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My older sister is 17 and tonight (a few minutes ago) she came home from her friends house and her room & clothes - everything - reaked soo bad of cigarette smoke. When i confronted her about it she told me "yeah i know, Nikki`s [the girls house she went to] house smells like that." I dont know Nikki that well but should i believe me sister? I mean, i dont even think i need to nark on her. My parents will find out eventually. But, what do i do??? (link)
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um...well, maybe YOU should go to Nikki's house and see if it really smells like that. Don't make it obiovos tho. Yet, if it's your sister herself's that's smoking, well, you really can't do anything about it. She's 17, and she should be able to make her own choices about these stuff. BUT..you can always drop her subtle hints about smoking and stuff, like i do with my own sister...i kept on hinting about the absurdness of over-dieting that she finally stopped starving herelf to death ^^.
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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend (link)
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All the advice posted below tells you that, even if she'll be mad at you, tell someone. So DO THAT. But before anything, go to the school counselor, because as this is a student rape, they have most power over it. Beside, the school counselor can listen to you in private, and get the whole problem over quietly, without causing any riffles throughout the whole student body. Trust me, go to the school counselors first, and they'l be ablt to contact the police later if nessary. Becasue if you call the police first, they can't do much, and telling she/his/your parents will only cause panic and rash actions to be done towards the boy that could be dragged up in court as defence towards the rape scene.
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i wanna get fatter but ma matabalism is way to high and everyone thinks im anorexic or baliemic and they yell at me when i skip luch cuz i dont got ne money and they think i just say that to get them away so what do i do help me plz. i want to get muscular a fatter ne one kno how to do this
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lols, im like you too, 13 and still 70 pounds. Join track, fitness, or if your school have it, the bike team (my school does). Since muscles weigh more than fat, it would do you good to gain some. erm, DON'T buy a crapload of Krispy Kremes because it doesnt help. I've tried eating a lot of junk food too, but with our fast metabolisms the fat and sugar would just e used away. Too much excerizing i guess =]
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Hi!!
I'm 16 but still in year 11 and I desperately want to move out. I have a job with a regular income (not huge but it's enough) and quite a bit of money saved up. Me and two of my friends want to move out and rent a house somewhere, but we don't know if anyone will rent to us!! Even though we're over 16, we're still in school and you can't get a full-time 'proper' job until you've finished year 11, so does anyone know if you can rent houses - and if you can, if anyone is willing to rent them to you! - before you finish year 11? Or will we have to wait until July, when the school year ends, despite our age?
Thanks loads! (link)
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I dunt think they will, but maybe i'm wrong. But it's stupid moving out. Wait until you have a depenible income becasue rentin a house is mad expensive. Even if you share with your friends! So stay with your parents until you finish your good ole schooling!
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Hi everyone,
OK, me and my friends had loads of stuff planned for this half term holiday but they've all cancelled on me! I always argue with my mum so I spend most of my time away from her, upstairs on the PC or in my room. Seen as my friends have cancelled on loads of stuff, I have nothing to do!
Anyone got any suggestions that don't involve going out by myself or spending time with my 'rents?
Thanks!! (link)
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then use tha good time to patch up som stuff with your mom! My sister always is on the pc too and that hurts our mom, even when they argue all the time.
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theres this really annoying ugly ignorent kid at my school saying stuff to me and id like to give him some good comebacks because im sick of his attitude and the way he talks to girls... anyone have any good comebacks? (link)
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You: Say, i never knew pimples have two sexes. Because that's what they're proving that on your face.
Kid: You shouldnt be saying as you have as much as i do. maybe even more.
You: Ah yes, but at least i wasnt ugly to begin with.
Erggg....i'm so sorri but i'm starving and couldnt think. This is wut poped up in my mind. Even as i lay helpless. Or you can just tell the kid where to stuff it. If not, Act nonchant. Uncaring. Nobody could work agasint that. They get madder and madder. But as in history, as in now. You WANT the other side to punch first as Lincoln had. lols.
