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E-mail: smithy000@hotmail.com
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Location: Victoria, Australia
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Age: 17
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this guys at my school is so cute and funny and really awsome and nice, and i really like him.we're like best friends and people think he likes me which is great cuz i like him so we cold hook up or something...anyways the problem is i don't know how to tell him how i feel because i'm afraid he'll react badly to the situation and get all weird with me..how can i make sure none of that will happen and still know if he likes me? (link)
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If he likes you, and you've heard off everyone that he likes you, and YOU like him, go for it, just get alone somehow and tell him how you feel, being direct is the best way. If your best friends, just tell him, don't worry about making things weird, cos they will be for a short time, maybe a week, but things will get back to normal as quick as they got to weird, so dont worry. Tell him how you feel, and i'm sure you'll go far. Hope i helped.
Good Luck :-)
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hey, im wondering what kinds a girls do guys like and what kinds a things make guys want girls any advice u can givewill b greatly appreciated thanks : )
**hailey** (link)
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Every guy has their different "ideal" girl, so its quite hard to determine wat kind of girls guys like, but i know what we don't like. Altho it may not seem like it, guys absolutly HATE "fake" girls, those girls that go around trying to be 'all that' when their not, some guys like chicks like these, bu they're usually the stupid self-centered assholes, but guys like a chick that is...basically herself, one thats not going around trying to impress every1. Just be yourself and guys will like you, dont worry.
GOod Luck :-)
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ok last year i was very deressed but i never told anyone. i got over it. now im depressed again. this is serious though because i know that i can control it, but it hurts me inside. i think of killing people (no, i will never do this!!) but it wont stop. i will never kill someone, but i keep on thinking of it. my family cant afford a physcologist or anything. we are going through a tough time right now with money. i get depressed whenever i go online a lot and other tough things happen, and i just feel depressed like this at different points during the day. i want to help myself get over this. i know i can do it. please help me! (link)
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I know how your feeling because I go through the same thing sometimes. I asked for the same advice on advicenators not long ago, and the advice i got was pretty good. Try doing something to get your mind off it, start playing a sport or get into a new hobby, anything to get you off the net and out of the house doing something, even just go somewhere with some friends and do something. Or with anyone really, the best way to get over it is to get your mind off it. Hope i helped, if you need anything else, just drop a question. Good Luck :-)
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I've had my boyfriend for about 2 weeks now. In the beging, we could never get enough of each other. We would sit by each other constantly, at lunch and everything, and now we don't even sit by each other at lunch.
I went to a movie today, I tried to get close but all he did was put his foot closed to mine. Though I was greatful for that.
He sometimes seems to be annoyed with some of the stuff I do, but then later it seems like he's happy with me again. And he gives me hugs and stuff all the time, (we're too young to kiss, even though we have! lol)
Well, I think I need to give him his space. We see each other in 5 of our classes, and we spent the whole weekend together the other weekend, and we call each other/talk online constantly. I think we're getting into a little too much of each others buisness.
So my question is, do you think I should give him his space, or do you think something else is wrong? Thank you.
Sorry this was so long! =\ (link)
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I think you should definatly give him his space. It appears that you have gone into this relationship to fast, you've only been together for 2 weeks and it seems like your spending TOO much time with each other, and your probably to young for a relationship that intense. So back off from each other a little, give each other a bit of space, and you'll end up fine.
Good Luck :-)
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okay.. i like this guy.. and me and him have been flirting since school started.. well.. i found out the other day he wants to go out with me and im totally happy.. and i was going to.. but then i got on my bus and i asked my friend if she knew him.. so that she could help with the hook up.. and she was like.. "oh.. hes my ex.. do you talk to him?" and i was like.. "yea... i met him this year.." and she was like.. "but you dont like him right?" and i casualy changed the subject but i do.. and then she asked me to ask him why he broke up with her.. and to hook them back up.. i dont know what i should do.. because i liked him before i knew that my friend did.. pLeAsE help! (link)
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Don't worry about your friend, if you like him and he likes you then get together, if your friend can't handle that then she isnt much of a friend. She'll be happy for you, jealous, but happy. If she still doesn't accept it just admit that he liked you, not her, and thats the way it is. Hope it all turns out good for you.
