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Lost distant friend


Question Posted Monday August 14 2006, 1:48 am

Around a month or two ag, I called up a frend that i haven't talked to in 5 year. I'm not sure whether to keep talking to her or just to cut the tie. Can you help?

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9BigBrat6 answered Monday August 14 2006, 6:34 pm:
well why'd you call? you didn't give much information but in any general friendship if you can trust herand she doesn't judge you and...well she's a good friend than you should keep her as a friend. if she's not or she just didn't want to talk to you all those years than don't. basically if you have no reason not to be friends you should be friends. does that help?

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lalagurly answered Monday August 14 2006, 2:33 pm:
ok well that is totally up to guys if you guys still have stuff in common than why not? if you still enjoy her company and stuff than ya but after you guys try being friends again you may realise you guys have grown up and are totall opissites but i say go for it!!

tell me how it goes ok?
~nikki~
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DefinedEyes answered Monday August 14 2006, 12:11 pm:
Well it depends,
if this person sounded interested in talking to you, keep talking to her.
But if she obviously didnt care, or show must interest, just cut the tie.
Simple as that.
Dont waste your time on someone who wont spend their time on you too.

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XkittyOkatX answered Monday August 14 2006, 12:03 pm:
Personally, I wouldn't 'cut the tie'.
Friendship is a great thing, and more friends usually means more happiness. =D
Try to hang out if that's possible, and you'll be good friends in no time.

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Not_To_Worry_x3 answered Monday August 14 2006, 11:18 am:
I`ll tell you before hand, that if i were in this situation; this is what I would do. I would NOT cut the tie. A friendship is a friendship. She may live far away from you, but that doesn`t mean there`s no hope for your friendship to grow when you get older? [idk how old you are though] possibly, when you get older, you can meet her more, drive out to see eachother, or something like that. Get her address so that you two can mail eachother back && forth. If she has the internet you two can e-mail. Long story short ; don`t cut the tie. <3

[&hearts;]
Not_To_Worry_x3

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