I'm a laid-back person; easy to talk to; if you need advice, just ask away and I promise to get back to each and everyone of you...My name is Ellen; I go by Elle for short, and I love meeting new people :D
E-mail: lenachka22@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
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Yahoo: L0VELLE06
Member Since: July 2, 2004
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im madly in love with this girl and shes a very good friend i dont want our friendship 2 get wierd if i ask her out wut should i do??? (link)
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well first of all i would find out how she feels about you- whether you choose to ask her straight up or find out from her friends [which sometimes isn't the best or most reliable way] you need to find that out- because first of all that would save you rejection and maybe then it would make you feel better too if you knew she liked you like that too...if your friendship is strong it shouldnt ruin it- if youhave honesty and trust between you...it should be ok as long as you don't let your relationship issues break apart your friendship if something goes wrong- but if you stay in the mindset of "we were friends before, we'll be friends after; the relationship was just a new experience" then you should be able to keep it leveled...good luck- hope i helped =] byee
love elle
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is it bad if u dont know how to kiss??? (link)
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there isn't a special way "how to kiss" everyone has tehir own method and style- the basics are just making sure you don't eat the other person's face...keep the tongue limited and follow their groove, you'll get it after a few times...be yourself and you'll enjoy it =] good luck!
hope i helped
love elle
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me and my boyfriend are 13, he has these 2 friends who i am also friends with and i get on with them really well and i am good friends with them. is it ok to be close friends with my bf's mates? i don't fancy them or anything so is it ok? (link)
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yes it's totally fine in my opinion- as long as you have trust between you two and he realizes that all that you have for his friends are "frienship feelings" then there should be no problems...if he doesn't seem comfortable with it- make him and yourself understand that trust is the biggest thing in a relationship as well as honesty- as long as you keep those two grounded...you should be fine =] hope i helped ...let me know
love elle
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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE? (link)
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mostly true but there are instances when it could be false- alcohol/drugs get in the way and make you cheat when you wouldn't have done that soberly..but that's the person's own fault for putting him/herself in that situation =] love elle
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when u clear history on ur computer, doz that mean that like no1 can fid the sites u were on, like if i cleared my history, my dad wouldn't see that i was on advicenators or sumthin
i kno it's a dumb Q, but i was JW (link)
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yep
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hi im 15 years old and a guy...and i dig this chick alot, we went out before for like 8 months and then we took a "break" and a few days later shes going out with my buddy and to make a long story short, me and her were hangin out at my house and her b/f dumped her and she acted like we were goin out or somethin and then the next day her and her ex are doin the same thing...what the hell do i do? (link)
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she's not someone that's worth your time...she can't figure out waht she wants which is why she seems to be playing the both of you back and forth and having you both tied around her little finger...she uses her ways of making things feel like they were when you were togeher to get you and play around with your head...but you just have to remember one thing- you're not together, and she needs to know that too..she needs to get her act together because pulilng you through this funnel of messed up crap isn't going to help and she can't just play mind games with you because she wants to or feels she can...tell her how you feel and tell her how it's going to be and how it's not going to be- stand up for yourself and your feelings..the last thing you'd want, i think, is to get hurt when you're not even in a relationship... hope i helped ! good luck =] byee
love elle
no prob =]
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in 2 weeks i am going to visit my friend on the east coast and i haven't seen him for 9 years. i want him to think i look pretty good but i have really low self confidence and that makes me feel ugly even tho i kno im not. so is there anyway i can kinda build self esteem by the end of the month? i just want to feel confident. (link)
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take a piece of paper and write down all the good qualities about yourself..stay in the state of mind that you are when you said you know you're not ugly..even though you says o sometimes..so you can make that your number one thing- I'm pretty...i'm sure you have a lot of things going for you..so just focus on that...don't get conceided so don't just focus on looks go for your accomplishment, sports, school, clubs, friends, stuff like that..you'll feel better in no time- also..treat yourself to something you really enjoy..it always helps to boost your confidence and mood..hope i helped - just be yourself, and he'll think you're all that - =] good luck !
love elle
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I live in a suburb of New York City and I'm a Senior in High School. I'm trying to decide where to go to college. My top 3 choices are Cornell, Florida State, and Miami, and I've already gotten into all three. Miami gave me a lot of money, but Florida State has the best program for what I want to do and Cornell is the closest to home. I love all three campuses and don't care about travelling far away, but I don't want to make the wrong decision.
