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I am 20 years old and i have a guy who i really like but i have never kissed a guy and i dont really know what to do and i have built it up to be so scary that it makes things worse help!!! (link)
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i remember my first kiss i was nervouse too but i realized that it comes really naturally. i mean do what you do and it should be good i mean if you worry too much u just winde up kissing his nose.
but yea take it easy
hoped i helped
KikiJ
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ok well im 14 and have never been kissed, i have had 3 seriuos boyfriend's and 2 just becuz boyfriend's and none of them have kissed me.i dont know if im ugly or what but now no guy likes me and i dont know what to do...can you help?oh yah and i guess im supposed to say im a girl. (link)
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hun wat's your definition of a serious relationship? i don't want to sound harsh but you've would have been kissed already if you were in one. I mean all girls have their first kiss at different times i had mine at thirteen my friend had hers at 16 and so on but you shouldn't worry about it that much a kiss is a great thing but for now you're still alittle young to be worrying about this. When the time comes it comes. =]
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Ok, i am 13/f and i like this boy in my school but we have no classes together. I really like him, i want him badly but i have never seen him look at me ever in his life. I am also shy when i talk to boys. I say stupid stuff and i am just not expeirenced as him. He has been out with a lot of girls but i have only been out with 1 guy. I know i never have a chance with him. He is way more expeirienced. My friends are more expereienced than me to and i dont know why. I mean i'm not that ugly i dont think. I mean, we have to wear ugly uniforms at my school and it makes me look dorky but i am still ugh. I dont know how to become expeirenced and let my friends know that i am to. Everyone of my friends would think of me as unexpeirenced and i dont like it. I know i am that way to.If i ever get another boyfriend, then my friends will be shocked. I dont want to be known as unexpeirenced. Please help me. (link)
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well i know it's a big thing about having a boyfriend and all but to tell you the truth it's better to want than have you know?
well to help you with your problem you could always try to flirt more and i know that comes naturally to all girls if not at first then later. You say you say stuppid things when you talk to guys well just start a normal conversation like with a compliment or something cute but random.
then if you mess up play it cool everyone messes up sometimes and it's just you being you and if they can't except that then their lost right?
well if you need anything else you can just e-mail me so yeah.
hope i helped!
-KikiJ
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There is this boy at school who keeps looking at me and then acts so sttrange like pushes me down or trips me but not around his peeps but he gets so annoying what should I do
Note: I don't like him like him
also I am a girl
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obviously he likes you and i've had this same problem though i had no intrest in the guy once so ever.
first you should tell him to stop ask him why he's doing that even though it probably is just a crush.
and if you do like him even just a little just see how that goes.
If you don't i got rid of my guy by telling him i had a boyfriend but i'm not telling you to lie just to give an example.
hope i helped!
-KikiJ
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I've recently started dating this great guy. The problem is, he's black and I'm white. I'm against racism to the full extent and so is my mom, but my dad and brother don't feel the same. I know they won't accept this guy and I'm afraid to bring him home. My dad will look down on me and I hate feeling bad for liking such an amazing guy. What am I supposed to do? (18/F) (link)
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You're suppose to love and let love if you know what i mean. Love is something that i would consider special and enough to prevail through any currcumstance and if your father or brother can't see that you really like this guy then that's their decision not to.But in my opinion if he really means that much to you then bring him home and speak your mind because if you don't it might be hard to later when the realationship gets more into it you know?
Hope i helped and good luck!
-KikiJ
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Ill be 18 oct. 27
I work with this girl that is throwing a halloween party and she told me that i deff have to be there and i have to wear a costume. Well i asked my dad if he could bring to the costume shop and he said "why?" I told him that my friend invited me to a party. He said is there going to be parents. Her parents are not going to be there because she is married and only 19. So he said theres going to be alcohol. Iknow there is going to be alcohol and i told him that. But the thing is i don't drink and i dont plan on it till im 21. So hes making a big deal out of me going to this party. Ill be 18 and im old enough to make my own decisions but he just doesnt understand that.