Good Luck :-)
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ok me and my gf r goin on 3 months........thas my longest relationship and shes the first person ive eva said i love u to and.....she talks bout her ex bf ALOT it seems like every convo we have is bout him.....and then when we r around each other she neva wants to get close i have to sit next to her and kiss her and stuff like tha.......n e ways this had happened a couple times and i need sum opinions......should i break up w/ her or wait it out and see wut happens.....i dont know wut to do...i still love her but it hurts when she talks bout her ex and ive asked her to stop but she doesnt.....n e ones opinion helps.......thanx (link)
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Hate to say it buddy, but i think your best off breaking up with her before you get hurt even more. If she keeps talking about her ex, then she probably still has strong feelings for him. If you don't break it off, your going to get hurt by her, because she will most likely get back with her ex. I'm sorry if this sounds nasty, but it's the truth. Hope it all turns out for the best...whatever that may be.
Good Luck :-)
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Ok I really like this guy and he likes me to and weve liked eachother for a while and I dont know what to do about IT now hes saying im really hott and stuff he makes me feel good bout myself because I think im ugly (like most girls at my school think there ugly to) its just a normal thing and we will be on the phone and hell be like I love u la la la and stuff what should I do and how to I deal with this? (link)
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Whats wrong with you? this question isnt hard to figure out, you really like him, he really likes you, he makes you feel so good about yourself...so get together. It seems like you like each other enough to talk to him about this and get together, it'll be worth it greatly. Good Luck :-)
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Ok, I'm 14 and I have this friend. She truly is a nice person, but she flirts with EVERY GUY in sight. No joke. It really gets on my nerves, and plus she has a boyfriend anyway. And it's not just normal, friendly flirting--she hangs all over them and is always hugging all over them and stuff. Her boyfriend goes to another school, which happens to be convenient for her. Anywho, it gets on my nerves soo bad. How should I tell her that its not right? Or should I just lay low and hope she stops? (link)
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Tell her that what she's doing you think is wrong. If i found out that my girl was flirting with every guy in site, i wouldn't be very happy, alot of trust issues would come up, and it seems she just isnt ready for a relationship. Maybe she is just unsure of what she wants, so before you go judging her, have a talk to her, explain what your seeing, and how you feel, mabye theres more to it then what it seems. Hope i helped, good luck :-)
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Its almost 1 year for me and my bf and I have noo clue what to get him. Hes 14. Any suggestions? (link)
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A good idea for a 1 year is a silver braclet, one with a bit where you can engrave something on it, just get a little message engraved (im sure you can think of something good) and it'll be fine. It's always a good gift. Good Luck :-) oh, and congratulations lol.
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At school yesterday, I slipped on some loose rocks and split my knee open, I know, GROSS! It stings, and the bleeding slowed down, but it still does bleed a little! I don't want to bleed through my clothing! Any advice??? (link)
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If its still bleeding i hope you've gone to a doctor about it, if it's that bad it'll probably need stitches or something. If you've gone to the docoter they'll put something on it, most likely a thick cotton pad or something over it, then a bandage around it to hold it in place, if you've got that it won't bleed through to your clothes. IF you arent goin to the doctors, just use a bunch of tisues or similar and put a bandage around it. :-)
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My parent's 25th anniversary is coming up. They are going on vacation and everything, but does anyone have any suggestions on what I could get them? (link)
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Seeing thought the 25th anniversary is the Silver anniversary, perhaps a engraved silver frame or something would be good, silver is usually pretty cheap, especially wen silver plated, and getting something engraved is pretty cheap. Hope you find something good.
