Im 13 in the 7th grade. Yes, middle school so we have alot of drama.
I really want to be popular. Really popular. Like, the most popular girl at my school.
What is a way to be a better friend? Im kind of popular now. I hang out with the popular people, but I am not the most popular person.
If anybody can help me Thank You!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? DefinedEyes answered Monday August 14 2006, 12:07 pm: Well seeing as your this young,
you havent realized that popularity isnt everything.
You think you have a lot of drama in middle school? Wait until highschool sweetheart.
Getting popular isnt going to stop the "drama" its most likely going to make worse drama, and more of it.
Because people who are popular dont tend to treat what they call "nerds,geeks,preps..etc" very nicely. They label people and are only nice to who they choose.
TO be "popular" you should be NICE to EVERYONE.
No matter what they are classified as.
It will make everything easier, be a friend to someone in need. [ DefinedEyes's advice column | Ask DefinedEyes A Question ]
XkittyOkatX answered Monday August 14 2006, 12:06 pm: Well, first off, I'd like to say that being popular isn't everything, believe me.
But, try being nice to EVERYONE. NOt just people you would normally hang out with. Smile at everyone, talk with people you normally wouldn't.
Your nice reputation will get around and people will definately notice you. [ XkittyOkatX's advice column | Ask XkittyOkatX A Question ]
nessaxyou4evr answered Monday August 14 2006, 11:16 am: well to bee popularr you got to be nice to everyy one and not try to get into any fight or other people business and make lots of friends i join sports teamms just to be snobby then people will start to like you theres really nothingg to woory aboutt=)) [ nessaxyou4evr's advice column | Ask nessaxyou4evr A Question ]
Not_To_Worry_x3 answered Monday August 14 2006, 11:07 am: Last year i was in the same place as you; in 7th grade, with the popular people, but not the MOST popular. It seems like your popular group though; is different than mine. Does pupolar at your school mean the nicest people? Because unfortunately at my school, it`s the rude, smug, stuck-up type. But i was never the MOST popular because i wasn`t like that. A LOT of people thought that i was really popular though, because i was nice. So my advice to you ; is to be forward with everyone, don`t talk about anyne behind their back [i know its hard but it`s possible], & offer help when needed. If you`re nt the MOST popular, don`t worry about it - popular can be a good thing ; but it also means that everything is pushed off on them. You know what i mean? Well,i know this is long, but i hope i helped you. =) If you`d like further help, you can e-mail me. I`d be happy to talk to you. xoxo
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