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Hi Ya'll. My name is Jen feel free to e-mail me, im me whatever. I am very friendly and love new friends. You can ask me questions about anything and I will try my best. Yee-haw!

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Both of my great grandma's just died. I went out shopping with my best friend all day yesterday after going to a doctors appointment with her dad. I feel terrible about not helping my dad with the funeral stuff... Should I feel bad?

I'm sorry to hear that. Usually parents don't like the kids helping out anyway. I wouldn't worry about it. If you want, tell your dad that you did feel bad but I am sure he didn't care. I am sure the adults had everything under control. Good luck!

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wuts sum websites that plays music that i can put on my advice column

haha..I have a few, I just went through this myself. You just paste their url code in your profile in edit settings

http://www.moozik-jamz.com/
iwebmusic.com
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xanga_music
^^That one didn't work for me but many people use it so it might just be my pc

Good luck!

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I like my best guy friend alot.. but the thing is i set him up w/his g/f and shes a friend of mine.. and i have a b/f who i also like.. what do I do?

Wow..that's a tough one. What I would do is..leave the guy alone. You set him up with your friend and you have a boyfriend. I don't know how old you are or anything but what I have learned is that friends are much more important than guys. Guys come and go. Friends are usually there always. And you have a guy who you like and it isn't causing any problems with your friend. Good luck and if you need anything else let me know :)
Love, Jen

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Does anyone know how you upload a pic of you into ur collumn? Thanks!
xoxo Shea

Follow these great peoples advice if you can actually find a pic that size if not..

go to www.webpost.net and sign up for a free website. Login..and verify the account. Once that is done go to Upload (Send/Xfer) Files and browse to your file and upload it..after it successful click view and copy that website into your advicenators settings..in the box that says URL of a picture of you.

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i like this boy and he doesn't like me and i have a major crush on himk but i dunno what to do! sooo what should i do?

You can't make someone feel what they don't. Talk to him..be yourself and be his friend but don't push anything and if it's meant to be he will let you know when he's ready. But don't waste your time on somebody who won't waste their time on you. Good luck!

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ok well me and this girl briana are like best friends we go sumwhere together everyday and hang out...but lately she is getting annoying and i dont really wanna hang out with her anymore...do u think we hang out to much and im just gettin sick of her or what!? plez help me!

Yeah, you are just sick of her. Take a little break and hang out with some other friends or family, whichever and then hang out with her just realize you guys can't be together so much. Happens all the time, doesn't mean you shouldn't be friends. Good luck!

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my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of this month..we're both 13 and we really like eachother but i dont know if i should break up with him..right now we live on long island..but should i break up with him since hes moving to new jersey? i have NO idea what to do!!! please help!!

I am from south jersey and my ex lives in Long Island. It was hard but it worked out for few years. It wasn't the best relationship I had but it ranked pretty high up there. I was about 14 when he moved. I am 18 now we both knew that we were going to be going to college moving further away and that it just wasn't going to work. Your young there's plenty of people in this world. You can give it a shot if you really want to but remember it's hard and your young. Hope I helped.

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Ok, Well, my hamster Cocoa is acting very sick latley. I love him so much and would do and thing for him. He seems to be shaking almost and sneezing/sqeaking and i think he might even be trying to cough! He is now forming this crust around his nose and just a lil around his nose. I'm so worried about him, does any one know what sickness this could be or how i should handle this?

Take him to the vet. My dog was acting sick and we tried to fix it ourselves but turns out it was just his time to go. Because he was a big dog he was just old but just take him to be on the safe side.

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Hey all my friends think im a total weirdo cuz i love country music ! i dont think i am i only like the new stuff like keith urban and gretchen wilson i hate the oldies tho ! whos with me does ne one else like country music !

I LOVE COUNTRY. That's all I listen to. I grew up listening to it and then after my poppop died nobody really listened to it then I started listening to other stuff, the stuff my sisters listened to but then I got back to my country and I don't like the other stuff, it's just not me! *yay*

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hi i am currlie and i am 15 there is this guy that i really like but i dont know what to do. we have so much in common and are really good friends we always hang out to. I am not the kind of girl to ask a guy out so i hape that someone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it

thanks , currlie

Bite the bullet and go for it. I have never been one to ask guys out or call them or anything and the one time I did-we ended up dating for a while and having the time of our lives at my Senior Prom. Just give him little hints that you like him or do sweet things when you are together. You gotta tell him. When you get older you are gonna regret all those things you didn't do soo much more than those you did! Good luck :)

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ive got 3 yrs left @ school nd i wna make it go as quick as possible, how can i deal w/ name calling?

