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What To Do?
(15/f)
There is this guy that I have known since th beginning of the year and we have a class together. This weekend we were on a school trip thing. On the way home, this guy told me that he liked me. I had already figured that out beacuse he was sitting there stroking my hand and holding it. But the thing is, I DON'T like him. I am in love with some one else. And this guy knows it, but he keeps going on holding my hand. What should I tell him? How should I tell him that I'm not interested in him like that? Thanks in advance.
Signed,
Unsure and Torn
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Well with this guy u have to me straight out about it. If he reaches for your hand pull away n shoot him a warning look. and just tell him " hey i dont like you like that and it makes me un comfortable when you do those things" And if he keeps doin it get a guy friend to beat him up lol im just kidding but just be forward about it and let him know you do not apprectiate it
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Dear Unsure and Torn,
You should tell him that you like somoene else and maybe if things do not work out with this other person there might be a chance for him.. Let him down easy and try not to hurt his feelings but if he does not get the picture you might have to hurt them. When your with him try to have your hands in places where he cant hold them.
-Brandy
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Don't let it go any further or you'll break his heart. Tell him you have feelings for another, although you do care for him, you don't want to be with him.
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These kind of situations are always tough. Just tell him nicely that you have feelings for someone else and that all you would be doing to him (the kid holding your hand) is leading him on and that thats the last thing you want to do. And hopefully he'll understand. Good Luck.
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