well im 18, in love with Steve Mark Jones (if you cant tell) we are living together two months now and celebrate our 4 month anniversary today! (Jan 13)
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ok, im 13 years old and i have had this boyfriend for about 7 months now. he is having majior family problems and doesnt know how to deal with them anymore. he is one of those people who keep things bottled up inside of him. i told him he could always talk to me about it but i dont think he is comfortable talking to anyone about it. well, he is getting like really depressed and he told me he doesnt know if he can handle it all anymore. he is thinking about running away or killing himself. i told him not to and i pleaed for him not to but i dont think it is getting through to him. he told me that the last thing he wanted to do was hurt me but he is REALLY anrgy. i dont know what to say or what to do. he told me if he does anything he'll come to school and say good bye to me and stuff. PLEASE PLEASE help me! im so scared!
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ok calm down. you need to keep the level head of the two of you. It is good that you want to help your boyfreind out. my fiance had many of hte same problems, depression, bipolar, even a few suicidal thoughts. he bottled everything up inside him too until it exploded. (my dad does the same thing). all you can do is support him. talk him into going to therapy. tell him that if he doesnt want to hurt you, then dont hurt himself. because him hurting himself hurts you. just reassure him that you are there for him. maybe you ned to force him to talk no matter how uncomphortable he is with it. He needs to let it out in some way shape or form. he needs to know that you deeply care about him. he needs your support. My fiance got into therapy and is on meds now to regulate his moods and help him out. he is doing much better. might i suggest the same thing to you. you just have to let him feel how much you care about him. you can tell him you care until your blue in teh face, but it wont do any good unless you SHOW him. he needsto see that you care about him enough to go out on a limp for him. if it gets really really bad maybe talk to his mom or dad, or your mom and dad and have htem talk to his. but i cant really tell you much else. if you want anything else...you can email me at StageAddict05@hotmail.com i am online right now and i will help you to hte best of my abilities. but hte biggest thing i can tell you is to stay calm ok? email me if you need anything, ok. i am on right now if you just need some one to talk to. granted it is through email, but it is better than nothing. i have nothing but support for you, seeing as i have goen through it myself. i am glad you came to me, and i hope i can help you out.
Juelz
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okay... so my brother always swears at me and calls me fat and ugly and stuff... and he hits, punches, kicks, etc. me all the time. not enough to leave a bruise or anything (occasionally) but i'm not sure if this is considered abuse? also, my mom (my mom doesn't do it a LOT) and my sister both always tell me i'm stupid, ugly, fat, (same as my brother) but they don't hit me unless they're really mad... do you consider this abuse? (link)
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mental and emotional yes. go get some help. being in that environment will only make matters worse and things like that. you will grow up with a very low self confidence and have many issues later in life. trust me my mom had that happen to her and she has had many mental and emotional problems since. so go do something about it.
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Today is health we learned about boners and such. The problem is my health teacher confused me. She explained boners which I fully understand but then she said that an organism is the same. However, last year and the year before that we learned an organism can only be obtained from having sex. So now I'm confused. Can someone explain this to me? (link)
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ok, first its orgasm, not organism...lol...and a boner is when the male's penis gets hard b.c he is horny. an orgasm is when he is having sex and reaches his "boiling point" you could say. which is when he ejaculates (in highschool terms "cums"). and an orgasm can be reached through any kind of sexual contact. Giving head, hand jobs, sex, even..dare i say the word...masterbating. that is really all that it is. your teacher is weird or maybe you misunderstood. but that is what it is. if you have any more questions feel free to drop me a line.
(i know i used all these technical terms...lol)
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Ok I have a like dark brown color of hair but i have a little bit of blonde in it too. It is medium length. I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what color of highlights would look good in it? I rate high to all. (link)
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bring out hte blonde. that is my suggestion. get blonde highlights to accent what blonde you already have in your hair.
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I like this boy ALOT! and we were going out but now his going out with this girl i REALLY hate!! i mean shes a total WHORE!(so to speak) I just dont understand. is he trying to make me mad? or is he over me? (link)
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not everyone moves on and dates other ppl to spiet their ex's. Maybe he is over you, Maybe he is really trying to piss you off. You wont know unless you ask him
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What are some good ways to keep a cat from scratching you??? I REALLY NEED TO KNOW! it's on a test tomorrow...! Thanks (link)
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lock the cat up in a cage and laugh at it. lol, j/k. declaw it is a good way
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Ok im a BOY and 14 years old...i like another girl...she is pretty kind to me and is 16...idk how i shud tell her that i rlly love her...ask her e-mail?go to a movie with her?please help! (link)
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your 14! you dont know what love is! you can not really be in love until you know exactly who you are! you are entirely to young to be in love, trust me. being "in love" at such a young age will just lead to heartache. They will move on and "love" some one else and leave you behind! Listen to me and listen to me good. you are not in love. yeah yeah yeah there is the whole "love at first sight" thing, but that is only a physical attraction. to be in love there is more than a physical attraction (but it sure helps!) do yourself a favor and maybe spend time with her. get to know her. and dont rush into anything!
