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WHY is it ok for black guys to date caucasian chicks but it's not ok for black ladies to date caucasian guys.

It`s okay either way. People are judgmental & you don`t deserve to be discriminated. =)
*hope that helped

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i need some good quotes about secrets.. please help?

me = rate =D

Quotes about secrets? I have a quotes site, and i make quotes; i can easily give you a quote; but i don`t know what category you`re talking about? Friends, relationships? E-mail me - i`ll be happy to help.

underestimated_x0@yahoo.com

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can someone give me a good workout that doesn't involve running or pushups? thanks.

How about crunches? Those will get your middle sections flattened out. I don`t know about the rest of you, because running is really important. i hope that helped you. =)

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Around a month or two ag, I called up a frend that i haven't talked to in 5 year. I'm not sure whether to keep talking to her or just to cut the tie. Can you help?

I`ll tell you before hand, that if i were in this situation; this is what I would do. I would NOT cut the tie. A friendship is a friendship. She may live far away from you, but that doesn`t mean there`s no hope for your friendship to grow when you get older? [idk how old you are though] possibly, when you get older, you can meet her more, drive out to see eachother, or something like that. Get her address so that you two can mail eachother back && forth. If she has the internet you two can e-mail. Long story short ; don`t cut the tie.

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Im 13 in the 7th grade. Yes, middle school so we have alot of drama.

I really want to be popular. Really popular. Like, the most popular girl at my school.

What is a way to be a better friend? Im kind of popular now. I hang out with the popular people, but I am not the most popular person.

If anybody can help me Thank You!

Last year i was in the same place as you; in 7th grade, with the popular people, but not the MOST popular. It seems like your popular group though; is different than mine. Does pupolar at your school mean the nicest people? Because unfortunately at my school, it`s the rude, smug, stuck-up type. But i was never the MOST popular because i wasn`t like that. A LOT of people thought that i was really popular though, because i was nice. So my advice to you ; is to be forward with everyone, don`t talk about anyne behind their back [i know its hard but it`s possible], & offer help when needed. If you`re nt the MOST popular, don`t worry about it - popular can be a good thing ; but it also means that everything is pushed off on them. You know what i mean? Well,i know this is long, but i hope i helped you. =) If you`d like further help, you can e-mail me. I`d be happy to talk to you. xoxo

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14/f. i babysit A LOT for my neighbors. but whenever i babysit them i always eat sooo much. even if i'm not hungry i eat. like if i have to feed the kids, i'll eat. and even if i'm not feeding the kids and they are watching tv i will go into the kitchen and eat. whatever i eat is always junk food. like cookies, chips, candy, etc. what can i do to take my mind off of eating while i'm there? i've tried bringing gum with me to chew when i think about eating, but that doesn't work. HELP!

When you`re making their dinner, it`s okay to eat a little something, but when you`re just flat out bored, & you need something to do, make sure that you have brought a book, magazine, etc. that will keep your mind off of it. & If you find that hard to do, get the kids to go outside & interact with them there. =) hope i helped you [ & don`t worry; i`m the same way when i babysit ]

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My acne has been a constant battle for the past 3 years. I've been on Accutane twice. I've done everything out there that you can do. And I was wondering if any of you have ever tried or used Proactiv. What do you think? I know it's from an Infomercial, but so mean celebrities & people claim that it's awesome. Right now they have a special 30-day kit for $20. I think I'm gonna try it. Give me some feedback on it please. :]

YES! Proactiv is deff. a great solution. && like you said, even though it was an infomercial, it`s still true. You should try it first, and if you like it, buy the regular kit. =)

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well, theres this one guy named James and i have liked him for a while but nothing serious because i barely know him. once i talked to him but it was kind of a while ago. well school is starting and i found out from one my friends that him and i have a class together this year. i'm really excited but how do i get us to start talking?

To strike a convo. just simply start by saying hey. He obviously has to answer you, right? Well, then you could ask him about his summer, or what he thinks about the class you two are in together, whenever yo can`t think of anything else to talk about, you should know right then, that that`s all you need to say. In the halls wave, or smile. Every day in class, come with something to talk to him about -- just try not to repeat things. Be sure of yourself .

