Hey every one I'm Megan and I'm 16.I like to just hang, relax, and of course go shopping! Like any other teenager I have to put up with alot of drama and what not so I can relate to just about every one. I figured I'd start an advice column i guess because I like giving out advice!
E-mail: m_marie88@yahoo.com
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Age: 16
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Hi! It's around christmas time and my best friend has been talking a lot about what she got me...EEK because I'm HORRIBLE at pressies and I have NO idea what to get her! Can somebody give me some ideas? She's 15/f btw...thanks a bunch! (link)
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Ask her what she wants. Your her friend you should know what all she is into. Alot of stores have really good sales on clothes you could get her an outfit or two. Or you could get her stuff from Bath and Body Works(thats always nice). Or get her a certificate for the mall.
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I been having a lot of problems latley!!!! well i've been cutting because well my best friend started going out with the guy i relle relle loved, even though she loves him to i didn't want her to go out with him but she did and i'm happy for her and all but i wish i was his girlfriend instead and this boy he is our relle good friend we can depend our lives on him! i luv him and he luvs me just he only wants me as a friond so i've been cutting but the thing is my best friend found out and she didn't tell any1 but i thought that the boy relle should know because he's a big partr of this and now they kno and i feel so ashamed that i cut i want to stop causei don't want them unhapy and i don't want any1 to find out but i rele do want to keep doing it cause it helps me!!!!!
Thanx,
~lost lover~ (link)
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First off cutting isn't going to solve anything. Its just stupid and you know that. Stop worrying about what makes other people happy. Do what makes you happy. Go out with friends and meet other guys and just have fun. I think you need to talk to your friend about it and tell her how you feel. I also think that maybe you should talk to some one else about how to deal with things in a none physical manner.
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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers! (link)
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Oh my...Just tell her that you and your friends were playing with them and one of them put one in your purse as a joke adn you forgot it was in there. And that they should have trust in you that your not having sex.
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There is this guy that I have known since th beginning of the year and we have a class together. This weekend we were on a school trip thing. On the way home, this guy told me that he liked me. I had already figured that out beacuse he was sitting there stroking my hand and holding it. But the thing is, I DON'T like him. I am in love with some one else. And this guy knows it, but he keeps going on holding my hand. What should I tell him? How should I tell him that I'm not interested in him like that? Thanks in advance.
Signed,
Unsure and Torn (link)
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These kind of situations are always tough. Just tell him nicely that you have feelings for someone else and that all you would be doing to him (the kid holding your hand) is leading him on and that thats the last thing you want to do. And hopefully he'll understand. Good Luck.
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i have this friend named ashley. she used to be my best friend we would tell each other everything but now she is like trying to be popular and stuff but by doing that she is losing me as a friend and i am already missing her...what should i say to her? (link)
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It's always hard loosing touch with a friend. Call her up some time and tell her how you feel or tell her to her face. Chances are she isn't going to stop. But EVENTUALLY she'll hoprfully realize that the "popular" people aren't going to mean anything to you once your out of school.
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Ok like i am 14 and i am a guy and i have had a crush on this one guy since 7th grade nd now i am really haveing serious feelings for him,he's in my grade also, and he gives me these weird signals. I really like this guy and wanna have a relationship with him.
Please Help
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Have you tried talking to him about this? B/c if you haven't then maybe this is a good time to try. Hey he might have the same feelings for you!
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Hey all! Well our school has a dance every month. and everybody "freak" dances(like dirty dances)and like i know i can (i guess) but i just dont want to becuz ppl with think im a slut and im embarrased. . .any tips? thx (link)
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First, go to the dance with a bunch of girlfriends. Second, egt all hyped up for it and then i think you won't care what other poeple will think of you. Hey dancing is dancing. And trust me you'll have fun!!
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I'm a 14 year old girl and i have a guy problem. ok I have been liking this guy for a little over a year now, and he likes me too but we havent dated. he said he is scared he is going to hurt me again but not on purpose, and I dont deserve that, I deserve better. but he said he really likes me a lot, but idk why he cant just ask me to date him. WE'll never know unless we try, can you help?! (link)
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Maybe he's scared to have a girlfriend right now. Have you tried talking to him about it? If not then try to and see if you's can hang out or soemthing afterwards to make it seem like a date or something. But I think he's probably wither scared to have a girlfriend right now or he just doesn't want one at the moment. But talk to him and find out!!
