okay well my two best friends started going out... why does that bother me???
mods please DONT delete pleasee
ur probably jealous or u just dont feel good wen ur w/ them and their kissin and stuf i no how it is i get the same feelin w/ my bestfriends but it will al go away once they brake up and beleive me they brake up fast at this age ;)
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My friend smokes..and hes 13. Im trying to ask him to quit and i give him my point of view. Ive tried almost everything in the book..so dont say talk to him. i have.
u have 2 get ur friend off it i have had 2 many experiances w/ smokin pot and stuff and i dont want it 2 happen 2 ne1 else just tell him this story and its mine and its tru: a bunch of my friends r in drug rehab now and one them has lung cancer and the doctor sed he has until the end of september 2 live! ive nown him since kindergarten and now im gonna lose him. another one of my very good friends died earlier this year from smking pot. a month b4 that i tried 2 get him off it...i tried 2 help him....but he couldnt help himself...he was found by his parents in his room on the floor w/ foam comi out of his mouth and blood dripping down his face. he only did pot for 2 months!! so plz just explain 2 him the consequences.
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Hi well Im jj15 and i need ur help and fast!
I am going out with a guy named rocky , well everytime I go and talk to him he just says Hi and then says that he has to go, Im afraid that he's cheating on me.
I tried asking him if he was and he would just stare and say no then he gose off somewhere.
I am really afraid!!!!!
Help me plz what do I do?
please dont erase this ?!!
and I got my pic on my coulmn now
hey,well id say that there cud b 1 of 2 things goin on. 1 is that he's not cheating on u and hes just busy. or he is cheatin on u and he just feels guilty and duznt want 2 talk 2 u cuz he'll end up spiilin it. just sit him down and nicely ask him wats goin on w/ him latly. hope i helped ;)
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Okay, please Mods PLEASE do not delete this as I'm REALLY concerned!
Well, this girl at my school, she's not my friend or anything I don't know her that good, but she's pregnant. And, she's only 12. We're in 7th grade and all that, and she's expecting TWINS, she should get an abortion and all that but she wants to go through with it. At least that's what I heard, (I hear a lot of gossip. -__-;) Well, anyway, she also smokes and drinks, and she has purple hair and a ton of piercings, and I'm afraid if she goes through with it, her body won't be ready with all those drugs, and she's so young, and she might die...
She's got a pretty bad life, and nobody really likes her, but I still worry about these kind of things...and well, I'm not quite sure what to say to her to try to convince her not to do it. Can anyone give me ideas?
Sorry this was so long. =\
well ur doin the right thing by wanting 2 help some1 u dont no. i would talk 2 her wen no1s arond and tell her wat u think and b nice 2 her and that she shouldnt get an abortion but should ddefinatley stop smoking and drinkin and tell her that shes endangering her life by makin these hcoices. and tell her this "it is not our abilities that show who we truly are...it is our choices, chose wisley" hope this helps ;)
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i would lije people who have either seen this movie or saw a scary movie and had the same problem as me to answer this.
i watched this movie "The Ring" like 5 months ago,and i still get kinda scared and cant sleep.what should i do?
im the scaredest person in the world and the ring scared me half 2 death wen i first saw it but after i thought about the scaryparts and how they were so stupid they realy didnt show nething bloody and just think that it duznt make sense so it can neva happen hope i helped
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Ok...I'm 16 years old and I don't go to a regular school...I go to a girls' school. I don't KNOW any boys. I just don't. I wanted to meet some because I really want a boyfriend. So, I went to a restaurant the other day, and started smiling at one of the guys there. He just gave me a look like "What? Why are you staring at me?"
What is wrong with me??? I thought that was a good way!!
Well, atleast I got his attention, right?
ugh.........
nothings wrong maybe he just duznt no girls or maybe hes shy ui werent doin nething wrong. i can only imagine how much it must suck 2 b in a skool that only has the same sex.
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I am havin soo sooo many problems! I need so much help!
1. My dad is sexually horassin me and Im affraid to tell my mom bc she will get a divorce and well have no money!!
2. I am havin so many problems with movin I dont want to and we relocate like 5 times a year and none or our family is in the military!!
