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Why can't I meet anyone for marriage, or why don't I have close friends, after I meet people they go away.
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Speed-dating!!! And for the other part, you should try to figure out what you are doing wrong because chances are, you're the problem and not others. Just telling the truth, and since it's EVERYONE else that's leaving you, you may be the problem.
Good luck ^_^
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So let's get to it.
There's a boy in some of my classes who constantly flirts with me and I kinda like it :)
We've been friends for a long time and we sometimes play around. Like I slap his butt sometimes and he pits his hand on my leg and rubs it :D I'm starting to fall in love with him and he feels the same with me. He's rubbed my lists through my toga pants before, and I've grabbed his dick through his pants. We're hanging out later this week at his house alone and we'll probably end up having sex. Any tips that 15 year old guy like? I'm kinda scared that anal is going to hurt but I want to please him and let him do it. Thanks :)
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Um, excuse me?
I'm 15. Female. And I have never even thought about having sex yet. Like I said. I'm 15. All I'm thinking about is school and passing all of my classes, applying for extra things, and following my dreams. And you're sitting here, saying you're in love with a boy who gropes you? Please, get out. That's disgusting. Think about it. You do NOT love him. He's using you for sex and you're VERY EASILY offering yourself to him. Need I repeat? You're 15. And you seriously don't need everyone's possible sliver of respect they may or may not have for you to be gone over a horny, stupid mistake, because from me, that's nonexistant. You obviously don't know what love is, if you think THAT is love. Rubbing your legs through your yoga pants... Do you even do yoga? It's because of brainless things like you that give us teenagers a bad reputation. What if you get an STD? Or a baby? What if you find out he thinks you're a slut? What if he doesn't even talk to you again? Do you even care? If you two are connected by this stupid little absence of brain material, then you have another thing coming. What will having sex at 15 even do for you? What do you win with that? I was definitely born 3 years later than I should have... I shake my head at poor unfortunate little irrelevant, imbecilic things like you.
All I ask is that you read all of the above and email me at melanielovesdylanobrien@gmail.com if you have any questions :)
Have a nice day ^_^
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Hi, I'm going to a rollercoaster/water park tomorrow(Saturday)
I'm 13 so I need an easy style
I'm black (no offense) so my hair is gonna poof if I get it wet (don't want that to happen been there done that)
I've looked on YouTube and found a couple hair updos so if u look up: A Quick Casual Holiday Updo or *39* Quick Cute & Simple Updos
I really need some help tell me what you think I should do (links help a little more btw)
Thx!!!😃 (link)
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Keep looking on YouTube. Naptural85 is an AMAZING guru. I'm sure you can find something on her channel that would help you.
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What if the reason for your suiside are to lift the burden you feel your putting on your friends and family now, to be selfesh is to only think ones self but what if you leave no mess for family to find what if you really have exhausted all other options I'm asking this because I am young enough know and old enough to realize my family shouldn't have to cart me from drs to drs because my poor health and being so depressed in front of them is only bringing them down (link)
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This sounds like my sister's keeper... Will you please elaborate more?
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I am not sure what to do anymore so I am trying this site...
I am a single mom on ssi with two children.
I have been trying to find a way to get a job but there is no work in my town.I was in foster care so I was not allowed to get a drivers license either.Also due to a medical condition I can't drive.I have bee looking for some way to move but every effort I make fails.If the person I live with gets a job the rent will spike.Making them getting a job even if they could find one pointless.So I make so little that by the time the bills are paid I am broke.I would like to move to a new state,there are no opportunities here.I also have no credit score.Please help,I'm severely depressed over this all.I don't know what to do. (link)
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First of all, you should try yoga. It worked for this man: I'm pretty sure it could work for you.
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qX9FSZJu448
Second of all, stop thinking in such a negative way. Your thoughts right now, are ruining your life. Think about what you can do to make things better, not how what you're thinking will go terribly wrong. Being positive can make a difference between you staring at a wall on a Saturday night and watching TV or eating dinner with your 2 kids and laughing and joking on a Saturday night. So chin up, try yoga every day to improve your physical/mental health, and try watching Joel Osteen. Once you finish watching the man's video, type in Joel Osteen and listen to him say what I just said in more detail.