What i dont understand is that he'll let me go and hang out with alot of people over 21 and they are guys at the bowling alley and they drink while they bowl. But hes making a big deal out of this party.
I guess my question is how do i get him to leave the situation alone and stop attacking like im some stupid teenager that doesnt know how to control herself around alcohol or my own friends.
thank you.
*** other questions like this you guys just tell them to show them your responsible by cleaning. thats not what i want to hear.
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He's just worried about you. He just doesn't want you to go off and do something stupid even though you probably won't.
And a party and a Bowling ally is way different because at a bowling ally is public while a party is more exclusive.
I know how you feel and it sucks alot but he's just worried. I wouldn't plan on sneaking out because if they caught you it's more trouble than ever!I'd know...
But yeah for now it's a party when your actually 18 go off to all the parties you want but for now just sit back or the trouble will just get bigger.
-KikiJ
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Hi,
Well First of all theres this guy named Cody,Hes 12 and we are only 15 days apart, so i'm twelve too.i really like him, but the problem is..every other girl does too.He's really hot and funny, but I don't care about that.About a year and a half ago, i moved into a private school.So i know that its not his looks that i'm attracted in.We have had past relationships before, and i told myself that i wouldn't like him anymore,but everytime i get off the phone with him i feel really excited and happy. but i'm afraid to ask him out because I don't know if I could trust him with all those other girls at his school.And i don't just wanna go out for summer vacation and break-up.It's weird too because sometimes i dream that we are together.Like last night i dreampt that I kissed him then asked him to be my boyfriend.What should i do!? (link)
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You know i've had a problem exactly like your which is kind of funny but i never took it the right way if you know what i mean.
First of all it will be hard since all the girls like him, i know it'll be a little hard and it was for me too.Especially if you see him hugging other girls or something like that.so if you really like this guy that much you should go for him and i'm gonna be honest don't give in to everything this boy says. Never get your hopes up because one day i'm not saying with this guy or the next but a boy is gonna make them come crashing down.
All i can say that right now you have a crush going to puppy love but i want you to know that guys will say anything to get in your pants so be careful!
Best Wishes!
-KikiJ
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i have a boyfriend and in 8th grade i "stole" him from my friend in a like sexual way and so we like cybered i guess and now i'm in highschool and we got to actually know eachtoher and he's such a great guy and so nice and on my 4th time seeing him he felt me up....is that too fast..? imean i told him im not ready for sex but i kinda am i just dont want to do it b/c all my friends are like dont have sex w/ him sooo what do you think? (link)
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To me i think he's going way to fast. and for only the fourth time.
And the whole sex thing in my opinion you're not ready though who am i to tell you so.
I understand you want it but then think about it once it's gone it'll never be back no matter what.
I know a few people who still regret loseing it to that "special" person and that person broke their heart.
Your friends are looking out for you and you should respect and honor that but if you truly want to go all the way with this guy just think it over. Yes, no one's stopping you but is he really worth it?
I don't mean to be rude but this guy i mean how well do you know him he could just be out to get your body and you already cybered not saying that that is completely unrightful just that it might have left an "impression". If you know what i mean.
hope I helped
-KikiJ
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Okay, there is this guy, we will call him Bob. Well Bob has liked my friend for the logest time like he was ubbsessed with her, well her and her boyfriend just broke up. (They both want to go back out) But after she and her ex broke up, Bob asked her out, she doesn't even like him really, and she wants to date her ex, but my problem is I like Bob! What do I do?? (link)
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whoa! i have the same problem with my friend but she likes my friend and i like the guy but he doesn't like her and well yeah...
i think you should just tell your friend that you like bob and maybe get to know him better and there shouldn't be a problem with your friend because she doesn't like him.
hoped i helped!