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Hey, I'm a really good student and everything, I'm also real smart. I'm in a gifted school, but I'm just not motivated. I really need some motivation!! thx =) (link)
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Ganbatte! (that is "do your best"in japanese) In Chobits (it's an anime) Chi had helped a guy (Hedeki) with his homework by saying the above! lols
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I have been sick since last night...I ate left overs and about 3 V-day Chocolates. Well I feel as if I want to throw up and yet and I can't and I occaisionaly get some pains on my side and of stomach. My mother said I could have Appendicitas. (Spelling?) In my family Appendix, is a big deal. (My family has a history)
I have tried to google info but perhaps some of you could tell me some main things that go along with appendixcitas.
Thanks (link)
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Fisrt of all, you NEVER NEVER NEVER eat leftovers and chocolate. Dunt ask me why, it just is. The best advice can be taken onli from your doctor.
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I'm 22/m and my sister just turned 16. We're very close with one another and usually can share anything. Recently, however, she has become more sexually explorative, which is fine, but now seems to be obsessed by it. She told me yesterday that she wants to hook up with this 19 year old freshman in college that I know. They're not dating, but are considering getting to know each other. My sister used to be so righteous and moral and I feel that she's going to just end up hurt with this new sexual discovery. She's thinking about getting ahotel room with this guy this weekend. What should I do? I don't want her to get hurt and frankly, I don't want her to turn into a slut. Thanks =Concerned Brother= (link)
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Talk with this date of hers. I could have helped you if only she was in the "starting to get intrested"stage. Becasue then, you can tell her about the risks of underage sex. getting pregnate is no joke, and it can be very painfull both emotionally and physically. and you can also tell her wat she wanted to noe about sex (you have to see throug those nasty days to save her) without the garbled lil kids version of it. Maybe it's becasue of dodged or unasked questions that she had wanted to noe but never got the chance. So she's trying to make up for it. But if it cant help your sister, then use it to help other people that you love.
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13/m
hi,
i've taken the whole am-i-fat testing and stuff from different websites, and they all say the same thing, that i don't weight enough. i don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. my doctor i guess knows about this, but hasn't really told me to do anything. so... what can i do? i eat until i'm full, and thats it. please don't say "eat more!". i'll rate you if you give extremely good advice, give extremely funny advice, or give extremely bad advice.
yours,
the thin one (link)
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You're thin? YOU"RE THIN! HOW THA hELL CAN YOU CALL YOURSELF THIN?!?! I""M 13 AND I ONLI WEIGHT 70 FRICKEN POUNDS! AND YOU SAY YOUR THIN! nah, dunt worrie about it. You have pplz to love you. Be happy for that.
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im a weird person at skewl, i can be nice but thnx to my past on my dad and not seeing my mom i became evil. i want to be nice but people dont give me the chance to. Pleaz help!
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Well, i'm hated at school too, becasue they think that i'm too smart for them...evne my mom and dad alwasy remind me that i'm someone that nobody likes (they think that that will make me more motivated at the dishes). BUt if they hate you too, then screw them. You have plenty of chances at friends throght the internet, like gunbound. I made 75 percent more internet friends then neighborhood friends!
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i have a small problem. i like sex. i like it alot. i almost feel i need it like air. i know its kinda like a drug, it can be addictive, but i dont care. im a male slut, bigtime. is there a sexaholics annonmous? i mean, i know love making is best...you know, when your dating or in love with someone, but it's like i wanna screw everything in sight! help!! (link)
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Heehee, i noe wat you feel. I like somthing too like that. I bet you go all fast too right? Dont do that. Take your time to enjoy it slowly, take a few hours, and you wont need it that much anymore. People who needs sex alot usually needs it because, althought you have it alot, you dont enjoy it enought, you just go bam, and it's finished. oh, and if you're getting bored with regular sex, then try some kinky ideas, like tying a hankercheif to your partner's eyes. It's really fun if you take it slow ^^
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I need advice on how to make cleaning my room fun... it's so boring and i just hate doing it. My room is large, and there is stuff all over it. Any ideas to make cleaning it more fun? and maybe easier? Thanks very much! I'll rate good ideas! (link)
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Heeheehee, i'll help clean your room if you pay me....i already wash my teacher's dishes...lols.
When you're cleaning your room, first pick up all your same articles. Like pick up all your clothing first, and put them in the need-to-wash basket. Then your books. Then you various playboy magazines. Lols. YOu noe? Turn on the radio, or your cd, or the tv. you can even watch dvds on your computer whie you are cleaning up, that's wat i do. Dont leave your mess cluttering about, or cut corners, because cutting corners builds up another mess, even if it takes a considerable time to be noticeable. That's all.
