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shyyy guyyy
theres this guy, "jake". jake & i talk alot online and stuffff and he's completley normal and fine when we talk online. but then in school, when i see him or we talk, he acts really shy. why is he doing this? and how do i make him feel more comfortable around me?
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WEll he's probably shy at school because he's up close to you and not a chat that's how i am with the guys i talk to on myspace. (i am a girl)
you could always bring up things that you two had talked about on the chat and maybe then he'll open up or you could always confront him and asked why he's shy but that might embarress him or something.And then there's always just messing around with him and haveing fun so he'll be comforable. Because a lot of pple are more at ease when they're not one on one you know.
oh and...
he might kind of like you too if he's like that at least that's how i am with the guys.
hoped i helped
-KikiJ
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I think I know why he is so shy at school. He is shy because hes not 1 on 1 with you like he is online at school is is crowded with other people around him. You can't force someone to not be shy anymore but you can try to get the shyness out. When I was in 6th grade I was almost exactly like Jake. I would be SO comfortable at home except when anyone else besides my sister, brothers, and parents. I felt out of place and uncomfortable. But to help Jake out talk to him whenever you can. I overcame my shyness by someone being a best-friend to me, only talking to me and soon I became confident about talking to other people.
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it's cause its easier to say stuff online...like your talking to you're computer screen instead of a person. you can make him feel more comfortable by:
-joking around with him
-just saying hey
and simple things like that.
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On the internet you can say anything to anyone, because you aren't going to be shy about it. A lot of people are shy in real life, but once they're talking to you on the internet, they're a completely different person. If I were you, I'd just talk to him more often at school or whenever you see him. The more you talk to him the more comfortable he'll get with you. Give him sometime and I'm sure he'll loosen up. ♥
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Some people take a while to get comftrable around others. Don't make him rush it. He probablly likes you and that makes it even harder for him. Just keep talking to him and hang out until he gets to know you a lot better. He will losen up more and he'll get comftrable around you.
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teehee. he seems to like you. well that's the same case with me. but then i did go out with him before. erm yea. so i talk to scott online a whole lot but he rarely talks and is uber shy at school. hunter said that it's probably cuz he likes me =P. haha. ASK him out. lmao
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