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I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them . That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.

~***HAnnah***~

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well the other day my mate said that i speared a rumer that she had had sex with my boyfriend
i told her i didnt and she got hold of my neck and said if i ever speard another rumer she would kill me so then another rumer came out about her saying she was pregnant and that my boyfriend gave her crabs
wat the time she was at my house she pushed me on the bed and took a knife to my chest but i was so freeked out id never seen her like this
but nothing happened my mum came in the room
and she said i will kill you at the weekend i need help!
elly mason

I really think that you should report her, either to the police or to a parent or responsible adult. She might be a friend but she is threatning to kill you. You can't be sure if she is serious or trying to scare you, which I am guessing she is doing. I hate to tell you this but your friend might need help. Threatning and wanting to kill someone is really extreme over a rumor that you didnt even start. Talk to someone and tell them what is going on. I hope I helped!

~***Hannah***~

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The girl who hooked me up with my boyfriend now is obsessed with him. She flirts with him, she hugs him, and she talks to him on the phone. I can tell he doesn't like it that much, but I just don't want to lose him because of my so-called "friend". What should I do so I won't lose my boyfriend?

Tell the girl how you feel. You shouldn't have to put up with her doing all those things. Talk to your boyfriend and see how he feels. Make sure that he doesn't like her. If he doesn't then tell the girl and make sure she understands. She might be hurt but you dont want anyone to ruin your relationship. I hope I helped!

~***Hannah***~

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what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering

If you kiss, have sex, or do anything than is more than friendly behavior. I hope I helped.

~***Hannah***~

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Okay, i'm freshman and i like this guy who's a junior. he's really nice and seems flawless except for one thing. He's a huge pot-head. You can tell when he's high and he's always making an *ss of himself when he is. Should i forget him or give him a chance? I rate...

It depends. If him being a pot-head doesnt bother you then give him a chance. But if you can't get past the idea of him doing pot than forget him. I know one of my friends who is dating a guy who does drugs. The guy is nice and she dont mind that he does drugs. if you like him then give him a chance. If you dont like dating him b/c he does drugs then forget him. But at least give him a chance before you turn him down. I hope I helped!

~***HannaH***~

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I really like this guy. I just figured out that I have really liked him for a long time. See, he used to like me last year and the year before, and the whole time I liked him too, but I was sort of in denile because let's just say that he's not the most popular. A lot of people think that he likes me too, but I'm not sure because he flirts with a lot of girls. Today I was at a party and he was there, so I was kind of flirting with him. I really wanted to know who he likes, so I told my friend, Leah to tell him that she knows who I like. She said that to him, and he asked who but she didn't tell him because she's a really good friend. Later, he came up to ME and asked who I like. I didn't tell him because he's one of those people who would tell everybody that I like him if he doesn't like me. He said, "I'll tell you who I like, but you gotta tell me who you like right after". I said OK and he came over to me and whispered in my ear, "I like Jillian." The problem is, my name isn't Jillian. Everyone knew he was lying, but i dont know if he likes me or some1 else! The worst part is, in like a month he is moving out of this country, and I was thinking about telling him that I like him on his last day at school, but I dunno. HELP PLZ! sry i know its long

Don't wait until the last day to tell him how you feel. He might feel the same way about you and you could have a great last month together.Come out and tell him how u feel. Dont be so scared or nervous! If he doesn't feel the same way, dont worry about it. There are plenty of other guys out there for you! I hope i helped!

~***HannaH***~

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Okay, so i was going out with this boy for a 2 months. i loved him so much and i still do! but my friends were really mean to him and stuff and so i dumped him because i thought it would just be better for him and everyone else since they like hated him. but then i found out that they didn't really hate him they just like him. But i dumped him before that and then he got really mad at me. Was it right to dump him in the first place? sorry this is long and i hope that made sense!