Any thoughts? (link)
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evaluate your choices...cornell is very pristegious...it would be really great for your career but if florida state has the best program then that may be better...also consider your parents paying for the college..if it's not difficult for them to pay for cornell then go for it- ..if it's gonna be a hassle..take miami bc it gave you the most money..it does seem like a very difficult choice- passing cornell up would be really difficult since it's suuch a great school...but go with your heart...you could always transfer if you find that the school isn't for you....it's even easier to get into a university as a transfer student than as a freshman...good luck ! hope i helped =] byee
love elle
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I am an 8th grader going into high school next year. I keep hearing about how the seniors always pick on the freshman and I don't want to get beat up! What should I do to stay away from the seniors? I'm 14/female if that makes any difference. (link)
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aww..yeah everyone's scared of that- most of the time nothing really happens, people just make up stories to intimidate little ones and it looks like it's working ..i've heard them too but when you go to high school nothing really happens...beacuse no one really takes that much time out of their own life to bother little ones befcause they have other things to worry about..grades, teachers, parents, sports, clubs, girlfriends...it most likely wont happen..you won't get picked on as long as you stay cool and be yourself...don't try too hard, it's very noticeable and they WILL notice...have fun- enjoy high school..it's the best 4 years of your life =] make friends, keep them, don't talk behind peoples' backs...just enjoy everything =] good luck!! hope i helped
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Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly? (link)
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yes, for me 9th grade was good...it was easy well compared to tenth it was and it went by very fast...it's your first year of high school so it's going to be different..just make sure to get involved, meet new people, and have fun...keep an eye on your studies too- you want to establish yourself in the rigth way..teachers talk- better to have them pass a good word about you on than a bad one =] hope i helped - good luck!
love elle
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Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~ (link)
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just cause he's on a break..he still probably calls you those names because they feel like it's a special connection you guys have and those are HIS names for you..you know? maybe ..im not sure- ask him what's up
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im gettin braces in like 2 days, and i was wondering
does it hurt when they put them on?
or does it hurt more a fefw days later?
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it hurts about 8 hours after...
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hi..i got a bf but he got another gurl friend what should i do? i wana break up with him and hope he could accept it easily.what should i say to him? even i wana break up,but i still wana be friend with him forever (link)
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wait a minute...your boyfriend has another girlfriend AND you?? i hope i read it wrong beacuse that would mean he's two timing you- and i don't understand why you'd want to hope he understands...if he's playing you? why would you want to be friends forever? i don't know maybe i am reading this wrong...let me know =]
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i've gotten really depressed lately. my parents relationship is (excuse my french) going to hell, and my sibs are mixed with alchohol.
