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I am not meeting anyone
Why can't I meet anyone for marriage, or why don't I have close friends, after I meet people they go away.
Janet
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Speed-dating!!! And for the other part, you should try to figure out what you are doing wrong because chances are, you're the problem and not others. Just telling the truth, and since it's EVERYONE else that's leaving you, you may be the problem.
Good luck ^_^
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You no doubt are a smart individual and likeable but just don't have good social skills. I'm not attacking you here but rather pointing out that there has to be something lacking or inadvertently pissing them off that they aren't coming back or discard you easily.
What you need to do is be brutally honest with yourself and find a psychologist and tell them what you told us and find the root cause of your problem with people that way. This professional can also teach you tips to navigate socially.
Sooner or later you will attract the right people for friends and maybe marriage but it's obvious something is broken and you have to take measures to correct it so you fare better with people.
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I don;t know enough about you or the type of people that you meet to give a helpful answer.
I can only venture to guess the following:
that all people whether they know it or not have an ability to pick up vibes from another person. Perhaps it's that invisible signal you put out rather than what you say or do or look like that has that impact.
There are many great self help books out there on how to attract people and what we do that counteracts the attracting of people into our lives.
Or you could check with a counselor. Sorry I can't be of more help.
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