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Question Posted Sunday December 5 2004, 5:03 pm

I have a wonderful best friend, I mean she's everything a best friend could ever be. Usually on Fridays me and her always go and hang out. It's not just us though its a bunch of guys too. I dont have a problem with these guys but its just every one of them have seen my best friend naked! She sends naked pictures (fully naked, EVERYTHING showing) to ALL of her guy friends, she flashes guys all the time, and it makes me kind of awkward. I mean I dont want to say it but its kind of slutty. All these guys love her now and it makes me feel kind of awkward because none of them really CARE about me. I mean they talk to me but they dont CARE (you can tell...they dont talk to me online or anything, I've tried talking they just talk and just say yeah and ok to everything. they talk to me in person though). Well I want attention from guys and for guys to like me but I dont want to be like my best friend and do the naked stuff she does. They dont want to see me naked anyway they all like her. Help!
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AnDiE answered Sunday December 5 2004, 6:48 pm:
omg.. i used to have a friend like that and i hated that everyone was alwaes looking at her and not me.. but i would sae to just be more outgoing with them..not slutty.. but outgoing.. and when you talk to them online.. ask them questions so that they cant just sae yeah.. okay.. and yeah.. when ur with her.. just be more outgoing then her.. ( l0l.. it sounds mean.. but its true!) l0l.. and then they will look at you!

oh.. yeah.. and if they only talk to her cuz theyve seen her naked.. then that probably means that thats the only reason why they like her.. and if they talk to you and they havent seen you naked.. l0l.. then they like you for you.. :-D

l0l.. hope i helped!!

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Miss_Megan answered Sunday December 5 2004, 5:47 pm:
Wow, I would deffenitly have a talk with her. I mean yeah guys might think it's cool and everything but so they really know the real her? You should try to get guys attention by just trying to be yourself.But I know exactly how you feel. Maybe she's doing it because she doesn't get enough attention from other people. Like at home or in school or something. I'd just try to talk to her about it saying how it makes you feel akward and you would apriciate it if she'd stop. But who knows maybe it's just a phase and she'll grow out of it.

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PuMpiiTtuPpx33 answered Sunday December 5 2004, 5:46 pm:
just tell your friend to stop being such a slut <33 =] sry if it seems harsh lol..xOox-->aMaNda*

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