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I broke up with my boyfriend Saturday. I thought I only liked him as a friend, but now that I am without him, I realise I really miss him and like him. I think since we barely hang out, I started liking him less. He cried when we broke up. I hope he doesn't hate me. I am going to talk to him tomorrow if I see him before he goes to practice. I want to go back out with him. I was PMSing, so I guess that screwed up with my emotions. What should I say to him to clear this all up and so we can get back together? I'm really bad at doing this, but I want this to work out. Help..can you give me an example on what to say? (link)
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Ever hear the saying "You don't know what you've got till its gone" well it's so true. Just walk up to him in school or whereever and tell him EXACTLY how you feel and you think that maybe your period messed up your emotions and hopefully he'll understand. Good Luck.
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Well you see this is my problem well actully i have a few 1) my boobs hang to the floor omg i jus dont know what to do i mean i lose things in them for days just the other day i found homework from last year. 2) I have there little green bumps on my vagina.. now i mean is this normal? Because my boyfriend has them too.. I didnt have them until we had sex but he told me it was nothing to worry about because he loves me. 3) there is this girl named Megan and i have the biggest crush on her ever .. but I am a girl i dont think she goes for the whole dike thing im not sure though.. PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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Have you ever thought about a breat reduction? You can get them reducted down to just about nothing. Then you wouldn't have to worry about losing things. Also with the 3 green bumps on your crotch. I think you better go get them looked at, they could be a STD. And about the liking Megan part I doubt she's interested, sorry.
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ok, i'm about to make some prayer bracelets for myself, but i have no clue what to pray on. any ideas??? (link)
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Peace and good health!!!
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Hey, lat night my friend was suppost to sleep over but then at the last minute she couldn't so she said that we would hang out tomorrow, which is today. Then she told me that she was going out to lunch wit her bf so i was like o i thought that we were hanging out today and she is like ya we still are..when i get bak from lunch. She hadn't told me that she was going out with him because we had made the plan before she made the plan to go out with her boyfriend. Should i be mad because she has been out the whole day with him when she told me that we would hang out. (link)
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I don't think you should make a big fuss about it. Yeah it was wrong of her to make plans with you and kind of blow you off, but it is her boyfriend and maybe she just wanted to spend some time with him. Try making plans agian and see what happens. If she blows off agian then just stop making plans with her untill she learns that it is some what ignorant.
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hey, i like this guy a whole lot, and he likes me 2. we are really close friends, so we dont wanna go out cause it may ruin our friendship, but we still like each other. what should i do? its kind of driving me crazy, but i dont wanna go out w/ him either! thanks, hope this makes sense! (link)
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The last thing you want to do is ruin a relationship. Why don't you guys just go "steady" for a while. Not boyfriend girlfriend just...friends that "talk". Know what I mean. Things might get akward if you's start dating when you's are bestfriends.
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I don't know what I want to "be" when I'm older. I have no idea what I'm going to study, or anything! My friend makes me think about this, because she's my age, and she knows what she's doing. She's going to be a chef and she's already practicing at home! It makes me think like I am behind. I don't really need 1 thing I am going to be, I just want an idea, or like a couple of occupations for me. When I was little, I always wanted to be a teacher. I played school all the time. But I'm not sure if I still want to. There's no other jobs that I'd specifically want to do, but I'll tell you some of my hobbies. I'm not much of a sports person. I like to write, but I'm not very good. I like to work with kids..I'm thinking maybe a daycare? If you have anything, please share your ideas or thoughts. (link)
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Here are a few occupations for you to think about: Working at a hospital (you'd make more $ at a hospital int he city) 1st-4th grade teacher if you like children. If you wanted to travel around the world you could go to school to become a Fashion Marketer or Designer. Theres ALOT of jobs out there why dont you get on the internet adn look some up!
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how can i stop excess sweating under my arms? Everyday when i go to school, i always have huge wet circles under my arms by first period. I usually have to wear sweatshirts or something thicker than a regular t;shirt or long sleeve shirt.Every deodorant or anti-perspirant I use it doesn't work at all!!! Please help me!?
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If you go to the doctor about it they should be able to give you an anit-persirant that will help..ALOT!