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f/uk
I have shortish, frizzy, curly hair which I normally straighten. However, I am shortly going on holiday and would like to avoid the 'frizzball' effect after being in a pool.
Does anyone have any tips on products that will calm my hair and make it look presentable until I go back to my room and can shower it out? Preferably products I can buy in the UK. Thanks to all.

Holiday Hair -
my hair is longish, frizzy, and curly. but i think i can still help. unfortunately i don`t know what is sold in the UK, but i use stuff called "elucence". [ shampoo && conditioner ]. If not that, then try sunsilk, or garnier fructis. If none of those are available in the UK - then i would recommened google-ing it, and getting some info from there.

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My friend is going to a boarding school and I am so upset how can I feel a little better about it. She is my best friend and I am having such a hard time.



Jenni

make sure you can keep in touch with her.
even have her over or meet up with her occasionally. i don`t know if this means she`s going a REAL FARRR way away, but if she is, i know that she`ll be able to go home on some holidays - if so, make sure you see her then. I`d be upset if my friend was moving too, but everyone always finds away to make it okay. =)

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I've been having variations of the same dream over and over. I think that dreams can sometimes mean things. If any of you know anything about dream interpretation..could you please let me know what the following dreams might mean? Thanks so much!

The first dream:
My immeadiate family & I were walking down this gravel road. There was nothing around us for a long time. Then, all of the sudden, there is this big building with one door. When I get closer to the door, my friend Deven (a girl) opens it. I've always been friends with her but lately we haven't talked much. So, anyways, she hands me a note from this guy Nick that I've had a big crush on for two years now. (Just in case it matters, I asked Nick to a dance and he said yes one day and changed his mind the next. We haven't really talked since then because I've been too embarrassed). It said that he was sorry for all the stuff that happened last year and that he really wanted to make it work between us. After I read the note, I looked inside the building and there was a dance/disco going on and all of my friends were having fun.

The Second Dream:
It was the first day of school & Nick walked up to me and gave me a note. I didn't get to read it before I woke up & the dream ended but when he handed it to me..he said that he wanted to make it work with me and him.

Sorry for such a long situation but hopefully somebody can help! It is really bothering me & I want to know if this means anything! Thank you sooooo much

Dreamer -
i will say that i am NOT a "dream specialist". but when i was little i had to go to a doctor because i was having the same TERRIFYING dreams over and over again. the doctor explained that it was just my mind playing tricks. before going to bed, i`d meditate; meaning, think about anything that makes you happy - you`re probably think "yeah,right..." but it works. if this doesn`t help you at all, let me know.

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I'm thinking about getting extensions...has anybody had them before? How long do they last? Like...how do they work out for you? Do they fall out?

my mom got extensions, and they fell out that VERY DAY. so, if you decide to get it done, make sure the person who does it, is 100% sure it`ll work. If it falls out that day, make sure you get a refund. =)

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im 14m and i dont think i'll ever be albe to trust people. you see i've had crushes on girls and i think they like me because they flirt with me but when i ask them out they get all horrified and humiliate me
when ever my friends say a girl likes me and i ask her out the same thing always happens
and somtimes people just lie to me because they think that it's funny or somthing
one time i found a love note from one of my female friends but when i asked her out she didn't know what i was talking about and are friendship was totally over
and onetime this totally hot girl asked my out but i didn't trust her so it didn't work out
somtimes i dont know what to do because i wanna ask a girl out but i wont wanna take the chance of getting embarrised or hurt. and some times i just don't trust them because it's usually a joke.
will i ever learn to trust girls and could someone mabeye give me some advice or help so i can learn to trust people more.
sorry it was so long

considering i`m a girl, maybe i could help. us girls can be rude. but usually when we like a guy, but turn them down, it`s because we`re too nervous to even think about going out with the guy. and the love-note joke; that gets pretty old. girls, yes, we`re confusing, but trusting us. . . you just have to really know the person before you make a comitment.

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ok so i was camping in vermont for a week and i had liked this guy the whole time so on the night before the day we had to leave i decided to stare at him like i liked him. he knew so he started showing off in a good way and looked over his shoulder every few seconds well then he took out his bike and was doing tricks on that i thought about it and i wanted to give him my phone number in the morning but he never came outside so i didnt in case it caused problems now i am here 300 miles away i am sooooooooo sad how will i ever see him again?

i`m sorry; but basically - it`s impossible to find this guy. did you know his name? if you knew his name, you might have a slight chance, but i doubt it. I`m not being mean, i swear, but these things happen. I`m sure there is someone close by that you find attractive - long distant relationships don`t always work out anyways.