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i have the abilty to get good grades and i already know that. the problem is that i can't seem to always do my homework and focus on my classwork. i need ways to help me focus and do my homework right when i get home. (link)
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Dont eat so much sugar. First, take a shower when you get home everyday, and then do your homework, becasue water can help relax you first. Then, put out some of your faavorite food in front of yourself, and try NOT to eat it until you finish your homework. You'll feel guilty if you eat it before your done. It has worked for me because i had the same problem. lols. And try to plan out "long distance" homework. Like, if your teacher gave you a book with 30 chapters to be done in a month, then you make yourself read a chapter everyday!
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ok well i have a friend but lately shes been pissing me off... last year she made out with this guy and all they did was kiss but she went around telling people that he fingered her... then this year she hooked up with him again but she says she doesnt like him anymore... she still like makes out with him and i guess its like the "friends with benefits" sort of thing but i get so mad at her because i know the only reason shes doing it is to be "experienced" so she thinks shell be cool... then she tells me not to tell anyone but she like advertises it all over her live journal thing... the rest of the people that know are annoyed by it too and i dont want to talk to her because everytime i talk to her about anything negative she takes it way to personally and gets all mad... help!
-i rate 5s for good answers (link)
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Hey, my friend id like that too. She just has the wrong idea of whaat's cool and what's not. Be lucky that she isnt smoking instead. If she gets all negative on you, then leave her alone for a while, and it'll die out. Becasue this isnt someting that you can help with.
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how do you move to the beat at a school dance and not look like an idiot? i tried copying the dance moves i saw in movies in parts where people go clubbing and i look like an idiot. so how do i dance at a school dance and not look like an idiot? and what are some moves you can do? for example: move your arms like your swimming *even tho it looks retarded* but just stuff like that. sry about length your advice is much appreciated (link)
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Well...this will sound silly...i've just been on my first school dance too, and i'm going to go to another one tomorrow! The trick is, copy wat the others are doing, and you'll be fine! The teachers were watching over us (we cant dirty dance...boohoo) and my favorite one, The bike teacher, told me that if i wanna learn how to dance, then i'll just have to follow my firend. Meanwhile, the web class have all these camcorders around us, and brodcasted it to the web *groans*, you noe wat? nvm, dont dance at ALL, unless you wanna show you wiggling your ass too thousands of no-life perverts across the internet....
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he always hugs me close and everything and i want to ask him out but not in a cute little flirty way like notes in locker or anything like that but i just dont want to be like hey dude i like you wanna go out ya know cuz he might think im weird or something so does anybody have any ideas that arnt all cute and flirty ? thanks (link)
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To ask a guy out,
What are you to do?
When the problem plagues you
Like the damned flu....
Go up to the guy, and ask him out! If he wants to go out with you, then he'll say yeh. If not, then you can forget about him and move on! Ask him when he hugs you, so that the atmosphere is already rite....
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Ok. There is this girl at our school and like 2 monthes ago, i got the same shoes as her. Now, yesterday she wore these shoes to school and my friend and I alreayd have them but we were just too scared to wear them. So anyways, should we wear them to school or what, beacuse this girl gets mad whenver people :copy: her. What should we do?! (link)
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I have another friedn like that. Just tell her that You arent copying her since the company avertised it and you wanted the same thing. And if you really wanna bring her down a peg, tel her that nobody is looking to copy off her. She's not that big of a deal!
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Is it okay if you have little hairs on your boobs? I think its sort of gross and I'm not about to shave my boobs but does everyone have it or am I the unfortunate one? (link)
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According to fabolouzxkay8's advice, yes, every female is SUPPOSED to have hair on their breasts, but the hair growing back longer and thicker is just a myth. Hair is dead man, and it doesnt matter WHAT you do to it, it wont change anything. it goes for your body mainly.
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valentines day is just about here... i NEED to find something for my b/f. we have been together a month and i have no clue what to get him. what would you guys love to get for valentines day??? i know heaps of people are prolly askin the same question but i really have no idea! please HELP!!! i only have a few days left to decide!!! :( thanks for any help, i will rate high if the answer is not just plain stupid. (link)
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Wow, tough question...um, you basically have to play on your bf's intrests. If you cant find any, then get him a sweater, because valentine's day always is in the few coldest days of the year....
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