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I have a wonderful best friend, I mean she's everything a best friend could ever be. Usually on Fridays me and her always go and hang out. It's not just us though its a bunch of guys too. I dont have a problem with these guys but its just every one of them have seen my best friend naked! She sends naked pictures (fully naked, EVERYTHING showing) to ALL of her guy friends, she flashes guys all the time, and it makes me kind of awkward. I mean I dont want to say it but its kind of slutty. All these guys love her now and it makes me feel kind of awkward because none of them really CARE about me. I mean they talk to me but they dont CARE (you can tell...they dont talk to me online or anything, I've tried talking they just talk and just say yeah and ok to everything. they talk to me in person though). Well I want attention from guys and for guys to like me but I dont want to be like my best friend and do the naked stuff she does. They dont want to see me naked anyway they all like her. Help!
-Wants Attention (link)
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Wow, I would deffenitly have a talk with her. I mean yeah guys might think it's cool and everything but so they really know the real her? You should try to get guys attention by just trying to be yourself.But I know exactly how you feel. Maybe she's doing it because she doesn't get enough attention from other people. Like at home or in school or something. I'd just try to talk to her about it saying how it makes you feel akward and you would apriciate it if she'd stop. But who knows maybe it's just a phase and she'll grow out of it.
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I just moved to a new state and i do not know a lot of people and i want to babysit in my spare time. but i do not know how to get the word out that i will be able to babysit?help me please! (link)
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A great way to get the word out about you wanting to babysit is to put your name, number, and how you want to baby sit on a bunch of tabs and pin them onto a board at a grocery store or a gas station. I've even see people do it in laundrymats.
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Ok my friend and I are both liking the same guy. But the thing is is that she met him first and brought him around me. Well then need less to say i started liking him. Well she likes him but tends to "sleep" with other guys. She said shed be mad at me if i went out with this guy but i think shed get over it. Its not like im tryingto be a bad friend its just I really like this guy and I dont have boyfriends often and i deff. DONT sleep around with other guys while "liking" osme one else. And this guy that were both into doesnt even like her and she knows that. I dont even no what to do. I need your advice**-Kourtney (link)
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Kourtney- My personal opinion is that you should be able to date who ever you want to date. This guy doesn't like your friend so make your move. And if she is going to be with other guys then she must not like this guy to much. And if you and thif guy do hook up jus tell her that your really happy and she should be happy for you.
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Yeah hey um...is it ok to stick fruit up my ass? or will that cause an infection!? (link)
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WHOA well I think it all depends on what kind of fruit you use. I don't think it's the healthiest thing to do but hey what you do in your spare time is cool in a kinky odd freakish kid of way lol. But yea I'd avoid large objects!
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im sort of taking everyones advice.. everyone told me to talk to him and i did.. and he told me to wait for him.. and i tried doing that.. but im finally letting him go.. im changing my life now.. im letting more and more go.. and im just being more open with people.. i realized that i shouldnt just be there when he needs me.. and maybe i was moving to fast.. so now im just letting go.. and im actually happy.. im meeting a lot of new people.. and he is now telling me that he wants to go out with me.. but i dont want to.. cause im having fun right now.. im living my life the way i want to.. now how do i tell him that im not into him anymore.. i mean ive told him.. but i think that he thinks im lying.. and ive told him.. and ive told him millions of times.. and he doesnt seem to understand.. and its like im having new guy friends.. and most of them are starting to like me.. i mean its kool that one or two of them like me.. but man.. im kind of not used to this.. i know it might sound weird.. but im not really wanting all of this attention.. i mean yea i changed.. but i didnt change myself for everyone to talk to me.. like they do now.. i feel like im losing some people this way.. and im gaining others.. so i guess im asking more then one question...
how do i tell the guy that i really dont want to go out with him?? and get him to really understand??
how do i get all of the new guys to stop likeing me.. without telling them to stop liking me??
should i be happy that im getting new friends?? but then at the same time losing old ones??
and anything else that is in that.. please help.. (link)
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I think you should tell the guy you used to like that your a changed person. And you don't want to be held down and waiting for someone when you could be out having fun with your friends. And as for the guys that like you now, just tell them (nicely) that your not really interested. It's always a GOOD thing to make new friends but it's the old ones that actually cared about you that you want to still keep in touch with. You could always have some of your old friends and your new friends hang out and maybe every one will just form one big group.
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