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* hey, my name is Alex.

* i am 16 years young.

* i'm an easy to talk too person.

* i do have a boyfriend that i love with all my heart.

* there's nothing that can describe me completely

* barely make typos.

* when you personally ask me for advice, i read and re-read and try to put myself in your situation to see what i would do :) i try my best, honestly!


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How do you actually know when your cherry is popped? How can you tell??

You'll bleed soon after your done having sex. It will bleed for a while.

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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if youre being fingered can the guy tell if you're a virgin or not? what about if you're having sex with him? can he tell?

thanks.

I would say if you're getting fingered and you're a virgin he will most likely NOT find out your a virgin unless he like shoves his fingers up to the point where he pops it. But most girls get their cherry popped on the first time, others don't. So it just depends how his work is done.

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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When you finger a girl can you just rub it like on the outside where the clit is and they orgasm or do you have to actually finger them?

For most girls, you can do it either way. It just depends of HOW your doing it to the girl that gives them pleasure.

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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does doubling up on condoms [using two at a time...instead of just one] create a bigger chance of preventing pregnancy??

No, it doesn't make it better to put two condoms together and it DOES create a bigger chance of becoming pregnant. The two condoms will rub on to each other and cause them to rip.

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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can you buy birthcontrol at a store?

I've read on http://www.gurl.com that if you go to a Walk-In Clinic they can give you birth control if you're sexually active with your partner. And you don't have to tell your parents about it. I'm NOT on the pill but just check more about it on http://www.gurl.com that'll give you more information about it.

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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How long would it take after you have sex to be able to take a pregnancy test and have an accurate reading?

You have to wait at least up to two weeks. If past two weeks then the best is to take the pregnancy test as EARLY as possible. The earlier the better. You can get more information on http://www.gurl.com

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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does fingering hurt?

cuz, my bf wants to be finger me.
but i've always been not exactly
scared, but like hesitant.

so is there any pain whatsoever?

Yeah, there is somewhat pain depending on how many fingers he puts in or if you're dry 'down there.' If you're wet, it could be less painful.

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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okayy so my boyfriend wants to have phone sex with me..but idk how. someone please explain.

Phone Sex is just like turning the person on the other line on. Like...

For example:
Guy: I'm unzipping my pants.
Girl: I'm going down my shirt.

Yeah... and so on. It's just basically turning each other on.

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i was wondering how did you get so adorable. you are so cute. lol i'm amber btw.

Aw, why thank you, Amber. :]

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giving blowjobs.. how is it done?

is it full on blowing??.. do you have any examples, can you compare it to something? PLEASE!!!

im really curious

Naw, you don't blow at all, lol!

All you pretty much do is lick around it, suck on it, if you want, play with it. It gives the guy pleasure.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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is there any good sites that i can go to and get aim profile things, like the ones you copy and paste. i already know about buddy4u.com.... is there any others?

http://www.buddyprofile.com

that's pretty good. But you can also go to http://www.xanga.com/

go to the search box on the top of the page and type in "AIM PROFILES" and then click on "Blogrings"

There should many sites you can choose from.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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When boy celebs talk about their chest hair, girls scream and stuff. What's so hot about chest hair and back hair? I think it's kinda gross..

It's just an opionion to what other girls think about 'chest hair' but as of for me, I find it pretty gross too.

But sometimes it isn't so gross depending on how their body is when their shirt is off ;)

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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Do you HAVE to wear dresses like these
http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/normal_taipei2210057f1a8pp.jpg
or can you wear a simple but pretty material dress like Regina from Mean Girls did to the prom?

If it was for graduation, it would be great if you did. But then again, you don't HAVE too.

Unless your school is similar to mine and they HAVE too.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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I like writing poem like things...and short stories but (A) i DONT want to sound to emo and over dramatic...

(B) i dont really want to show people that i know because then they judge me amd think im emo!

Whats the best thing i can do to find out if im good or not?

The only best way to tell if you're good or not if you show it to your language art teacher, or any English teacher you have, or one of your really close friends.

You shouldn't be ashamed on writing down your thoughts just because it will 'sound emo'. It's coming from you and what everyone else is saying, it's just an opionion. Not everyone will think it's emo.

If you would like, you can send me one of your poems or short stories. I'll let you know, if you don't mind. [Just drop it off at the INBOX]

Hope I helped.

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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okay so i have had sex before but not since january. I was wondering is it possible for it to hurt again even if the penis isnt is as big or smaller?

If you've done it once before. It will mostly likely hurt your second time and possibly your third time.

But after a while it won't hurt as much. Just a little sting when it enters you but after a while you will start to feel pleasure.

Hope I helped.

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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what is it?

When a person and their partner aren't together at the moment and they're talking on the phone and just talking 'dirty' to eachother.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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does anybody know a code for a "add button" so i can just have someone click add me

http://www.whateverlife.com/addmebuttons.php

They have really cute 'Add Me' buttons. All you have to do is copy the code under the one you want and just simply replace the 'FRIEND ID' to yours.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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when i try to change the color of my display name on myspace,, it doesn't work! i see how everyone has colors behind theirs and i cna't find out how to do that. anyone know a site to find how to do that?

Here is the site to where you can get the code from:

http://www.whateverlife.com/myspacebasics2.php

it's near the bottom of the site.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

[EDIT: UNDERNEATH 'COLOR already']

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how do i make a new e-mail address? i use msn and i use my mom's e-mail address but i've been thinking and so i want my own. how do i do that?

I honestly don't know how to sign up for MSN. But I do know how you can sign up for Yahoo!

Yahoo! is a free e-mail creating site that you can make your own e-mail.

Just simply go to:
http://www.yahoo.com

On the main page click on 'My Mail' and underneath the Yahoo! long in there's a link that says 'Sign Up' click that and fill it out. And there you go! Your own e-mail address.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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I just got an email saying my question was answered & i came back & nothing was different.
is something wrong here???
thanks

If you've signed up for this site, all you have to do is just check under your 'Welcome (your username here)' on the left column and just simply click on 'Your Questions' and check them out. Because they probably answered your previous questions you asked before they answered your other one. Hope that wasn't confusing.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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