Well it's obvious saying no doesn't help. Get a lock and ONE key for your door. Lock it at all times, that way she can't come in your room. You may also try talking to your parent...although since she's the baby, they might take her side. But try it anyways, tell them you don't feel respected, that they wouldn't like it if you took something of theirs without asking and ruin it, so that your sister shouldn't be allowed to take your things and ruin them. Maybe you'll get them to agree to punish her if she does it again. I dunno, it maight help, but the lock thing will help a lot.

Good Luck!

Well you know having sex before marriage is also a sin, so does that mean you're going to save yourself? Also, you're not supposed to kiss guys because it leads to taughts of sexual acts which is also a sin. Does that mean you're never going to kiss a boy? Look what I'm trying to say is, it's ok that you're a christian, and you follow relegion, but remember that the bible was written a LOOOOOONG time ago, things have changed, people have changed. It's completely ok for you to masturbate. Think about it this way, wouldn't you rather masturbate when you feel horny, than going out and sleeping with a guy when you're horny? Don't feel guilty, it's a natural thing, very healthy. You're not doing anything wrong, and you will not burn in hell for it.

Look some people just get carried away. It's ok if your skinny, as long as your naturally that way, and aren't doing harmful things to yourself to get that way. Just like I think it's ok to be fat, everybody's beautiful in their own way. I think it's horrible that "fat" people are told that you need to be a size 4 to look beautiful, and I also think it's horrible that "skinny" people are either told to keep getting smaller, or to gain weight. It's crazy, strangers expecting us to look one way or another. We're human beings, and we're beautiful no matter what size we are, keep that in mind. People that hate on skinny people are caught up on this state of mind that society has build that says we have to be super skinny, and they obviously aren't. So they bad mouth them because they can't get that small. It's nonsense, and this is coming from an overweight person who is happy with the way they look.

Keep doing your thing girl, don't worry about anybody else. :)

Her fav. flowers
Stuffed animal (her fav. animal)
Chocolates
Write her a poem
Write her a song
Romantic dinner
Meet her at the door with nothing on...lol...is any of this helping?

Quality A meat (lol that's funny, but cute..u could take the meat out, add something else or just leave it at quality a)

Vivacious
Vital (concerned with or necessary to the maintenance of life)
Veracious (truthful, honest)
Virtuous (morally excellent)

Zealous (filled with or characterized by zeal)
Zest (an enjoyably exciting quality)

That's all I got, hope it helped.

Stay out of bed! There's not much you can do, I suffer from Insomnia BIG time, and my sleep is all over the place. Usually if I'm trying to stay awake because it's daytime I try taking a shower, that usually wakes me up for 2-4 hours. You could also try moving, clean your house or something. As long as you don't get comfortable in a bed, or the couch, or even the floor, you might be able to make it.

Good Luck!

Sorry, I couldn't find those lyrics either, I did find some other lyrics by Dear Whoever, you should take a look, maybe it's under a different title.

http://www.lyricattack.com/d/dearwhoeverlyrics/

Well this may sound a lil bit silly, but have you thought about getting him a stuffed animal? Does he like any specific animal, that you may be able to get him? I had a boyfriend back in high school who loved monkeys, and so I got him a stuffed monkey once. He loved it so much, that even after we broke up, and he had a new girlfriend, he told me he still had the monkey in his bed with him when he slept. So yeah think about that.

Hope this helped, and good luck :D

This is very insulting indeed! You may think Theater is a waste but she doesn't. She's been working hard, 6 years, and this wouldn't make you realize that this is her passion? Let me tell you this from an actors point of view. I love acting, and I am aware of the risks that come with acting. Now I did not go to college for acting like I wanted to. I let my mom influence me to give it up because she felt the exact same way you did. And let me tell you, that not a day goes by that I don't regret it. You think that if she does something "better" she'll have a better career? My friend's dad was a sociology major, and got his degree, and he works at a low paying job that has NOTHING to do with his degree. What I'm trying to say is, that all career choices have risks, and that you run the risk of not being sucessful, no matter what you decide to study. You may not agree with your friend's choice, but you aren't her, you two don't share the same opinions on everything. I'm sure that someone out there doesn't want you to persue whatever it is your planning on persuing because they thought it was an unrealistic dream. You're not perfect, you don't know everything, so let your friend do what she wants to do, and support her, don't stress her out with all this negative energy.

I hate to brake it to you, but if your scar is as bad as mine then you'll carry it with you forever. You wont be able to help the way you feel, you have to inwardly push those insecurities aside. A lot of times, I lay awake in bed, and think about my ex best friend, and I start to sob, but you know, I cry it out, and then I remind myself that I was the BEST best friend that I could be, and that if we aren't friends anymore it's not because of anything I did, it's because she didn't appreciate me. Maybe you should try telling yourself that whenever you feel like your going to loose another friend because they haven't spoken to you in a few days or something. And you got to just make sure you don't close yourself off because you're scared you'll get hurt again. Be yourself, as long as you do that, you are NEVER to blame if someone stops talking to you.

I really hope this helps, and I'm truly sorry for your pain.

