what should I do with my boyfreind who won't open up to me?
Question Posted Friday December 21 2012, 3:54 pm
How should I approuch or discuss with my boyfreind the problem of him being distant and not opening up to me. He lives with me and is withdrawn and doesnt talk much to me.
He sleeps on the couch at least 3 to 4 nights a week and says its because he has problems sleeping.
Hes not affectionate, but says he does care about me. He is going thru a divorce and says he would rather keep details to himself. He has shared some but on a daily basis doesnt share much.
I mean, you could always ask him, and tell him no matter what it is, you won't judge him or be mad because it's all said and done. Of course, only say this if its true, but I would start off by saying that to see what he tells me right then and there. And I don't know enough to say anymore but just talk to him and see what he tells you. If he doesn't share anything, give him time and show him your support. He will open up when he's ready. [ Melwillhelpyou's advice column | Ask Melwillhelpyou A Question ]
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