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13/f

Ok. I dont know why, but My abbs are all deformed looking. Well, I guess I shouldn't say "abbs" It is more like, my almost flat stomach. I dont have a problem with the upper part of my stomach its just the part below my stomach that looks "poochy." Does anyone have any ideas about what kind of exersizes to do or how I can get rid of this?

Thanks

just do crunches, and a bit of running. anything that will stretch the lower half of your body should show results.

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I been dancing for about 7 or 8 years. But im scared to try out for dance company, because the fact not making it, it kills me! Should i try out? Or should i not try out so it doesnt hurt mee

Dancee -
TRY OUT! you should never underestimate yourself! when trying out, you have to give yourself full confidence. you just have to try! Say it doesn`t work out; it`s not ment to be. =)

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I am 5'2 and I weigh 129 pounds. I know I'm not overweight, and everyone says I should only loose at most 5 pounds. But, my stomach still is flabby and I don't look that good in a swimsuit. What can I do about it?

Flab -
i`m sorry, but i can`t tell you much more than this:
you may be just a TAD overweight, but it`s not like it`s a bad thing. i`m certainly not fat, but i`m not super skinny. my best friend is super skinny, and she eats like a cow. no, more like horse. but i love her anyways. but that`s beside the point. if i wanted to look like her, which i don`t, i`d do some serious crunches, and find a gym and do workouts. I wouldn`t say give up the food you love, because then it just makes working out, all the more harder. hope i helped.

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i find myself takeing things to seroiusly and overeacting and i am barely ever happy. and im only 13 and its summer and i want to have the best time of my life. any advice on how to be more happy and forget about the hard thigns and life. And im always thinking about life and it makes me upset because i feel im growing up to fast because im more mature than i probally should be but i just want to have fun and live but i always find myself down any help on to be more happy hyper smiley?

happy -

i can totally relate. Unfortunately i can`t give you much more advice than just this:
live your teenage life to the fullest. the rest of the summer, plan a big get together with your friends. when/if you have this get together, don`t be serious! be as stupid as you can. later in life, you`ll thank yourself for it; 13 is too young to become an adult.

hope i helped. xoxo.
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Soon i will be able to get a new phone and am not postive what phone i want for sure so i just wanted some thoughts and oppinons on these phones. I can either go with Verizon or Cingular.
The Razr
The Pebl
The SLVR
"Chocolate"(from verizon)
Any thoughts from people who have the phones (that are already released) would also be a great help.

The RAZR is deff. the advice i`d give you. and go with verizon. you can`t go wrong with those two combined.

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i am the school dork
i am SERIOUS
i am a loner
i need friends..OBVIOUSLY
well see on my messenger i have 2 friends my sister and me (i have two e-mails)
people call me dork and loser because i love to look at stars and pretend to talk to the martians that live there
its true! i've seen them with my super deluxe telescope from my true love, my mother, on my birthday :)
i had a party but unfortunately only my family came i invited all my classmates. lets put it this way i live in beverly hills (my dad is a top attorney, my mom is a CEO) so everyone at my school is all uppity up and shows off about their being rich and all. i'm just glad that i have a home and all but i am 13 and 1/2 i want a boyfriend! i want friends not friends that would just use me! please give me tips! let me give you an idea of how i look:
glasses (these cool d&g aviators) on sale
school uniform (private school)
the straightest stiff hair anyone here has ever seen.
school is coming!
I NEED YOUR HELP!
signed,
desperately desperate

Desperate-
okay. i`m not going to beat around the bush . . .there is NO way you`ll get any friends if you "talk to martians!". harsh? yeah, maybe, but if someone at my school was like that . . . they`d be in the same situation as you. hmmm . but i guess i can TRY to help. Unfortunately the world is too Clique-ish. you have the money, so buy THE brand names. buy some nice hair treatment products. and a straightener. even though your hair is straight, it`ll look neater. If after school, this advice still doesn`t help, try e-mailing or IMing me. then i`ll help you again.

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