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sorry so long<33 help needed ='(
ok..there;s this guy *dan* and he liked me a long time ago and then i started to like him but all he did was break ^ we me n hurt me really bad..recenlty we started tlkin..n we fell inlove..blah blah..well all my friends are yellin at me cuz they think he;ll just hurt me again..i dont tho..i could b wrong but oh well..then there's this guy *james* he asked me out and stuff and i guess i really like him..but like i still luv * dan* and now *james* is all pissd at me and sayin shit ..all i want is to be *james* friend..cuz i luv *dan* but he won;'t..hes bein all possesive & shit..and all my frinds r tellin me to 4get * dan* n giv *james* a try..cuz hes like perfect & hell treat me better--which maybe true..but i need to go out w *dan* its jus sumin i hav to do..even tho i ikno ill prolli get hurt,,idk help =(..i feel bad *james* really likes me..shuld i giv him a chance? or trust *dan* after he hurt me 3 times? sorry so long <33
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Well I think you should talk to Dan and tell him that if he will go out with you and treat you right,you guys would be a good couple and that you really kind of like him a lot,but if he says no i don't like you,I don't think he is the right kind of man for you,I think you should get a little closer with James instead of Dan
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u shud do do wat u deel u have 2 do. if u feel u shu go out w/ dan first then so b it! "it is no our abilities that show ho we truly r......it is our choices" choose wisly ;)
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u shudnt really listen to wat they want u to do. Do wat makes YoU happy. If u like *dan*, go out wit him! Everyone deserves a second chance. However, if he still treats u bad then thats not rite, so u shud leave him. Tell him u wanna go bak out wit him, but he needs to treat u rite, or else it cant work. Tell *james* yur not really ready to go out wit sumone else yet, and that its nothin personal. Hope i helped! :)
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everyone is guna hurt you .. but you gotta decide whoes worth it.. honestly look i was n love too and now lookin back not bein with him again an again no matter how bad i wanted it is better for me.. all my friends tell me to date a guy i even kno will treat me right an its wat i need really =/ but i gave up on tha one i loved.. now we are friends n things are fine.. and im puttin alot of thinkin into wat i want dont set urself up hun give james a chance you will b happier n tha end ! if you ever need me IM meh! im here -- hope i helped.. *aSh!..
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You say that you know that Dan will probably hurt you again, so if you know that then why would you want to put yourself through that? It wouldn't be fair to James for you to go out with him, knowing that you still have feelings for Dan. I think the best thing for you to do is take a break from both of them. Get some distance and take some time for yourself, and work out your feelings. You really need to weigh the pros and cons of both relationships, and make the right decision.
I hope I've helped and if you have any other questions just ask.
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well, people will hurt you, even if they love you, in some way, something that the person you love will hurt you. maybe not intentionally but.. who knows. if you love dan and you believe that you should give him another chance, then do so. if that is what makes you happy. you shouldnt go out with james just because your friends think that hes a better person, because you know where your heart is and it obviously isnt with him. well, i know this is not much help, but just do what makes you happy.. and follow your heart. maybe youll get hurt in the long run, who knows, but atleast you know you tried to work things out.
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