Have you ever really loved a woman- Bryan Adams (although that's a bit one sided)

Everything I do- Bryan Adams

Thought I died and gone to heaven- Bryan Adams (what can I say I really like him, lol)

Always- Atlantic Star (GREAT SONG)

Love Shack- The B-52's

Here and Now- Luther Vandross

When I see you Smile- Bad English

Eternal Flame- The Bangles

Will you still love me- Chicago (One of my fav. songs)

You're the Inspiration- Chicago

Could I have this Kiss forever- Whitney Houston and Enrique Iglesia

I have nothing- Whitney Houston

I Want to know what love is- Foreigner

Ok I'm gonna stop now, just realized I gave you almost all 80's. Sorry about that, it's my fav. decade. Anyways hope this helped some.

Well, you obviously like this senior more, and your sophomore friend knows it. Why are you even thinking about putting him through that? Someone likes you, and he knows you like someone else more, and that at any moment if the senior decided he wanted a girlfriend, you'd drop the sophomore and go for the senior. How do you think that makes him feel. If you date the sophomore it's only going to be really hard for him. I'm sorry to say (and you'll probably give me low ratings, and I'm willing to deal with it, because I'm not here to get good ratings, I'm here to give people perspective) I think you're thinking about yourself, and maybe you should think a little bit more about these two guys, and whether or not your hurting them. Put yourself in the sophomore shoes, how would you feel?

Well for the most part having a boyfriend is like having a guy friend that you can kiss, but it goes a little beyond that. Your boyfriend should be the one person you want to spend time with the most, he should give you those little butterflies in your stomach when he's near you, or kisses you. You should want to kiss him, and there should be a little extra romantic side to you with him. Like wanting to be alone with him, maybe cooking for eachother, I don't know, something that you both find romantic, like doing things together that only the two of you know about.

But if what you feel for him is the same feelings you have for your guy friends, then maybe it's not that you're trying to convince yourself that he's just a friend, but maybe that's how it really is. Sometimes people get confused because they associate braking up with having a problem in the relationship, and that's not always the case. You may just have friend feelings for him, but not want to hurt him.

My advice is to think about this long and hard, think about why it was you started dating him, what you felt then, what you feel now, what you would feel if you broke up, and what you would feel if he started dating someone else. You could maybe try doing something romantic together, see what you feel about that too. If you still have only friend feelings for him after all that, then you'll know what you have to do. Good luck!

I don't think it's a bad thing at all. If it's ok for a 15 year old girl to date a 17 year old guy, then why can't it be the other way around? It's not like he's 11, then that'd be a little wrong. If you like him I say go for it, you may be worrying for nothing anyways, he might be your age. Not that it matters, since obviously he can't be that immature or you probably wouldn't be interested.

Wow, yeah I agree with what cheburashka said, you need to tell someone, whoever you feel most comfortable talking to. You wont feel comfortable at your school if you just leave it alone, and school is supposed to be like a second home. Besides, what if he's done this before? Or what if he does it again? Someone needs to know what kind of person he is before something REALLY bad happens. Be brave, do what you have to do.

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I agree with Krissy, if you're 100% sure that it's fake don't answer it, but if you have doubts, answer it just in case.

I'm not really the best person to ask about that, you could try asking another columnist, or you can go to this site: http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm

I hope that helped some, sorry I couldn't be of any more assistance.

Ok I'll admit that is a tad weird, if you two would have been older (lets say you were 17 and he was 15), it might be less weird. You could maybe try to wait till you're both in high school. Then again, by that time you might like someone else, or he might have a girlfriend. So I guess if you really like him, and you don't have a problem with his age, and you're prepared for the comments made by other people (because, lets be honest here, people will talk about this). If you can deal with it, then go for it.

As for dropping hints, maybe you could just flirt with him a little, tell him he's such a nice sweet guy, that any girl would be lucky to have him, that you wish you had a guy like him. Stuff like that. You could also think about trying a more direct approach and just coming out and asking him if he would find it weird, and if he's interested. That's all I can say, it's really up to you to decide though.

Well I know of a school that has theater and education, but it's two separate majors. I don't see why you can't double major, or do a major and minor. Anyways the school is called Massachusetts College of Liberal Arts, this is the website http://www.mcla.edu/
Personally I think this is a good school, it's small, so you'll be able to get more attention from professors, and it's located in the Berkshires, a GREAT theater district, great things in walking distance. This is actually the school that I want to transfer to (English, Education, and Theater :D) I'm also from CT (Bridgeport), and it's about a 3 hour trip from my house. I hope this helps.

Also, if you haven't already, sign up to FastWeb, it's a great site, it'll help you a lot in your college search.

Hey everyone, so it's been a while since the last time I was on here...A LOT has happened w/ my life. But I am back, and I'm here to help as always. So any questions I can help you with, please don't hesitate to ask, I will answer them all as honestly as possible, and if I can't answer something I will tell you that I can't, I will NOT give you false information or lead you on.

Also, and this is something I want everyone to know: No matter what I, or anyone else advices you to do, at the end of the day it should be your decision. We're only here to give you perspective, it's up to you to decide whether or not it is the best thing to do. (That was my little disclaimer :D) Feel free to contact me anytime, day or night.

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