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eZQ-wf8GjLw
This may seem like it has nothing to do with you, but honestly, you should try this for a few months, and please email me your progress at melanielovesdylanobrien@gmail.com. I would love to hear from you. Best wishes, and
Keep your head up.
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17/f,
So I was wondering as I know it happens to everyone at some point, how do you like overcome getting talked/bitched about?
Today, theres this girl I knew from school a few years ago (we didn't even talk) and as soon as I sat on the computer next door but one to her in the library, she started OBVIOUSLY talking about me to her friend. Within a minute, I made sure I gave them a 'look' to know I knew they were talking about me, and I got up and went downstairs. When I got home I deleted her of my fb friends. But I don't know why she was bitching?
I can't ask her why, because she'll just get her friend to gang up on me, and I really really dont get on with her friend as it is-she always used to bully me. Incidently, after the computer thing I went to the toilets and cried my eyes out. So how do other people just 'get over' what other ppl say negativly about them? (link)
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Whatever it is that you do, have, or just are, they are obviously jealous of. So they feel the need to make you feel bad about yourself. Just remind yourself that whatever they say is only their opinion. They don't truly care about you if they talk about you and not to you about something they want you to change.
Just remind yourself that after these years that you have with them, you will MOST LIKELY never see them again in your life. It's pointless to keep letting them be your jury.
Form a soundproof bubble around yourself that only lets in people that are trying to help (teachers, parents, GOOD friends) and forget about them. They're irrelevant.
And next time, instead of showing them that they bother you (giving them a look) just turn around and smile, or smile and shake your head as if you pity them. Because you should, they are irrelevant after all.
Keep your head up.
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So I have an iPod Touch. Tomorrow at school, we only go for 5 hours. I want to bring it to school because there's something SUPER EXCITING at school happening at school and I want to record it.
I'm just scared I'm going to get it stolen... I never leave my backpack anywhere, and if I have to, I leave it somewhere else. I ALWAYS have my backpack with me, no matter what.
Do you think I should bring it? I'm not sure... I'm just thinking I should leave my backpack in my locker all day until that thing happens. Ugh! I need advice! Please help ASAP. Thanks :) (link)
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Just put it in your pocket and when it's out, hold onto it tightly.
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How should I approuch or discuss with my boyfreind the problem of him being distant and not opening up to me. He lives with me and is withdrawn and doesnt talk much to me.
He sleeps on the couch at least 3 to 4 nights a week and says its because he has problems sleeping.
Hes not affectionate, but says he does care about me. He is going thru a divorce and says he would rather keep details to himself. He has shared some but on a daily basis doesnt share much. (link)
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You didn't provide enough information...
I mean, you could always ask him, and tell him no matter what it is, you won't judge him or be mad because it's all said and done. Of course, only say this if its true, but I would start off by saying that to see what he tells me right then and there. And I don't know enough to say anymore but just talk to him and see what he tells you. If he doesn't share anything, give him time and show him your support. He will open up when he's ready.
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I Like This Boy Named George But I Don't Know What To Do. He Plays With Me And Acts Like He Likes Me And Flirts. But Sometimes He Doesn't Want To Talk To Me. Don't Get Me Wrong Were Best Friends. But I Got Expelled From School. He Offers To Carry Me, Hold Me, And Other Stuff. :) I Kiss Him On The Cheek He Kiss Me On The Cheek.. But I'm Not Sure Because Some Days He Acts Different. Plus He Always Tries To Flirt While I'm Around.His Little Sister Is Begging Me To Go Out With Him.. I Really Like Him. What Should I Do? Should I Tell Him? Should I Not Tell Him? Should I Ask Him Out? Please Reply To Makala. (link)
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i think you should tell him. listen to John Mayer, "say what you need to say" its better to say to, than never to say what you need to say.
if you like him, what is stopping you?
let me know what happens :D
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I have been hearing a lot about Pueraria Mirifica herb that makes the breast grow naturally. ANyone here who have tried that? I saw the ads of Ainterol Pueraria Mirifica and I am about to be convinced about its effectivity. I am kinda scared about getting silicones after all the news of those who have had it for many years. (link)
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If it's something natural that you're putting into your body, then I'd say go for it.
