Hello everyone! I think I am a great Advice Giver! My friend thought that she was fat and started to not eat, I got really scared so I gave her some good advice about loving herself! Now she is healthy and loves me to death for the advice, all I can say to her is your welcome because it makes me feel awesome that I helped someone! So feel free to e-mail me about anything! I'd love to help! Please feel free to ask me about anything! I promise I can help! ~*!Brittany!*~
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ok...my best friend Bethany gets really annoying sometimes and she always makes up lies to make her life sound cool and exciting. She told everyone that shes smoked weed...and she hasnt. and she told everyone that she's not a virgin, and she is. and she just get's really annoying and i get mad at her easily cuz it bothers me and i jus say whatever comes to my mind and most of the time, its not very nice. and i wanna be friendz cuz shez awesum and i love her, shes muh bestest friend ever, but if i keep sayin wut comes to mind, i*ll lose her. PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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wow...you are like living my life! I had the same exact problem with a girl named Kara. She tried to tell everyone that she surfed and went to Hawaii and Cancun but she didn't. I talked to her about it and told her that she needed to stop telling people the she did these things! If she starts to get mad or upset then just tell her that you love her and you want to be best friends its just that you don't like her lying!
-!-Hope I Helped-!- ~*Britt*~
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For me my love life sucks. I have the most amazing friends, but i still wish I had someone to actually love.
My problem is that i dont know how to really get a guys attention. I am always told to be myself, and thats what guyslove the most. But, I do just that, and I seem to not be getting any feedback. Do I need to take my 'flirting level' up a bit? pleeease help me!!
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I used to hate it when girls say "just be yourself" because it didn't work on me either. I mean yes, be yourself but raise your flirting level up a bit like you said! If they show signs of getting mad, move to another guy because some guys get mad....!! Hope i helped!! ~*Britt*~
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i cant stand not having a boyfriend, i havnt had one in soo long and i feel like im so ugly i mean when i get one i wont obsess over him or kill myself when we break up, but like i feel like im ugly i mean i have blue eyes brown hair and im tan i dont sound pretty but why cant i get a boyfriend??? what are some ways i can??HELPP (link)
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You sound just like me!! I am 13 and I thought I was soo ugly! I am going to have a picture soon but you sound very pretty to me! I thought i was soo ugly but the guy down the street (Zack) is the coolest guy in school, i thought i could never get him. well we started hanging out and flirting ALOT! and i found out he liked me!! I was soo happy! but i think you should find a guy that you really like to be around and just be yourself and if you want... flirt! :) -Hope I helped!!! [G][O][O][D] [L][U][C][K][!][!]
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I have this one friend that i just met and he's thinking about commiting suicide how do I change his mind? We all care about him and he just won't listen to us! We have told hm that we care about him and would hate to see this happen to him but he just wont listen to us! What do I do? Keep in mind that no matter what were not going to send him to see a shrink! (link)
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Personally i had a best friend who took pills to try and kill herself... she didn't die but you can sit down and really talk with your friend and ask him what is wrong. If he won't listen adn still says he's going to kill himself, then you need to talk to his parents or someone you trust! ;)
P.S.- rate me if you want! Thanks!
~Sunshine!
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I like a boy. Jackson. He is cute. He likes me, too. I want to make something for him. WHAT? A friendship braclet?????????????? HELP!!!!!!!!
~~~~~~Crazy over Him (link)
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You make whatever feels best! If you like him and he likes you....get a hook-up with him! Ask one of your friends to ask one of his friends to get ya'll going out! Then you will know what to make!
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Lately my boyfriend is being very cold to me. He doesn't want to hug or hold me, he barelly calls. I try to be very affectionate with him but it hurts when you get no affection back. He constantly thinks that I am either lying or cheating on him, which I am doing neither. I love him very much and I want things to work out between us but I don't know what else to do to show him I am good to him. What should I do? (link)
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I think you should talk to him. Tell him that you love him and that you promise you are not cheating or lying to him. Talk to him about it...he should come around and get the idea that you love him! :)
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ok, 4-h is having a camp out of town. my grandma is afraid i'll get homesick. and she doesn't trust everybody. Life is such a drag! She says I can't go unless she is a chaperon. My friends get to go. I told her that they get to go. She says I'm the boss and you're gonna listen to what I say. (i live with her) My friends' dads are chaperones and one's mom is a chaperon. I told her that and she said I'll think about letting you go. I askedmyfriend what were the odds of my grandma(who is 63) of becoming a chaperon. She said 0 out of 10. What do I do? Please don't tell me to wait because i already have waited and asked her about every 5 days. She keeps saying I'll think about it. I know that means no. If you have the odds of her becoming a chaperon or even the chances of me going please tell me even if its stupid. Im desperate! If u nowhat i should do tell me that, too. thanks. :) (link)
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Well, I know how that feels about my mom. But you need to tell her that all your other friends mom's or dad's are chaperoning and that you can also trust her. Sometimes you can do nice things for her and that might change her mind a little bit! ;)
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Well basically I'm really out of shape. I don't play any sports i don't take dance classes or things like that. And i would like to stay in shape even though it's really hard for me. Does any body know any excersises that i could do over a couple of minutes to keep me in shape? (link)
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Well, excercising is a very good way to get fit! You need to go to your town fitness center and go to the work-out room and work-out! (It's fun to run on the treadmill and read at the same time!) But you can also buy excercising tapes! My mom does excercises all the time, if you e-mail me then I could probably ask my mom for some advice on things to do! :)
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I HAVE A RABBIT BUT I HATE RABBITS. I LOVE DOGS, THOUGH. MY GRANDMA (WHOM I LIVE WITH) SAID I COULD HAVE A DOG IF I TOOK CARE OF A RABBIT FIRST. I DON'T WANT TO TAKE CARE OF IT BUT I KNOW I HAVE TO. WHAT DO I DO? I DON'T WANT TO TAKE CARE OF IT BUT I REALLY WANT A DOG. (link)
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I think you need to take care of the poor rabbit! Then maybe you could get to liking the rabbit and act like you love it and make sure you take really good care of it and your grandma will surely be prioud of you and she will probably get you a dog!