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There is this girl I like at work. She seems really cool and it seems like we have alot in common. But she says she has a boyfriend for 7 months. What are some ways that I can get her to leave him and date me? I know its bad, but I think there is a chemistry there. (link)
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so you wanna break this girl up with her boyfreind becuase you like her! im sorry but that is low. if you think there is a chemistry there, wait until they break up. dont try and make hre break up with him to go with you. that is a very low thing to do
The Future Mrs Steven Mark Jones
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What makes boys voices change? Like i know they change when they go thru puberty ... but what exactly makes their voices change? (link)
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hormones. plain and simple hormones.
The Future Mrs STeven MArk Jones
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Hello, I'm a 16 year old female, looking into a Liquid Diet. I'm 5'6 and 150 pounds.
I was wondering if anyone knew any good liquid diets that worked fast and effiecent, also how much it costs and where I would be able to find them.
Also if anyone tried them and had side effects.
Thank you
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liquid diets dont work. i tried this one the hollywood diet thingy and all that happened was i gained 4 pounds! liquid diets are very unhealthy for your body. do yourself a favor and dont use them!
The Future Mrs STeven Mark Jones
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my pet cat is in heat can somebody help me...
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oh geez good luck with this one. i had a cat about that age that went into heat and started chewing on power cords! (i know stupid cat) but all you can do is either get her fixed or lock her in a room. if you get her fixed she will not go into heat again. because a cat in heat is so damn annoying! when mine was in heat she would only come to me. no one else. so yeah, i feel your pain. but we got her fixed and she was fine.
The future mrs steven mark jones
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So, I'm going out with this girl and everything is going well and everything. Yesterday we are talking on the phone, and she tells me that she is attracted to heavy guys, which I don't mind. I wouldn't consider myself obese, but she says she usually dates heavier set guys. Although she didnt come out and say it, she seemed to hint that she would like me heavier. Now, I'm willing to do anything for her, but I just spent last summer trying to lose weight! I'd rather not gain back that 25 I lost... Is there anything I can do that will satisfy both of us? For your information, I am 15 and male. (link)
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my biggest piece of advice i can you is this. DONT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE FOR SOME ONE ELSE! Don't change yourself for some one eles. Always be YOU! be the YOU that YOU want to be. Not hte YOU that SHE wants YOU to be. You gotta be comfortable in your own skin. if you dont wanna gain back any wieght that you lost, i dont blame you. dont do it. tell her you love her and that you would do anything for her except change who you are. because then she wouldnt love the true you, she would love the you that she created. which is not fair to you. so good luck and drop me a line if you need any more help!
The Future Mrs Steven Mark Jones
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What is a good birthday present to give to my boyfriend?? im all out all ideas (link)
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a cd he likes, something romantic. recreate your first date. um a night of something he likes to do. a movie he likes. something!
The Future Mrs STeven MArk Jones
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hello well i was txing this guy (we are going out but only for like 2 weeks so far) and at the end i put lots of love and he replied love ya too.
now what does the YA mean?? does he not like me enough to say u?? or what i need to know..
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he said "love ya too", thats a cutesy way of saying i love you. i know that it is kinda weird, but many couples and people wont say "i love you" but they will say "love ya" cuz it is faster and cuter. don't worry and i think you may go a bit fast with him, but that is not realyl my place to get involved
the future mrs steven mark jones
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i seem to be targetted by vandals at my home
whilst on holiday vandals climbed over an 8' gate and broke a window in my vehicle - police didn't bother to come out!
I have had missiles thrown down the drive hitting my rear door and garage
Banana skins dropped at the top of the drive
and an 8' cane thrown at the drive gates
this has been going on for some months now - I have never seen anyone to be able to identify them
not sure how to react - do i just ignore it and hope they get bored?
I am on my own and getting very restless about this I can't understand why i am being targetted
any suggestions would be gratefully received.
