completely different from who they say they are. There is a huge risk of your friend getting into trouble or a huge risk of being abducted, raped, etc. Not to make you feel scared. But please do tell her how you feel...your her friend and only looking out for her. And plus it is illegal for her to be 16 and him "21". You never know with online people, or predators for that matter. Hope I helped. :-] Hit my inbox up if you got more questions.
-JTrevor
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i have WinMx and its not working! im soooo frustrated! it worked ever since i had it but then one day it suddenly stops working. like i'll be connected and everything but every time i search for a song/artist NOTHING COMES UP! even if its like the most popular song ever. like you know on the top where it counts the time you've been connected to winmx? well now it only says P=5 S=2 spm=7349. GOSH what is wrong? im definitly connected to it, and plus i have cable. someone please help, im so annoyed! i'll rate you 5 for anything! (link)
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Yeah, WinMX is a bitch. Lol. I tried to use it and I got the same stuff you are getting, No results, etc. I suggest that you get a different downloading program. There is a good one out there calles SoulSeek, it is a bit slower because it isnt as big of a network but it is def. good. And if you have a cable modem you should have no prob. Leave one in the inbox or IM me for further info. :)
-JTrevor
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14 f, i'm in high school and i'm not that happy. sometimes i think its really fun but sometimes i just feel like crying. people say high school is supposed to be the funnest part of you life.... please help (link)
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Yeah, highschool is SUPPOSED TO be the funnest part of your school, but alot of times it isn't. I know from personal experience that highschool has been fun, but has caused me to be depressed more than ever...to the point of actually crying. I say, just go along with lifes course, where ever it may take you. Try to be happy, and just think to yourself that life isn't so bad, and people aren't made to be sad. Everyone has their ups and downs...so trust me you are not alone. If you ever need more help or want to talk, grab my Screen-name from my column and IM me, i'll be glad to chat. Hope I helped. :)
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my boyfriend and i broke up more than a month ago but we went out for almost a year. at first i wanted to stay friends with him, but now it seems like he doesnt want to. i still like him and he likes another girl, and i dont know what to do everytime i see him. i'm in high school (14) (link)
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These situations are tough. Where one side wants to be friends and the other doesn't or doesn't seem to want to. All I can tell you is to do what you feel is right. In most situations I have witnessed like this, both people got over each other and everything turned out for the best of them. On the subject of what you should do around him, my advice is just be yourself. He already knows you better than most people because you guys went out for so long. HE will realize that your a good person, and would like to be friends and not have a bad ending ruin things, and if he doesnt...hes an ass..:) Hope I helped. :)
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I watch alot of movies..well..alot of love movies. The movies where ppl fall in love. And the more i watch those movies the more i want that in reality. I want to be in love..does neone else feel that way?
Or am i just stupid for even thinking that :/
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NO your not stupid...not at all. You know how many movies I have watched and wished that thats how my life could be, and how that movie could be reality, specially with the people in it. Hehe. So, no...alot of people feel the same way as you do, including myself. Its just a way that people function. Movies are to over-rated thinking about it, things happen in them that don't happen in real life. It makes me depressed alot, but I get over it. Its the same things with songs that talk about love, and break-ups. But don't lett it get to you, your day will come...PROMISE! :)
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I just bought sims 2 today and i was soo excited to finally get it. When i started playing it though, my computer kept freezing and moving really really slowly! I'm soo frustrated i'm ready to chuck it out the friggin window..any idea whats wrong? (link)
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It depends on how old your system is. Mostg older systems lets say before 2001 or so can't handle much gaming abilitys due to its low amount of RAM and GHz. This is most likely the problem, unless you bring a virus into the picture. Some viruses could cause your system to move extremely slow and your system not to work. If i knew what year your system was or its specifications then I could help you a little better. But these two things are most likely the problem. Hit me up if you need anything more. :)
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I'v always kinda knew that i was a lil distured inside cuz im usually always sad and never happy. I juss try to put on a happy face when im not home juss when im out or around my friends cuz no1 wants 2 hang around sum1 who's depressed all the time. But im so tired of being sad and feeling this way. I finally knew that i had sum serious issues today. There was a football game at my school but me and my two friends left during it cuz it was boring so we went to the mall. My mom picked me up 20 minutes late so i was standing there by myself but we got the exits confused. But when i was standing there i had a breakdown i juss wanted to cry. So instead i started punching the granet pillars infront of the mall to hold in my tears. Kinda self mutilation i guess. I dont wanna go to a therapist cuz every1 will think im crazy and i wanna kill myslef. Im juss tired of being so sad all the time. It juss seems lyk god put me on this earth to be miserable and to see how much i could take. Im tired of it...what should i do? (link)
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I have felt like you before, and have for a while lately. I think that I could best help you if you IMed me sometime on the weekend. It will be alot easier to help you and it will be alot easier for you to understand one on one. I want to help. :)
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