-KikiJ
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Ok first off, I'm 13/f and I've already got my period. Well I play the Clarinet and 2 days ago I was practicing... then all of a sudden my stomach started hurting... It's not really my stomach.. its more of a side ache. Its about 3 inches to the left and right of my belly button. My period came about a week ago. Could this be the reason why? What is it? It like whenever I blow into my clarinet it starts huring more on the left. Sometimes when I take deep breaths in and out it hurts really badly. But if i'm sitting or standing still.. it wont hurt. My grandma says I pulled a muscle there??? Could that be it?? Somebody please help! I'm really worried! (link)
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Well your grandma could be right you can pulla mucsle just about every where you have a muscle. Or it could be cramps you know you don't have to be on your period just to get them. It also could be growing pains since you are still growing but if it go's on for more than a week then maybe you should see a doctor about it just to be sure. Though i'm sure it's nothing to worry about!
hoped i helped and feel better
-KikiJ
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ok i just turned 13 a week ago and i'm in 7th grade, and i havn't had a boyfriend yet...i'm pretty sure its because... i'm ugly, i mean i wear glasses i'm 5'0 or 5'1 and i'm fat... (135) waht do i do??i cant talk to a friend or cousin or aunt, and my mom passed away. so i live with my dad. what should i do?? please please please help me.
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you're not ugly unless you tell your self you are and who cares if your big-boned just believe in your self and here's a qote:
Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
-kikij
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i am 20, and i've been having rather regular menstration cycle so far(24 days cycle). this month, my menstral cycle was only 17 days.
my period usually lasts for 4-5 days.. but this time it's been 7 days already.
usually i bleed a little after my period ends. i thought its due to excessive excercise. but this time it seems way too long!
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There's nothing wrong with you.
everyone has these kinds of periods and it's actually good that your period was long because that means your part is more cleansed because more things came out.
hoped i helped!
-KikiJ
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theres this guy, "jake". jake & i talk alot online and stuffff and he's completley normal and fine when we talk online. but then in school, when i see him or we talk, he acts really shy. why is he doing this? and how do i make him feel more comfortable around me? (link)
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WEll he's probably shy at school because he's up close to you and not a chat that's how i am with the guys i talk to on myspace. (i am a girl)
you could always bring up things that you two had talked about on the chat and maybe then he'll open up or you could always confront him and asked why he's shy but that might embarress him or something.And then there's always just messing around with him and haveing fun so he'll be comforable. Because a lot of pple are more at ease when they're not one on one you know.
oh and...
he might kind of like you too if he's like that at least that's how i am with the guys.
hoped i helped
-KikiJ
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I'm a teenage girl. I'm single, and a virgin. (and sick of it) For the past five years of my life I have wanted to commit suicide because I have recently discovered that there is no point in living.
I'm very overweight and I'm ugly. The one boy who has ever loved me was a liar and he had a mental problem. (not being sarcastic) I have no friends and I really want to die. I've been working as a stage actress for a while but I realized I have no talent at all.
My point is: No one loves me and no one ever will. I can't live any longer without being loved. What should I do? How can I survive without love?
Everyone treats me like I'm seven years old. I look a lot older than my age and most people ask me if I'm in college. I hate my life so much. Oh, and I do masturbate regularly so don't say that I should try that. It's not a substitute for a partner or for real love. Also: all of my peers have boyfriends. So I'm the only one who's single and a loner.
By the way, no one ever listens to me when I talk so that's another reason why I want to kill myself.
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First of all SUICIDE r u CRAZY?
that's not an answer. i know you've probably heard this soooooooooo many times but i'm gonna be real with you it doesn't matter if your fat try to lose weight go on some diets if you need some ideas email me i'll be here for you but don't give up i'm sure your a great person.
If your going to commit suicide call your self an idiot!
here i want you to read this.
Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
it's a quote and all it mean is there's nothing wrong with you boys are probably intimidated by you. If you make the first move it'll ease them a little.