3. My mom is a major bitch!!!!
4. My hole family and supposed to be friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wanna kill my self but Im afraid Ill go to heell stupid huh
Plz plz plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
u do have alot on ur plate 2 cope w/ at the moment but if u listen 2 me youll b able 2 make a stand and make it all stop. it seems as tho both ur parents r unexceptable. u shud inform DSS straight away even if it meens u mite get new parents. these people arent acting like parents their acting like sickos that dont care 4 ur feelings. and wateva u do dont kill ur self. u dont go 2 hell..its much worse....ur chosing 2 take ur life wen God has not callled u yet. i no it sounds gay but its tru. youll just b a drifting soul in an open space forever which actually i gess is hell. just go 2 DSS and tell them everything. dont b afraid. just remeber this "it is not our abilities that show who we truly are.it is our choices" chose wisley;) i reallly hope i helped and plz tell me how it works out
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ok.. one of my best friends uncle died last nite we were all really close with him but they were like really close n shes talkin about killing herself wut do i say to her to help her try n stop trying to kill herself? help i rate high
explain 2 her wat she ill miss out on if she dies. a family. a husband. graduating. and tellher that if she kills herself shell make alot of her frineds feel he same way and then shell feel guilty aand tell her shell b the cause of even more misery and death if she kills herself.
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There is this guy that i had met and the next day he took my virginity and then 2 days later he came back for more. I didnt really know him and we starting freaking out hat i might've been preg.But i am not and like ever since he has been scared to talk to me. I dont care that he doesnt talk to me but like doing what i did with him ruined my life. I got kicked out of my moms house and like alot of stuff happened. I dont talk to him because i am not important to him or whatever. I feel so used and gross. I wish this feeling can leave me but it wont. I need to feel clean ,any advice?
u hav 2 talk 2 him and get things squared between u 2
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i've had a best friend for 3 yearz and we both got caught lying and sneaking out and my parents grounded me from ever seeing her agen..im not allowed to hang out wid her AT ALL forver.i really lost their trust wid me and my best friend. but the thing is shes the only one i talk to in this town dat relle cares about me. and i told my parents dat but they dont care no matter what i sai.dey tell me to find another best friend but i cant bc i only want her and im not going to find another best friend this quick. i cant just forget 3 years of friendship. please help on what could i do. i rate good.
heres wat id do. youve comletly lost ur parents trust and there seems like theres no way gettin bak rie? well now ur guilt free 2 sneek out now and meet her again. or just talk 2 her wen ur parent r gone or pretend 2 b talkin 2 sum1 els on the phone. dont let ur parents stop u from havin a life.im not allowed ont his sit but i am arent i? just remember this "it is not our abilities that show who we truly r....it is our choices" dhoose wisly ;)
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hey i think i might be overweight. i'm 5'7 and weigh 105 lbs. my bff said i'm a beanpole. but i think i culd lose weight. help.
u prob cud lose like 5 pounds at the most cuz im 6' and weigh 147 and i have almost no stomach showin
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im really confused.im a catholic and bieleve in everything it teaches.iv been baptised and confermed too.but i also beilieve in abortion.i think women should have the right to choose if they want.is this a sin? does this mean im goin to hell? pleaz answer.
i dont no if youll go 2 hell but i do no this. wen a girl has an abortion, they r dhoosing 2 take away a life b4 it has even strted. they r taking away th uture and hopes and freams of a child b4 it even has a chance 2 take its first breath. 2 me that is a sin worse than murder. but no this:"it is not our abilities that show who we truly r, it is our choices" choose wisley ; )
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Me and my b/f have been going out now for 3 months. And i haven't kissed him yet..not even a peck. Is there something wrong with me? He has tried once to make a move but i backed off. Does anyone have any advice on how to do it or anything??!!!
just relax and go w/ it. try not 2 hesitate and dont b afraid. and dont it unless u feel comfortable w/ this guy
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some one tp'd me n we nee ways to get them back good cause ew know who it is n its a fun and game sort of thing cause its just a war so any ideas ?? X3 the kers
well just do the usyual water ballon, supersokers, stink bombs, itching powder, or put shavin cream in their hands while sllepin , put their hands in warm water, or sneek in their room while their sleepin w/ 2 flashlights and put them up 2 his face and turn them on at the same time and yell "TRUUUCK!" lol tell me how it works out
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i have been seeing this guy for 3 years now and we have made out a million times i want to go farther and so does he but i dont know what else to do..i just need some ideas...plz..
