i cant stand not having a boyfriend, i havnt had one in soo long and i feel like im so ugly i mean when i get one i wont obsess over him or kill myself when we break up, but like i feel like im ugly i mean i have blue eyes brown hair and im tan i dont sound pretty but why cant i get a boyfriend??? what are some ways i can??HELPP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? pRiiNcEsS_bRyT answered Monday September 20 2004, 12:15 am: its both good and bad to have a b/f
1. not having a b/f is good fer me cuz i flirt alot and i cant help it
2. having a b/f that u flirt with alot is good like me i use to flirt with this guy soo much so then we went out and it was good!
but not having a b/f doesnt meen yer ugly...maybe its good that u dont but if u really want one start lookin fer guys that interest you then stick with em!
RaTe ME!
darkconfessions answered Sunday September 19 2004, 8:35 pm: It usually doesn't matter if your pretty or not, it's all about inner beauty. If your nice to a boy you like, if there is a spark and if you flurt a little bit, the odds are he'll ask you out. Also, if he plays hard to get, put him on the spot (It's really hard to say no when a good friend asks you out). [ darkconfessions's advice column | Ask darkconfessions A Question ]
SunshineLvr91 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 5:25 pm: You sound just like me!! I am 13 and I thought I was soo ugly! I am going to have a picture soon but you sound very pretty to me! I thought i was soo ugly but the guy down the street (Zack) is the coolest guy in school, i thought i could never get him. well we started hanging out and flirting ALOT! and i found out he liked me!! I was soo happy! but i think you should find a guy that you really like to be around and just be yourself and if you want... flirt! :) -Hope I helped!!! [G][O][O][D] [L][U][C][K][!][!] [ SunshineLvr91's advice column | Ask SunshineLvr91 A Question ]
judith16 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 5:10 pm: Ok for starters...
I'm a 16 year old...and I dunno go to my column and see if im pretty because I dont really think i am...
I've had alot of peeps ask me out... and I dont understand it...but my friend told me its because I have self-confidence...when i walk she says i smile @ everyone my chins up high and I was...the supposed WALK ...all I have to tell you is that...be confident...get more envolved with guys FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT!!!!
juicyfruit answered Sunday September 19 2004, 5:06 pm: I have a lot of trouble on this issue too. I can't seem to get a boyfriend to save my life. :( I mean, I dress real cute and I never leave the house without making sure my hair and make-up and everything is in place...I also have a really good personality and I'm super friendly but no one yet! :(
I'm sure if you're just patient and act like you don't really want someone all the boys will flock to you. That's what I've been told anyway. :) Good luck! I hope you find the guy of your dreams! [ juicyfruit's advice column | Ask juicyfruit A Question ]
UnluckyWishes answered Sunday September 19 2004, 5:03 pm: You might be concentrating on it too much.You gotta relax and have fun.Lots of the time you cant find what your looking for, you gotta let it find you.Just try and think positive about yourself.I'm sure your not ugly , you pry just have it stuck in your head.Try and have fun with your friends and maybe the guy you've been waiting for will find you.Hope i helped. [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
JesusFreak2006 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 4:48 pm: i like a girl with confidence who is comfortable with herself the way she is...you havta be confident with what you have to work with...just have faith in your self that you can get any guy you want and you can make it happen as long as you keep in mind that any guy would be lucky to have you...
advicegiver789 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 4:46 pm: first of all dont worry about ur looks so much guys dont only look at u from the outside just talk to somone u like start by makng small talk and then try to make him laugh(avoid useing cheesy jokes)and pretty soon thell come to u [ advicegiver789's advice column | Ask advicegiver789 A Question ]
Sherry answered Sunday September 19 2004, 4:18 pm: Just be yourself! Meet guys at partys or something...Lots of ways you can meet guys but just be patient and be yourself and your time will come:) I know it sucks to wait.. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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