my little sis is spoiled like god only knows, and i'm kinda left to life in the middle. i guess my mirror has a little play too... i'm 14, weigh 200lbs, and am 5'7. i'm starting to not eat that much anymore, and i really need some help with this. (link)
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aww...wow- seems like you've got a lot on your plate...but here's something- don't just flat out starve yourself, it will only make things worse- if you are wanting to lose weight...keep eating but just cut the portions a little, excercise and eat healthy...with your family- number one thing is don't feel like anything is your fault, even if you don't already...just remember that- your parents are having problems and all that you could really do is stick by your family...your siblings with the alcohol...try to sit them down and tell them that the only reason youre talking to them about it is beacuse you love them alot and care so much for them and would hate to see anything happen...if they are older- tell them youlook up to them...if they are younger, tell them that you're responsible as a role model and they shouldn't be doing that...your spoiled sister..there's really not much you could do- except talk to your parents about it at a calm time...tell her that she's not going to get anything that she ever wants all the time- because the world doesn't work like that...think of some family games to keep everyone interested and occupied..something that everyone can learn from- most of all..good luck and keep your head up..you'll be ok- =] hope i helped..let me know
love elle
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How do you get ur hair to look wavey and a little curly with gel or other products...when I try it with gel it just makes spiral curls and I don't like it!! =/ (link)
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if you're talking about the style jessica simpson wears..then it depends on your normal hair type- if you have curly/wavy hair then after taking a shower tie your hair back into a low bun and let it air dry for a few hours so when you take it out the bottom is still moist and scrunch some gel into it...if you have straight hair..blow dry it with a diffuser a bit and then let it finish air drying..after that take a curling iron, probably with 1 1/2 inch barrels and curl some sections...hope i helped - good luck =]
love elle [rate me please :)]
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Hey,my situation is prolly a pretty common one,but i'll go into it anyway. I'm an 18 year old guy,who knows this really nice girl for over a year. The reason i never made my move on her was that she was always going out with one of my friends and still is. I am under the impression that i'm her friend and nothing more,b/c she tells me things prolly only her bf should know and i feel bad about this. I dont wanna wreck anybody's relationships,but it seems like she's more comfortable around me then him. What should i do? (link)
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hey, wow this is a toughy...girls happen to be like that sometime; does she know that you've had something for her..maybe enough to make a move on her, if she wasn't dating your friend? i'm guessing she doesnt, which is probably why she feels so comfortable around you- maybe she sees you as a very trustworthy person ...even more than her boyfriend, which can definitely happen...maybe she looks to you more for advice or maybe she even just feels like she can be completely herself around you and tell you very personal things and you won't judge her...i don't know exactly what's going on there...i think that there really is nothing you can do since you already said that getting in between the relationship isn't within your best interest...so i would suggest staying good friends, seeing where things go and if things clear up- but if nothing seems to make sense, the only logical thing other than this would be to approach her...ask her what's on her mind and how she feels about you and your friendship..those would be the best answers you could ever get- since they are coming directly from her... hope i helped [rate me please?] good luck! =]
love elle
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Ok i'm going to be 18 on July 10th and there is this dude named Jason who I like and he likes me too...he says that I have all the qualities he wants and in a girl and he just makes me feel real good...but there's a huge problem...He is 27!!!! ahhh I don't know wut to do!! I think when ur 18 ur legal, but still is it bad gettin involved w/him? I'm real confused! (link)
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it's not wrong..if you both like each other then there's really nothing stopping you yes..18 is legal, so that's not a problem so it all comes down to what you guys want the both of you to become..good luck =]
love elle
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hey~
i'm 12 and weigh 155 i don't look fat AT ALL but i don't get a lot of boyfriends and i have a chubby face. at the end of my 6th grade year i weighed 160 but i started running and biking every day and lost 5 lbs. but i want to get down to at least 130i still have till august 17 any suggestions i need help i want to look HoT!! (link)
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you're 12, and you're still carrying baby fat...i was the same way- and then you just hit soemthing and you slim down and get taller...things will work out- just have a healthy diet, and keep excercising [don't overdo it though]...everyone is different..and i'm sure you're still hot in your own way...don't try too hard to impress other people because trying too hard is very noticeable and is a turn off..to most- good luck, hope i helped =]
love elle
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How can I get rid of a calus that I have on my finger?...please help if you have any ideas because I've had it for a while and it's making me so frustrated!!
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pumice stones are good..taht's about all i can suggest- you can also use those patches that they sell at drugstores or go to your dermatologist - they always guarantee a solution - good luck , hope i helped a bit =]
love elle
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I am a senior in highschool and once i graduate i would like to go into fashion designing or interior designing. I have "shadowed" an interior designer before and have helped people in their rooms with designs. I am also curretly designing my prom dress and would hopefully some day like to design my wedding dress. Just one concern.... What if i am totally out of my league and really have no clue with what i am doing. What if i go to college and major in this and then find out that it isnt for me? I guess its just a concern i have been having for awhile now, someone please give me advice. KT
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it's completley cool that you're considering that as a major..sounds really exciting but many people go in not even knowing what they want to do...many people don't choose a major until their junior/senior year in college- and some switch them up many times...i even know people that went through college and came out still not knowing what they want to do...so you'll know once youre there- you have plenty of opportunities to do whatever you want to do..good luck =]
love elle
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