Just like Hannah said, your high school years will fly by. It seems like forever when you are in school and then at the end it's like where did it go. Graduation really opens your eyees. It's a sad world when people in high school are still acting like elementary kids. You have to find the strength inside yourself to ignore those immature people. Surround yourself with people who like you for you and enjoy your high school years and just realize you are not stooping down to their level. Good luck :)

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My boyfriend ( well ex ) broke up with me and said it's because "we didnt see eachother much anymore" Which sucked but I saw it coming. That night my 'best friend' called and told me how sorry she felt for me and then told me she saw him with his new girl friend. I was really upset... then the next day i found out that his new 'girl friend' was her ( my best friend ). She doesnt know that i know. What should I do?

Friends don't date other friend's men. Well that's how me and my friends work. But I know other people do and that's up to them. Tell her that you know and if you can move past it work on the friendship but if you are against it like me, move on you don't need someone like that around. Good luck!

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today i saw my boy friend with another gurl at the movies...they weren't even watching it!!! (if u kno wat i mean) Wat should I do?!?! I was thinking about breaking up with him but i love him way too much!!!! Plz help me!!!

thanx,
~*RiSs*~



If your boyfriend was at the movies with another girl making out, he doesn't deserve your love. My sister was head over heels for a guy who was cheating on her and she didn't do anything about it. Now she's stuck with 10 YEARS of hurt and a child which he doesn't have much to do with. Stick up for yourself but be sure it was him and not just your head telling you things. Good luck, if you need anything let me know and I will try to help :)

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Hey!!!
Today my friend and I were talking and she got mad at me and then she started cussing at me!!!
Heres wat she said "You are a piece of white trash...(the rest was cussing so yea)!!!!!!
Should I take this seriously or do u think that she was just mad and it came out?!?!!?
PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanx,
Confused

I have a really BAD temper but I would never say anything like that to someone I truly care for. You should let her say sorry and then tell her how you felt. Best friends shouldn't say stuff like that. If she doesn't come back around which she probably will don't go after her-she doesn't deserve it. Good luck.

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hey my boy friend cheated on me and now he wont leave me alone!!hes begging 4 me to go back out with him but....he cheated on me n boy do i hate cheaters!! idk if i love him or like him or any thing!!!plez help!!!
signed~
~~confused!!!!

If I were you, I wouldn't take the chance. Most guys who cheat continue to cheat. My sister's ex cheated and everytime he was caught he said he would never do it again. She was cheated on for 10 years. But you gotta stay true to yourself and follow your heart. Good luck.

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Ok, I have this Picture on bmp format, and it's 676kb. Is there any way to get it down to the size that I need it to be in order to put it on my column page?

You need to go to www.webpost.net and sign up for a free website. Login..and verify the account. Once that is done go to Upload (Send/Xfer) Files and browse to your file and upload it..after it successful click view and copy that website into your advicenators settings..in the box that says URL of a picture of you.

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ok, one of my bbf's and I are going 2 start a babysitting busniss together, because we don't think we could take care of kids alone, but together we would be perfect for the job. The thing is, we don't know what kind of advertisment a parent would get to hire a kid to babysit. so, what would parents go for?

p.s. we both took a course of red cross babysitting

Hey! Good idea. I run a babysitting service by myself and I love it! Def. use lots of colors to grab attention. Tell them that you took that course it's a very good one. And depending on your age they might prefer that there will be 2 people there so let them know that. You don't have to put it on the flyer you could just tell them when you call. Good luck!

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my mom never spends time with me i ask every day to but she always says she's to busy but she's not i have talded to her before but she just said so what do i do

You should sit down and talk to your mother and if you can't you could even write a note. Just make her listen to you and hear your side of the story. Most moms would love for their kid to want to hang out with them. I know I love my mom and we hang out all the time. Just make her hear you out. Good Luck!

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ok, i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for like 4 in a half months. Towards the end of the year we would like go off and just walk and talk whenever we could. Then i realized i was like ditching my friends and so was he. And next year we're going to be in high school. I know that we could just easily like hang out with each others friends but the only problem is that my friends aren't into the things he and his friends are. i get along with his friends and he does too but its kind of akward when he hangs out with them. WHAT DO I DO??

Having a boyfriend is hard on your friendships. Most people go from one extreme to another. Just talk to your friends about the fact that you do have a boyfriend and you wanna give it the chance it deserves but you want to spend time with them to. Maybe one afternoon or one night you can be with the girls. Just don't lose your friendships for some boy who might turn out to be a jerk in the end. Good luck!

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to help you guys out ok we all meet i have a husband too. im going behind my husbands back and sleeping with this couple.ok when me and the couple agreeed on this it was me and her do it together me and him do it together and all 3 of us ok. well be fore we even did it the frist time i fell for her husband which he knows ok about a week ago her husband was here to pick something up his trie to his truck ok. well things lead to something which was sex well he didnt tell his wife yet but we all are barely talking anymore for some reason i dont know my husband dont know nothing anyway we all slept togther before but her husband said after we did it he felt guilty but she has gave us permission to do it what should i do stop seeing them both or what help....
thank you

Def. stop sneaking around alls it does in the end is hurt everyone. Come clean with your husband and move on. If you and your husband need help because he might lose trust in you..go see a counselor. Good luck with everything.

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