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A 13 year old girl. Many fights with female best friend in school. So now we 'broke up'and she is giving me cold shoulder. To try and keep the friendship going, I said sorry many times to her even though I wasn't at fault at times. However, she just took advantage of me. She bears grudges because I did some mean things last year but I made up for it. She keeps using that incident against me even though she said she 'forgave me'. I feel frustrated. I really want to get back with her as best friends but I think she is extremely selfish. I just want her to not be angry anymore...What should I do? Or should I just let go because she is so mean and biatchy? Thanks. (link)
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I don't really understand the question, but I think if you're not happy, you should avoid her
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Ok so now I'm 12 and had sex with my boyfriend a couple of times and I had sex with two other guys and don't give me a lecture about that! Anyway I didn't get my period last month and I'm late this month and don't think I'm gonna get it. I've bEen feeling really sick lately and been having stomach cramps and been feeling tired. I've also had headaches. Is it possible that I'm pregnant? We didn't use a condom any of the times we had sex (link)
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Wow this is suddenly my favorite question.
(WARNING: I admit, I am about to be extremely rude to you. Don't read it if you aren't prepared for the truth. But please do read the last paragraph)
Now if I read correctly, you are 12 years old honey. Twelve! That's when I first got my period! January 21st, 2009. It might as well have been yesterday.
I hope so badly that you aren't pregnant. Only for the poor, poor baby that is MOST likely developing inside of you that has to go through life knowing his/her mother was fucking 12 years old when he/she was born, not for you. When I say I feel bad, I mean the baby, NOT you. The baby didn't do anything wrong. You did. Don't make the poor child suffer a horrible life.
Just like someone else said, basically you have no say in the fate of your baby. That may sound like nothing right now, but later you will feel horrible. Deal with it. You need to suck it up and take what is coming.
There is like a .00000000000000000001% chance of you NOT being pregnant. Why? Because you had sex WITHOUT a condom with MORE THAN 1 guy and yes, you better be scared. This will officially be something that you will be getting shit for for the rest of your life, no matter what you do, abortion (completely... Don't even get me started), or adoption (which will scar you emotionally, I will not sugarcoat this, especially not for you) or if you keep it (a constant reminder of your disgusting mistake). So don't be surprised at the names people will start calling you and trust me, they will find out.
Suffer your own consequences. Let this be an eye opener for you. Let this be like a near death experience. Pray to GOD that you aren't pregnant. Its so impossible, but whatever! Because if you are, you will hate yourself for the rest of your life. Even you, making this ultimately stupid and disgustingly wrong mistake, don't deserve that. Nobody deserves to have their childhood cut short because of a tiny little baby who didn't do anything wrong but to exist on this sad, sad, little planet. This made me cry, a baby having a baby...
Good luck with, well, EVERYTHING from now on...
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I am the second born in my family and sometimes, I feel like everyone's more important than I am, especially my older brother. People call me by his name, ask about him more than the rest of us, and always remember stories that are actually about one of the rest of us as being about him. My parents say that they don't have a favorite child and they swear that my older brother's not the most special just because he's the oldest. My mom even wrote an essay for a class about what made us all equally special to her and I've always believed it, but lately people have been telling me that first borns are always the special ones and the ones that would be the hardest to lose. I researched it on the internet and a ton of people said that parents would rather have one of their younger kids die than their first born. I decided to try to find out, so Tuesday night, I disappeared and my parents couldn't find me until Thursday morning. My mom found me first and after she was done hugging me, she was angrier than I've ever seen her and yelled at me the whole way home. When we got home, my dad (the harder parent) was even more mad. They said they hadn't slept, eaten, or done anything else since I left and they even had to call the police for help. Neither of them have calmed down about it and when I asked them if that was as bad as if they couldn't find my oldest brother, it just mad them more mad that that was my reason for doing what I did and that I believed strangers over them. Could I really have scared them as bad as my oldest brother could? Does it sound like they have a favorite child? (link)
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I think you need to ask them for yourself. You need to go up to them on A GOOD DAY and ask them straight up if they have a favorite child. Stop assuming, no matter how "obvious" the situation may be. I used to think the same thing about my mother, because everyone seems to like my brother better just because he's older. Turns out, I wasn't displaying my love as openly as my mom likes to (I wansn't very affectionate) and in family meetings, i didn't really talk much for fear that the conversation would turn back to him. This made my family ignore me, because I was ignoring THEM. But i see where i went wrong after i talked to my mom about it and now, everything is way better. Do you get my point? Maybe, during all of this, that is what you think because you have a biased opinion. Maybe you're being bitter to them (unconsciously of course) and they're just responding to it. I think you should also ask your brother if he thinks they give him too much attention.