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you are such a strong person! normal people would have cracked under that kind of stuff. basically, you have to take pictures of the damages. record exact dates and times. take all the notes and be specific. then you go to the police. they can have your house watched. be careful and i hope you figure it out
The future mrs steven mark jones
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ok my parents are divorced and my dad lives in new york and my mom lives in ohio. well my dad invited me to live with him in 8th grade (because my mom was getting remarried and i hated the guy). so i moved in with him and my stepmom. Well, by christmas time she had kicked me out beacuse she didnt like me, so i had to live with my mom and stepdad. my dad LET HER kick me out like that. i lived with my mom and graduated high school with my fair share or fighting with ym stepdad. then my dad invited me back out to live with him to go to college. Well i moved in and my stepmom and i got along at first. then she started getting bitchy towards me. so i got a job. but that wasnt good enough for her! and i had put off college for a while so that i could aquire some money. well after 3 months she gave me a week to be out (of my dads house). well i had no where to go, so my dad said he would give my freind half of hte bills for a few months so i could get a job and pay it myself. well, time for him to pay came around and he made up a story and didnt send me the money. so my freind almost kicked me out until my mom made him pay. well basically what i am trying to say is my dad is a lying jerk and it hurts alot because i am a daddys girl. he is always telling my mom (via email) that i am a freeloader and i am a bum and i am lazy, and then tell me that he loves me! But he hasnt emailed me or called me since my stepmom kicked me out. what am i supposed to do to deal with this or anyhting i could do to feel better about what has happened? (link)
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tell him to shove the money up his ass! you don't need to be dependent on your daddy to help you out! and as for the stepmom, dont let ehr bother you. if she is as bitchy as she seems, she isnt some one that i would want to associate with. personally, you juss need to not let what your dad has doen bother you. just go on and prove him wrong! you can do it!
The Future MRs Steven MArk Jones
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ok my boyfriend is about 20 and i'm about 16 and my supposelly home girl is telling him that im messing around on him with his best friend but im not and i guess he's believing this because he doesn't want to talk to me or his friend honestly i'm not the type to be doing something that bad and i don't want to break up with him because i liked him for three years and i dont wanna hurt him in ne ways (link)
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ok i cant really complain about the age seeing as i am 18 and my fiance is 22, same amount of difference. only difference is, is that you are a minor. so basically you have to force this guy to listen to you. you have to force this guy to lisen to your freind. if he doesnt believe you, then he doesnt trust you. you can not have a relationship with out hte foundation of TRUST! so basically you guys need to talk. if he doesnt trust you then maybe he is not worth your time. you gotta have trust, i will drill that into your head right now. liek i said if you dont have trust you dont have a damn thing! well you also need to go to this "homegirl" and spell out whats happeneing. see if she DID say anything. cuz basically it would be her word agaisnt your boyfreinds. basically y'all need to talk and straighten shit out!
The future mrs steven mark jones
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ok, i am an 18 year old female and my boyfreind is 22 years old. we live a ways apart (him new york me ohio) because i was forced to move. well, we have been living apart for about a month and a half and we can't take it anymore. but we can't decide wether we should have me move up there with him or have him move down here with me. at first we had sorta planned me going and living with him. but then my mom found out that she might have a tumor on her ovaries, tubes, or liver. She doesnt want me to leave because she needs me and my brother will too. (in situations where there is trouble, my brother looks up to me, if im doing ok he will be fine and he knows that). So my mom asked me to ask him to move here so that we coudl both support her and each other. (my mom likes him) but then i owuld be asking him to uproot his life. from the place he lived for 20 years. from his family and his freinds and everything he knows. so i asked him if he would be WILLING to do so. He told me "Whatever i have to do to be with you". But now i feel like i am being selfish in asking him to do that. did i do the right thing in asking him to move here? please help i will rate all good answers as 5's. any smartass comments dont get rated! (link)
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Don't feel guilty. Obviously if he is willing to move away from everything he knows into everything he doesnt know, he really truely loves you. How many guys would do that for a woman? Just let him know on a daily basis how much you love him and appreciate him. He sounds like a great catch and i would not let him go. when he moves in with you dont let a moment go by when he doesnt see or feel your love. You are not being selfish, wanting to be there for your mom. Now if you just didnt wanna move to be with him thats a different story, but there are circumstances out of your control. Don't worry, enjoy the time you will have with him. and make sure that you are safe when he comes in. Good luck to the both of you.
The future mrs steven mark jones
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We are adopting a new cat(male) and brining him home tonight. Please, anyone with experiance - What is the best way to introduce him to our other cat(female)? (link)
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put them in a room. sit there and hold the new one letting the older one smell it and get used to it a bit then let it go and watch them closely.
The Future Mrs Steven Mark Jones
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what does it mean if someone says "are u a kiss and tell type of girl?" is it good or bad?? (link)
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means if you kiss some one do you go around talking about it. "telling" everyone whats going on. "telling" everyone exactly how it went. it can be good or bad depending
the future mrs steven mark jones
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