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I have dedicated this poem to my plant that will not grow.
little little fern why dont u grow,
little little fern i want to know,
i sit here waiting for you,
i just dont know what to do,
i put you outside i pit you inside,
but every since my cat ate u it died.
should i keep my fern?
Ms. Ferny Fran :) (link)
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Well if your cat ate it, I don't think its good anymore! But if you really care about this little fern....then I guess you can keep it! And give your poor little kitty a good funeral! Poor kitty! :(
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I work for a junior high school and there are plenty of good looking kids in the school. I am only 23 so I don't think it is wrong to like these students, not that any physical atraction would take place. But, there was one time, last week, were the most popular person in my Language arts third period class fingered and physically touched me! I was actually turned on! So, I told him to meet me at my house TOMOROW! I feel like I owe him either an appology... or a thanks. (if you know what I mean!)
What should I do
Master Bater
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I am 13 and tottaly confused because all my friends say this guy... likes me. but i don't think so! how do i know! cause i really like him too! And everyone at our lunch table is like all you guys do is flirt! I don't think we do unless i'm just not paying attention to it or something! I don't know if he likes me.
~Confused~
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Ok, first of all he probably does like you. I don't think your friends would just pop up and say that you guys are flirting. My friends told me that a guy was flirting with me and i was like "no way" because it didn't seem like it but now we are together so, just wait and see if he asks you out, or, if you can't wait, then get your friends to ask him if he likes naybody. Then, if he says 'yes' get them to throw out ome girls names then mention your name!
~*!Brittany!*~
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hey this isnt a question but i got a 160$ dress for 35$ great deal huh its so cute it is like a dark red at the top then it goes toa dark purple then to a black and it has black beads all ova it and the back part is an open back with these beads going straight across then it hangs down kinda hard to tell ya exactly
anyways its for the skol miltary ball and im goin wit my best friend kate
(no im not bi lez or anything) but i really wanna go wit nick or todd but ow ell
*******happy********
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Cool! I hope you have a good time! :)
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How can i stop myself from being self-consious? (link)
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This Is Going To Be Kind Of Long!:
I have known so many people that are self consious! My friend used to be but I told her every day to think "Nobody in this world is perfect" and to love yourself as you are. You might run into somebody (or a friend) that you thought was perfect. Trust me, I still think my friend is perfect. But then I realized, she's not. I mean if you really think about it, like i said above, nobody's perfect and thats why God (sorry if your religion is different) made us all different. But even though were different, everyone, and I mean everyone, is beautiful! :)
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OK SEE I HAVE ONLY HAD LIKE 3 BOYFRIENDS BUT I TELL MY FRIENDS THAT I HAVE HAD A TON AND I HAVENT EVEM KISSED A GUY BUT MY FRIENDS THINK I HAVE MADE OUT WIT LIKE EVERY GUY I DATED WHATS WRONG WITH ME AM I LIKE A LIE AHOLIC? (link)
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Ok, maybe you just want people to think that you had lots of boyfriends and that you made out with them because you want attention. I don' think your lying. But tell your friends that truth and maybe you will get some stress off your shoulders! :)
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I hate you guys. You gave me terrible advice and now i am stuck in spanish and failing. THANKS (link)
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Look, YOUR the one who asked everyone this question so you need to thank your self! Oh and jsut for the THANKS, heres something back to you!:
YOUR WELCOME! :)
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I have a HUGE crush on this guy at my church, but he HATES my guts. I actually think I love him, but I dont know why. What should I do?
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Wow..first of all, you don't sound like a girl to hate. Tell me why you think he said he hates you, then mail me back on here! I'm pretty sure he doesn't hate you! He's probably had some rough times in his life right now, maybe you could start off saying something nice to him like "I like your hair, or I like what your wearing!" :)
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My daughter is currently 13 years old. She's fairly mature and doesn't dress slutty. Now, she has liked this guy for about half a year. Today, he asked her out. They want to go see a movie with another couple their age on monday. I don't know if I should let her go. What is your stance on this? Is 13 too young to be dating? (link)
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Well, considering that I'm the same age as your daughter, then I would say that you should let her go! I don't dress slutty and I think I'm fairly mature. Girls our age are going through what grown-ups call "Puppy Love" and they just want to make it fun by going on dates and parties, etc.! :)
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Hey I am going out with this guy i like and then i have all these other guys i like and i want them to I really dont wanna break his heart cuz i love him to death But theres these other guys that i have been out with and they Like me and i like them to I love them what am i to do (link)
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I think you should stick with your boyfriend. You definetly dont want to break his heart or cheat on him. What if he finds out? That would make you feel bad. So stick with him and see how far that goes! :)
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I have a friend who is a really good friend of mine and she has boyfriends like all the time but she is not a slut or a hoe.These guys ask her to do all these things withher like touch her and everything and she is afraid to say no cuz it would ruin there relationship so she does them with him I just dont want her to get hurt what am i to do!!!!! Love,Help (link)
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You need to comfront your friend and ask her if she likes it. If she says no, then tell her that your scared that shes going to get hurt and that you really care abuot her. If she says that shes scared it will ruin there relationship, then tell her that she can find another guy that doesn't want to do those bad things! :)
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