So, my advice is to ask them. And whether you take my advice or not, I'm glad I said this because at least now you have an idea of what may be happening.
Good luck sweetie I hope I helped :)
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Thank you so much for answering me, to answer your question right now I think the majority of my stress is from college classes and work, but I am also very much stressed about not getting my period. And yes I am very close to my boyfriend I'm not about having sex without connection although I never judge others. What's scaring me is that I didn't get my period yet, which is causing me to worry. Do you think it would be too early for me to take a pregnancy test? Thank you SO MUCH again for responding, I will definitely take your advice! (link)
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Thank you!
I think that you're better safe than sorry if you take your pregnancy test now. You should have missed your period for about 2 weeks I think? But yeah after 2 weeks its ok to take an official one. I don't know if you do, but I don't trust those pee-on-a-stick things. I hope that whatever happens, you will be free of the stress that you feel. I am kind of stressed because of schoolwork too but it's not at your level obviously (I'm a freshman :D) AP classes are hard...
Anyways, whatever happens, tell your boyfriend the truth. He loves you, and he would appreciate it in the end (even if he gets mad now)
Good luck!
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Hi Melwillhelpyou,
I admire the advice you give on here, you seem to be a very calming, logical, and insightful person which is why I am inboxing you. I'm 20/f and my boyfriend and I have been having sex (using condoms every time of course). I think we have had sex about three times since my last period. I am always extremely careful and make sure after sex that the condom didn't break (for precaution and ease of mind) but I have not gotten my period yet (which I usually get very late September) and I can't help but be paranoid about possibly being pregnant, although in the back of my mind I am sure there is no way. Am I over reacting? I have been under a lot of stress lately so that could be the case but other than that I can only think of one other obvious reason why I would not have gotten it yet. Any opions on this matter would be greatly appreciated.
Am I being over paranoid?
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Awwww thanks I always try to give the best advice I can on here :)
As for the question:
I suggest you go somewhere that you know will instantly calm you down, first and foremost. For what it sounds like your situation is, that is the most important thing to do first.
Like a spa, if that's your thing, yoga, maybe even (for ease of mind) go to the doctor and get an official pregnancy test. If you do that, you will know for sure whether you are pregnant or not. It is not good to be on edge about something constantly like that.
Is there, may I ask, a reason why you're so worried? Pregnancy is a big thing, but you're having sex with a guy, which to me is the biggest thing you could give to a man, (and i hope its because you are very close and open with each other) and you're this worried? Besides the obvious reasons (financial, emotional, etc.) what are you so scared of?
If possible, try to solve the thing that has been making you so stressed out. You haven't exactly specified, but I think whatever it is, it could be solved by communication or determination or motivation or a combination of those.
Good luck, I hope I helped :) have a great day and please let me know what happens!
Thanks!
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To start off My boyfriend and I have been together for a little less then a year, he has a little girl who is three that I adore and spend a lot of time with. He's 22, he told me before we got together has was snipped so if I was expecting to have kids with someone someday he was not the guy. I was fine with this, seeing as I don't want kids, and if I do, not anytime soon, I'm fine with having just his little girl around if things do work out with us. When I spoke with my parents about him a while back my mom asked if we were being safe, seeing as I moved in just a few months after we started dating. I informed her she had nothing to worry about.