Good Luck :-)
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..okay i know this is really long but i really need advice!! well this girl is one of my best friends..she tells me everything..well about a month ago she told me she was going anerexic, because she thinks shes fat! She is really skinny..!! I told her not to because she is really skinny and that is sooo unhealthy..and its stupid! She doesnt believe me whenever i say shes skinny..she just thinks im being nice whenever im really not! Everyday at lunchtime she would get a bottle of water..and if one of the teachers made her eat she would go to the bathroom and throw up! One day i followed her without her knowing. Well I didnt know what to do so I went to the guidence counsler..and told him what was going on..well he called her mom..but didnt say i said anything. i am not sure what her mom said.. so my friend found out it was me because i was the only one who she told. and i didnt know that! so she got mad at me and i appologized and we made up..and today in school she said she was doing it again?!??!?! i have talked to her a million times but its not working! i dont know what to do! i already told the consler the last time she did it..what should i do?! please help!! (link)
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Show her how much you care, don't just go around telling everyone else so they can help her, the best help she can get at the moment is from you, you can stop it from getting to bad. Let her know that your there for her, tell her she's beautiful, whatever she may say to knock it down, just keep going, if she says "your just being nice", say something like "it may be nice, but its the truth, and nice guys dont lie" or something like that. Just always be there for her, reassure her about how gorgeous she is, and prove to her, however possible, that she's perefct the way she is. It's just a phase, hopefully it doesnt get to serious. hope i helped. Good Luck :-)
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Well, I'm a vegitarian. Ever since I stopped eating meat, I've had a horrible appitite. All the sudden I'm never hungry, and when I eat, I sometimes feel as if I'll just puke it right back up...what's wrong with me? I'm not anerexic, I'm just a vegitarian. I think I might need to give it up... (link)
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I dont think you've looked into vegetarianism very much. When doing this, if you just stop eating meat and start eating everything u usually do, your most likely missing out on some very important nutriants and vitamins that you need to sustain a well balanced body, which in turn will make you feel sick and the way you are. So look it up, find some vegetarian meals, and look out for what your eating. If necessary talk to a doctor about it, they'll give you some good information, because there is nothing wrong with becoming a vegetarian. Hope i helped. Good Luck :-)
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ok me and my boyfriend broke up and we still say "i love you" but then one day he got really mad at say he never wanted to talk to me again..but then he called me 3 dayz later and was talkin to me (that night he called and said sorry about sayin that!) then the last couple of nights he wouldnt hang up til we said "i love you" like he would just say "bye" til i said it then last night i said bye and he goes "bye shut up you know what to say" ...but then he used to tell me about missin out on some other girl...so whats his deal ..can someone tell me or explain his game to me!!...SORRY SOOO LONG!!
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Hate to be the one to break it to you, but he's playing you. Guys have this thing about thinking when a girl says "i love you" to him that he's got her around his little finger, and i think that's all it is. You just need to stop saying it, and hang up on him. If you keep saying it to him and letting him twist his way through your mind, he's always going to think that your at his every command. Just hang up. Good Luck :-)
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hey im a 13 male and since 6th grade (im in 8th grade now) i've been getting a few annoying crushes. so let me striaghten this. i hate having crushes. why? because they're on people that play no point in my life. 6th grade was an ok crush, at least i talked to the girl often, but 7th grade, i must have heard 20 words from the girl towards me all year, she was a tom boy and i played no point in her life, and hers in mine, though i had a crush on her. now, in 8th grade, i do believe i have yet another on a girl that hasn't said ONE word to me. dont tell me to talk to her, i just want it to go away. why am i getting crushes on girls that i havent even spoken 2. this girl is in 3 of my classes, and i dont know i just like her. like i dont even have to hear her voice and i like her. its strange, just people with a certan air about them, i favor. mods dont delete. its just bugging me. is this normal? (link)
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It is in fact just puberty. All us males go through that at some stage...this is where women get the idea that all guys are just after looks, because of this one stage...and due to everyone going thru puberty at different times, women think that we're ALWAYS like this, it does get annoying. Don't worry, by 10th grade you'll be looking past the looks, and in 11 you'll start realising the looks arent everything. You just need to go through this stage like the rest of us do. You'll be fine. Good Luck mate :-)
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hey i have gotten my hair highlighted a couple of times. It is a golden blonde with lighter blonde highlights. Well in the winter im thinking about going to a light brown. Does anyone know of a pretty shade of brown/light brown that you have tried? shade? brand?