You say your fat well:
start wearing wrap shirsts they'll give you a slimmer look
black but not so much that you goth.
diets like i said message me if you need help
NEXT:
your virginity.
don;t you want ot save it for the right person?
idk it's your decicen
OKAY you probably think that i'm a bitch right now but you need help
all i read was negitive crap and i use to be like that no boys like me blah blah
when i started acting more confident started dieting they were comeing everywhere! (not littereally of course)
in a month i was asked out over 4 times i know not a lot to some girls but it was alot to me.
it's the way you treat and carry your self you just need the right steps...
feel better
-KikiJ
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I'm going to be a young mom, My boyfriend is my age too were both 18. We had many plans and everything was going fine, until he came over one day (Im living with my mom.) And he started ranting out on me, saying "I don't want a kid, I don't want to take care of it, I dont want to college, I cant handle this. Im not your boyfriend , tell your parents the baby isnt mine. Make you seem like a slut. Im not taking care of a baby its your fault." And so much more. Well that was 2 days ago. I've been crying for hours a day and I dont know what do to anymore. Do I call him? Should I call him? What should I say? They were his ideas and I liked them. But I need him, ALOT! (link)
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Yes you need to call him he's scared that he finally realized that he has a kid or going to.
like you said he was cool in the begining and he just freaked out i mean if he really didn't want it then he would have always been that way.
what he said he probably didn't mean and in my opinion keep the baby nothing is your fault he was mad.
so call him up explain ask question you need to let him know your there for him.
stay in there
-KikiJ
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13/F
Since leggings are suddenly "in" now, I was thinking of getting some. I was wondering what colors/styles would look good on someone with a curvier shape...any advice?
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first of all horizontal heck NO they make your leg look fat sorry it's true.
black slimming
greys ehh
browns depends on the shade and your skin tone.
i go with black
and yess hollister and all those stores cute legging but the pple who say that probably haven't been to other stores like dillards or Jc pnny they have really cute ones and you don't have to spend over 30 something for them.
hope i helped
-KikiJ
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right now my family is broke and we dont have enough money to go shopping to get me any new cloths. I have the basic t-shirts && stuff but i dont have sweatshirts that match them and its starting to get cold out.
Id really like to make some nice outfits so i feel confident because im a big person on loving myself before anyone else.
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anyways...
you don't need to go to second hand stores i mean there's nothing wrong with them it's just you don't need to there are plenty of stores that are cheap and cute i mean i have money to buy expensive hollister stuff but some of there things aren't my style and i found a really cute shirt at wal mart and fallas peredes or what ever it's called they're cheap stuff there and it's cute.
Don't get me wrong second hand stores aren't bad goodwill is great and all i'm just saying you don't have to.
and some colors so you can match are white,black,grey and a light color that isn't bright will go perfectly but
REMEMBER
it's not the brand of the clothes it the attitude of the person if that makes anysense.
Hoped i helped
-KikiJ
that's my first answer right well i have another idea...
Get creative!
if you have some extra fabric laying around and some needles ond sissors and all that means you can make some really cute stuff.
OR
you could go to one of those donation stores that give you stuff like clothes and everything for free.
try it out
-KikiJ
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My homecomming is comming up soon and i dont know how to do my hair. I want something simple. If i could do it myself at home that would be good. But i can go get it done too. I have a straightener and a curler at my house. I have longg hair and side bangs if that make a difference.
also pictures would help
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simple but nice.
no disin or anythin i just don't think straightening is all good yeah it's easy you can do it at home but it's not something that you'll be woowed with.
i think curly and an updo are cut i don't have a spesific but you could try this website it has a bunch of cut hairstyles!
www.beautifulhairstyles.com
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im trying to make a cd full of songs that i like but i cant think of any so i was wondering if you all could help me brain storm. I listen to hip hop r&b that stuff but basicly i listen to everything... please nd thanks (link)
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you should put bottons on there i love that song!
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is it necessary to breast feed? like does it HAVE to be done or will the formula stuff work just as well ? (link)
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formula will work it's just breast feeding i think is better because it helps the baby's imune system when they get sick to process faster.
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