Well, now I am not so sure, I've missed two periods, it's normal for me to miss one every now and then, but never two in a row.
I trust my boyfriend wouldn't lie to me about getting a vasectomy, but in the off chance he did, I have no idea how to feel or what to do.
I'm taking a test later today(I informed him of this) He's fine with me taking it and says better safe than sorry.
If I am pregnant though, I'm not sure what to do, I have a minimum wage job and he can barely afford child support for his daughter as it is. I don't know to yell and be mad that he lied, or be hurt that he told me he loved me and knowingly lied to me every time we had sex.
On the other hand I'll feel like a complete bitch if I call him a liar and than I am shown physical proof he had a vasectomy.
How do I confront him if I am pregnant?
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Get him at a good time and then tell him, but say "you know that I don't keep anything from you, but I have been worried about how you would react when I say this..." And then tell him. What's the worst that could happen? You love each other and have moved in together and have even openly talked about your future to one another. I'm guessing you're pretty close. If you suspect him to be lying, don't mention that part. He might just get mad. Make sure you wait until he wants to tell you whether he was lying or not, even though you have seen physical proof...
Anyways, never be shy to tell someone close to you something like this. Just go ahead and say it. There's nothing to be afraid of, really.
Let me know what happens! I hope I helped, I think :)
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whats some good porn sites that are not blocked by the schools.and i need to know how to get a girl to have sex with me. (link)
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Here's an idea,
Stand up in class and say you're horny and see if any girls follow you when you walk out. See how much of a success that brings you.
Good luck sad little boy
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How to get rid of pimples? (link)
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Use Neutrogena oil - free acne wash every morning and night to wash your face. It's what I use and its amazing.
Then if you want to pop them, which is a bad idea, you should pop them and then immediately after put a bit of toothpaste on it.
Hope I helped :)
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Hi,
My boyfriend and I are both 18 and have been together for almost 6 years now. He's not really the type to express his feelings and that really bothers me. Lately things have been getting quite bad, where I'll ask him questions that can simply be answered with a yes or no like, 'Do you want me to come over tomorrow?' He won't give me an answer, he will just simply reply with 'What do you want to do?' or, 'I don't know.' It's getting really annoying, it's like I'm talking to a brick wall! I do admit that I get angry with him when he does this, which most of the time starts a fight. I've told him I have a problem with this and that I need him to communicate with me and answer my questions and he agreed to try, but he hasn't and absolutely nothing has changed. It gets me so angry and I don't know how much longer I can take being with a brick wall! What should I do? (link)
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Ask him if there's any kind of attraction anymore between you two. See what kind of reaction it gets you. I honestly think that is a big part in a relationship.
If he loves you he would be trying. From what you've said, I don't think he is.
Ask him what the source is. Have there been any recent big changes in your relationship? Maybe that's your answer there. Maybe you have done something you're very proud of that he doesn't think is that cool, but he doesn't want to hurt your feelings? I don't know...
He could be feeling guilty of something. I would say to ask him, but that seems to be your problem, so I suggest therapy. They will be able to figure it out. Right now, he's a closed oyster. Therapy would be the boiling water to open him up a little. It would also help if you weren't so angry. You should show him that you're there for him no matter what. Be comforting.
I'm sorry if my answer sounds all over the place, but I am just putting all of my ideas together. If you have any further questions, you can email me at melanielovesdylanobrien, which is my personal email.
I hope I helped and good luck :)
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I am female and 14 years old This friend i hav she just started dating a ninth grader and he is older by a year and she is having dreams bout him. What does she do tell him or not? (link)
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Well, I would if I was her but it depends on what kind of dream it is. If its funny or ironic, I would tell him, because those kind of dreams aren't private or embarrassing if someone else heard it. But if its more personal like a romantic date or you know, something like that, unless they're very close and saying something like that wont scare him, then I wouldn't tell him.
So, depending on the dream, it's up to her.
I hope I helped :D
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