My boyfriend ( well ex ) broke up with me and said it's because "we didnt see eachother much anymore" Which sucked but I saw it coming. That night my 'best friend' called and told me how sorry she felt for me and then told me she saw him with his new girl friend. I was really upset... then the next day i found out that his new 'girl friend' was her ( my best friend ). She doesnt know that i know. What should I do?
GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Saturday June 26 2004, 4:19 pm: WoW! What a friend you have there. Your "best friend" and ex boyfriend dont deserve you at all! What best friend would EVER go behind her friends back and take her ex-boyfriend! I would understand if it was months later and she told you herself, but when she hides it from you and its only a day later.. thats a terrible friend! You need to tell her calmy that it hurt your feelings and you shouldnt be friends anymore. It's for the best! Good Luck!!
AskAdrien answered Saturday June 26 2004, 2:36 pm: You should tell her what you feel and how much it hurts you. Personally, i think that people should wait a while for things to cool off first. [ AskAdrien's advice column | Ask AskAdrien A Question ]
Redheadedgal answered Saturday June 26 2004, 1:29 pm: Friends don't date other friend's men. Well that's how me and my friends work. But I know other people do and that's up to them. Tell her that you know and if you can move past it work on the friendship but if you are against it like me, move on you don't need someone like that around. Good luck! [ Redheadedgal's advice column | Ask Redheadedgal A Question ]
*~bre_babbles~* answered Saturday June 26 2004, 12:41 pm: Well if your "Best Friend" is going to do that to you then she is not a really good friend!!! So if you go ahead and tell her that you knkow and how you feel than maybe you could save your freindship!!
xoxjessicaxo answered Saturday June 26 2004, 11:39 am: im going to be very honest on this. you should tell her, and then kick her ass. friends just dont do that to each other, thats just wrong. i think you should drop her, b/c she is a backstabbing two faced whore. sorry, but i am honest [ xoxjessicaxo's advice column | Ask xoxjessicaxo A Question ]
Lizzy answered Saturday June 26 2004, 11:32 am: That is really difficult. I have been in your friends position though so you should see it from her side too. My friend had this boyfriend and he really liked me so he dumped her to go out with me. I didn't go out with him becausei thought that it might jeperdise mine and my friend's relationship. So tell you friend how you feel. If you and your friend really have a compatible relationship, then everything will turn out alright. LYLAS
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blonde answered Saturday June 26 2004, 10:27 am: Well if it really bothers you, tell her. Explain to her that you know and that you didn't appriciate her not telling you she was moving in on your man( ex ). Hopefully since she is your friend, she will understand. She will still want to date him, so you will just have to let them. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
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