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Stick to the blonde, blonde always looks better then brown, no matter what shade. Also when dying your hair with a brown from a blonde you need to make sure you do it completely write because it usually has a tendency to turn rather a reddy orange rather then a brown. So stick to the blonde, perhaps try a different blonde, if u want to go darker try a darker blonde, but trust me, if you go brown you'll wish you had of stayed blonde. Hope i helped. Sure it'll turn out looking magnificant with whatever you choose. Good Luck :-)
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ok me n my x broke up i still like him and he acts like he still likes me. the prob is..he has a reputation of cheating on ppl before n hes sorta a player. anyway, hes wicked nice n we r friends but he invited me to go to the mall tommorow n idk if i shud go cuz ik wed just do stuff like other times and i wudnt wanna go just to giv him stuff..its not worth it. but i like him too..ikd help (link)
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I think you should go with him, if he tries to pull a move or ask you to do anything just say no, if he still persists, walk off on him. If your really worried, by all means take a friend, or go as a group n get more people. Dont do anything you don't want to do, but i you like him, then at least go to the mall with him, you'll be fine. Good Luck :-).
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well.. I'm finally with Kevin. We've been together a little over 2 weeks. The more I'm with him. The more I fall in love with him. and I'm really comfortable around him. and I really love him. I don't know what to do. because like in school we hardly see each other. Im a senior.. and hes a freshman. hes suppose to be a Sophomore but he got in a lot of trouble. But yeah ne way.. we see each other in the hall way.. and we say hi.. but thats about it.. Then after school he has football practice. Then after that he goes with his friend.. and I absolutley hate him. It seems like he never has time for me.. and I talk to him all the time. and am usually with him every night. and Tonight is the first night I havent been with him or talked to him. and he tells me all the time he loves me.. but.. I'm afraid hes... I dunno.. falling outta love with me.. or planning to break up with him.. What should I do? I really dont want to lose him. I really do care about him alot.. :( Help someone!!
Sorry soo long. (link)
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From what it sounds like, it's the same as most guys. Guy's just have trouble handling everything, and just because we go and have football practice or go out with a mate doesn't mean we're falling in love. You need to accept that he has a life of his own, you've only been together for 2 weeks, he's just trying to do everything, after a little while longer he'll realise that he can't and you'll see each other alot more. Don't worry, this is just a normal start to a relationship, it'll get better. Good Luck :-) (P.S. If you always talk, then he isnt falling out of love for you)
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Ok im not sure what to do Im still kinda in love with my ex and he still likes me but THe like 4th day of school we were forced to sit my eachother so he talked to me about that he lost his virginity and hes had sex like ALOT we vowed to eachother we were gonna take eachothers virginity but then we broke up now I dont know what to do help???? (link)
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Don't worry about the whole virginity thing, losing your virginity really aint all what it's made out to be. If you really like and and he still likes you, then get together, just because he doesnt have his virginity anymore doesnt make things different, he IS still the same gu, jsut a bit more experiance, and experiance can make things for you a whole lot better anyway, at least he'll know what he's doing. So if you like him that much, go for him, it'll be worth it. Good Luck :-)
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ok well i think this guy that is a year older than me is cute-and like last year, we would always kinda glance at each other and stuff or look at each other if we passed in the hall ways or after school. so, this year, i have the same pe hour as him. but diff. classes. yet somehow, we got switched into the SAME CLASS. so its awkward like bc weve been like always kinda lookin at each other and stuff and now i sit 2 rows up from him. and its kinda a long story but then he was goin out with this other girl in our pe class 4 like 2 days then they broke up now shes goin out w/ someone else but the girl asked me the other day who do u like? and i was like well _____ is kinda cute and she was like omg i know i USED to be like in love with him! and i was like yeah i know but i told her not to tell n e one so i hope she wont. im so embarressed at my self bc like last year i would always like glance at him and stuff and its not like i was trying to but i would look up and he would be there like already staring at me! so idk...what should i do bc i dont want him to think im like obsessed with him... (link)
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ok, well first of all you need to stop saying "like" so much lol. But to the point, if he's looking at you, then talk to him, what harm could it bring? If he keeps looking at u, and you keep looking at him, then there must be something going on. Just start a friendly conversation next time your in PE, it'll be worth it, trust me. Good Luck :-)
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