u could do 2nd and third base or give him a BJ or a hand job
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ok..there;s this guy *dan* and he liked me a long time ago and then i started to like him but all he did was break ^ we me n hurt me really bad..recenlty we started tlkin..n we fell inlove..blah blah..well all my friends are yellin at me cuz they think he;ll just hurt me again..i dont tho..i could b wrong but oh well..then there's this guy *james* he asked me out and stuff and i guess i really like him..but like i still luv * dan* and now *james* is all pissd at me and sayin shit ..all i want is to be *james* friend..cuz i luv *dan* but he won;'t..hes bein all possesive & shit..and all my frinds r tellin me to 4get * dan* n giv *james* a try..cuz hes like perfect & hell treat me better--which maybe true..but i need to go out w *dan* its jus sumin i hav to do..even tho i ikno ill prolli get hurt,,idk help =(..i feel bad *james* really likes me..shuld i giv him a chance? or trust *dan* after he hurt me 3 times? sorry so long
u shud do do wat u deel u have 2 do. if u feel u shu go out w/ dan first then so b it! "it is no our abilities that show ho we truly r......it is our choices" choose wisly ;)
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I have been talking to this kid Rob online for a while now and we like eachother.. and were both from the same state and... my cousins friend Jack who is also my sorta friend i have been around him alot is Robs best friend.. and thats how we started talking.. wehave never met but we want to sometime... should i meet him.. i mean i know were the same age.. and i know hes safe since hes Jacks best friend....
what do I do..
and do u think its bad that i sent him a pic of me?
u shud def meet him as long as u no peeps can proov hes not a pedophyl and it perfectly fine thatu sent him ur pic. just make sure that u get one of his.
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My little brother suffers from an extreme case of obsessive compulsive dissorder and a short fuse. How do I deal with his upsetting behavior?
listen y bro whose 13 has autism which is similar 2 obseesive compulsive disorder . hes obsessed w/ garage doors cell phones and rap!!lol (not kidding) ut over the years ive just tried 2 calmly explain 2 him that he shouldnt do som of the things he duz. and i hav plenty of time 2 do ha cuz we share a room. so just nicely tell him wat hes doin is botherin u and tell him nicelyif he cud stop. works 4 me :) if u wanna talk morebout this just wmail me at jake.toole2@verizon.net or IM me at winterx2690 id love 2 talk w/ som1 in the same boat as me.
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hi ppl . ok well heres my problem . im not bragging or nethng but i think im pretty & hav a good personality but my one thing is , i hav NEVER had a boyfriend . and im 14 . its bothering me b/c all of my friends can get them , and i cant . i talk to guys all the time and im being myself , but it isnt working . nothing is working . i dono what to do nemore . any tips
hey well im 14 2 and nea had a gf. and i deided i wouldnt till im 16 cuz wen u get a bf or gf at 13 or 14 the relationship is stupid. all u do is say i love soo much and make out a few times and then ur cryin and u hate eahother a week or 2 later. its ridiculous. ive decided not eve 2 bother. u shud 2 cuz ur win up getting hurt but a boy cuz hes cheating on u or duznt like u ne more and it only lasts a few weeks or so. so take my advice and just wait and b patient. if u wanna do it then go ahead. on and i put this on all my aswers bcuz its a good piece of advice itself: "It is not out abilities thta show who we truly are, it is outr choices." chose wisley ;)
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My best friend and I are like sisters. We've been through everything together. Last night though we were at our other friends house. We talked about school and stuff but then out of no where, my best friend said that she has had sex with her boyfriend of 2 years. It came to a shock to me cause first of all she is only 14 and then second she didnt use protection. My other friend though said it was no big deal since she has been dating him for 2 years. I dont know what to say to my best friend. i really need some help cause i don't want anythin bad to happen to her.
well she made a choice and theres nothing u can do, wats done is done. im not saying it was a good choice but its not bad either. it was tho that she didnt use protection. its not really uncommon for kids at the age of 14 or 15 2 have sex tho.
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