No, You really liked him and it shouldnt matter what other people think about him or the relationship. If you still love him then tell him why you broke up and see if he understands. He is going to be mad. But if he loves you then he will understand. Tell your friends that you dont want them bad-mouthing people you like or anyone for that matter! I hope I helped!


~***Hannah***~

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Ok here is my problem!!...

There is this guy i like.. Lets call him rascal..
He brings me to school everyday and takes me home when he has time. He offers to do this 4 me!! IDK y tho. I like him A LOT!!! he knows that too. But today he asked me to go to the Mt. Pleasant Halloween Parade to watch him. Im going anyways because my little sister is a cheerleader and shes in it too. But anyways.. Does this sound like he likes me? Or what the heck is goin on?
He also told me that hes gonna make sure i c him in the firetruck!! Should i be scared or not?
Then this weekend we're going to this party for halloween. Do you think anything special will happen? I hope.. I like him very much!!
We text messege each other all day while hes in tech. and while i have freshman classes.
What should i do?

Signed..
Alf Alfinator

Hey hun


You should flirt with him when you see him and in your text messages. If he likes them and flirts back then that probably means he likes you back. Smile and wave at him in the parade tonight. If you want, ask him straight out if he likes you. Hopefully he does! He might only like you as a friend though. But if he always text msgs you and drives you to school everyday and if really friendly to you then he might like you or is just being friendly. I dont know exactly. Talk to him and ask him how he feels. I hope I helped!



~***Hannah***~

P.S Nice name for *him*! LOL

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My friend's dad smokes. She is afraid he will die! She says that he has been coughing really bad latly. She says he is trying to stop smoking, but not really suceeding. She says that he is the one who brings all the money to the family, and shes just very afraid. She is afraid he will die from cancer or something. So basically, i need some advice in helping her through these hard times, and maybe if theres a good way to help her dad smoking. Thank you!

My grandpap smoked all the time. He died about 2 years from lung cancer. Your friend should tell her dad that if he keeps smoking that he can and probably will kill himself. If he doesnt care then say," Don't you care about your family? Don't you want to be around for them. You dont want to end up killing yourself." If he keeps coughing then you should tell her that he might need to see a doctor. It might be nothing but its better to be safe than sorry. I hope I helped!

~***HannaH***~

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Before you get your first period do you aloways feel angry and stuff and do you always get cramps? Thanks!

Yeah usually. It's all apart of PMS. You get moody and bitchy! LOL! Cramps suck but every girl gets them during and before her period. You have nothing to worry about. It's normal. I hope I helped!

~***Hannah***~

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what does rofl stand for

ROFL means rolling on floor laughing! I hope I helped!

~***Hannah***~

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well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hir os tumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-/thankss

Just casually start a convo with him. Be like, "Hey Chris. Whats up?" Don't ask him a ton of questions. Talk to him in class and when you are on the bus. Get to know him and see if he is your type. Become friends with him and then see if he is a guy you could date. WHen you feel comfortable enough, ask him to hang out sometime. I hope I helped!!!

~***Hannah***~

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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think..

I think you should wait until your older and you know that you stil REALLY want a baby with him. You're only 15. This guy might not be the one your are going to spend the rest of your life with (even tho u think so now). And if you have a baby then you will be tied together for the rest of your life. All i am saying is wait until your 100% sure that this is what you really want to do and you have no doubts about it. Then you will know you did the right thing and then you shouldn't care about what people say then. Think about. It might take a while to come to a clear decison but it will be worth it. I hope I helped!

~***Hannah~***

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okay i have a problem.... i cut myself... and i dont know how to stop.. its just that i get all jittery and the room spins but as soon as i cut myself i feel normal again and i get a major high off of it.... i want to stop because i know that someone is going to find out and than my life wil be over... so i guess my question is how do i stop without my friends or family ever finding out???

honesly, i REALLY think you should tell someone. They can help you stop. It is better to go through this with someone you love and cares about you then going through it alone. But if you done want anyone, Try and go cold turkey. When you think of cutting yourself, think of better than cutting yourself and why you want to stop. I hope I helped.

