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Sex: Any tips that 15 year old guy like?
So let's get to it.
There's a boy in some of my classes who constantly flirts with me and I kinda like it :)
We've been friends for a long time and we sometimes play around. Like I slap his butt sometimes and he pits his hand on my leg and rubs it :D I'm starting to fall in love with him and he feels the same with me. He's rubbed my lists through my toga pants before, and I've grabbed his dick through his pants. We're hanging out later this week at his house alone and we'll probably end up having sex. Any tips that 15 year old guy like? I'm kinda scared that anal is going to hurt but I want to please him and let him do it. Thanks :)
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I'd give you a lecture but I doubt you're going to listen to another person telling you you aren't ready for sex.
Don't have anal sex just because you want to please someone. Seriously? Sex is about sharing something mutual. And you sure as hell don't need to be playing around with anal the first time you sleep with a dude while you're both in high school.
Get on birth control, use a condom, consider finding a sex partner who when sex happens it's about the two of you and what you want together not what each of you wants separately.
That means talking. Listen to Dragonfly. Talk to him about this before you have sex.
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OMG girl you have the totally wrong attitude here. At your age or even at my age in my 50's, sex should always be a mutually satisfying event with neither one pushing the other to do anything they are uncomfortable with. Yes we like to please our partners but boys need to learn that women come first...if a boy learns to do it right, you have full trust in each other gals can have multiple orgasms eventually...not so sure it will happen the first time. But a guy need to make sure the gal is fully satisfied before he goes for his orgasm.
If you're already scared about anal you will be then too and that means you'll be tightening your muscles and I guarantee it will hurt. For anal to work, you'd have to learn how to relax your spincter muscle and have him willing to go ever so slowly like move a half inch which will sting but not too bad as long as he hold that position until you say ok to move another 1/2 inch in and so on until he's all the way. If this is what you plan to do for sex so you don't get pregnant, it may not be the most enjoyable thing for you. Your first time having sex should be a wonderful memorable event. I can't tell you exactly what your guy will like, each one is different, I have had opportunity with quite a few different guys. What one likes for oral sex is ok but not the best for another.
Its great that you both are attracted to each other. What is missing though is that the two of you have not talked everything out ahead so, before you try the next thing...talk. If one or both of you haven't done it before, ask each other how this or that feels. It okay to not know..cus everyone has to start somewhere.. You don;t have to rush to fit in every little experience all in the first time. You might want to check out Lacigreen on you tube. Her channel called sex + and covers relationships too. Later, perhaps you can get your guy to watch it too if he really wants to learn everything there is to know about girls sexually so he can be a great lover. OH one more thing about guys, they like being touched as much as you do, your hands in his hair, kisses everywhere on his body, running your fingers over his skin on his chest and stomach for example or use a soft clothe to run over his skin or if you have long hair, that will give the ticklish sensation as you swish it over him. Guys love to have their genitals touched and you have shown no problem with that. Just cradle him in your hands for a bit while you rest and talk before going for it again.
Good luck!!
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Age 15? You should be studying not having sex!
Just saying you'll regret it in years time...its a competitive job market out there and you'll wonder what the rush was.
Just because he constantly flirts with you doesn't mean you should make out. In my opinion (and it is that so don't get upset if this isn't what you want to hear) sex shouldn't be put about here there an everywhere. It should be between two people who love each other-what you have written that you love him because he flirts with you.
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I don't even know where to start.
I'm not going to give you tips that 15 year old boys like, because honestly, 15 year old boys shouldn't be having sex.
This is why there are pregnant teenage girls who mix up lust and love.
I don't think you realize that sex is going to hurt you like crazy since you are young. You're only 15 so your body is growing and changing still.
There is a reason why underage sex is illegal.
If you want him, you shouldn't have sex with him.
Once you have sex with him or do anything sexual with him before you have a real relationship with him, that's all he's going to want from you. Because he won't be thinking, "I really like this girl, she's so nice, ect" He'll be thinking, "I want to bang her." And that's not a compliment sweetie.
Anyways, there are tons more complications like pregnancy, stds, emotional problems.
So just start making smart decisions and be a girl guys will respect, not a guy that will grope you because groping and sex isn't love.
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Um, excuse me?
I'm 15. Female. And I have never even thought about having sex yet. Like I said. I'm 15. All I'm thinking about is school and passing all of my classes, applying for extra things, and following my dreams. And you're sitting here, saying you're in love with a boy who gropes you? Please, get out. That's disgusting. Think about it. You do NOT love him. He's using you for sex and you're VERY EASILY offering yourself to him. Need I repeat? You're 15. And you seriously don't need everyone's possible sliver of respect they may or may not have for you to be gone over a horny, stupid mistake, because from me, that's nonexistant. You obviously don't know what love is, if you think THAT is love. Rubbing your legs through your yoga pants... Do you even do yoga? It's because of brainless things like you that give us teenagers a bad reputation. What if you get an STD? Or a baby? What if you find out he thinks you're a slut? What if he doesn't even talk to you again? Do you even care? If you two are connected by this stupid little absence of brain material, then you have another thing coming. What will having sex at 15 even do for you? What do you win with that? I was definitely born 3 years later than I should have... I shake my head at poor unfortunate little irrelevant, imbecilic things like you.
All I ask is that you read all of the above and email me at melanielovesdylanobrien@gmail.com if you have any questions :)
Have a nice day ^_^
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