~***Hannah~***

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ok look there is this girl that i like and she is well one of my best friends i dunno it is just when i am around her i feel so loved and i mean she is really really beautiful and stuff. but tonight i was at her house for a party no occasion just a party and she looked so hot and she cuddled with me well she was cold and stuff.

but the question is how can i show her that i can be a good boyfriend and that i like her more then a friend.

thnx

Start flirting with her and see how she responds. Do something really sweet for her to show her you care about her. You should tell her how you feel about her. If she likes you back then you should show her that you want to be her boyfriend. Be really sweet to her and let her know that you want to be with her. If she doesn't like you back then you should find someone else. (Sorry if that sounds mean!) There are plenty of fish in the sea! I hope everything works out for you! GOOD LUCK!

~***Hannah~***

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I am talking with this dude. And I asked earlier what to get him for his 16th Bday, but I didnt get any good answers so I'm asking again! He likes bands like NFG and Blink 182, hes beachy/country, and he plays soccer and football! I really really want to get him something special! Please gimme some sweet ideas! Thanks!

Get him a cd of his favorite band(s). Also, you should get him a customized jersey with his number on the back or one of his favorite player. Or you could buy him a guitar since he is into counrty. I hope i gave you some good ideas!

~***Hannah~***

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what is the diff in given head & a blowjob

There is not difference. They are the same exact thing.

~***Hannah~***

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my mom and dad have basically failed in bringing up a good family there idea of a good family has screwed with our heads. none of us plan on being mormon (my parents religion) my brothers shoplift do drugs drink. my sister has a kid and a boyfriend who used to beat her. my little sis. is spoiled and i am worried about her. i smoke drink and am just screwed up in the head. my parents try so hard to keep us together and happy but they don't get that they can't do anything anymore so they might as well give up. how can i get away from there useless attempts to make me the good kid that doesn't do anything wrong when i do and i can't stop myself? also how can i stop my brothers and sisters from reminding me i am the last chance? it makes me feel guilty.

It isnt your responsiblity to fix your family. Pull your parents aside and tell them what is going with your family. THEY NEED TO KNOW! If they won't listen then tell another family member. Someone needs to know what is happening. Talk to your brothers and sister. Your family needs help. I hope I helped.

~***Hannah~***

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hey i was just wondering if there are any good waysz to loose wait fast . lol no starvinq lol or any other dangerous thinqs...plz reply thank you.

PS: i mean like a qood diet. or soemthinq qood to loose wait :)

Excerise alot and cut back on the junk food. Eat healthier foods. Excerise at least 3 days week. I hope I helped.

~***Hannah~***

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When was 13 i made a terriable mistake...i got pregnant by a 16 year old boy....i though that the boy and i had true fellings together that i could share my bodyh with him....but you see what thatg leed to...i was afraid to tell my mother but i told my sister and she paid for tol get and abortion she still hasnt told my mom and i am paying herf almost all of my allowences to pay her back...ever since thatg day of my abortion i feel like a killer...am i?????pleases help...

No! it depends on how you look at it. You did it because you were too young to take care of a baby and didnt want your mother to know. i would say you would be a killer if you hated babies and hated being pregnant and didnt want this baby to live at all. I do not think you are a killer at all. Tell your mom what happened. SHe will be angry at first but she will understand why you did it. Think about why you got an abortion in the first place. It doesnt matter if I think you are a killer or not. It matters what you think. Hope I helped.

-Hannah-

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Do yall think that there is someone for everyone? because right now im thinking that no one is right for me ... i mean every guy i date or "talk" to isnt the right guy and ive never had a longer relationship than 3 weeks! please answer! -kayla

Yeah! i think there is. Don't give up on looking. Keep on searching for love. NEVER GIVE UP!

I hope i helped!

~***Hannah~***

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