hey guys! just to let you know, i am the same person as decemberbaby but i didnt like that username, so i had to make a new one. so dont got to the other one anymore! thanks!
Gender: Female
Location: North Carolina
Age: 14
Member Since: March 4, 2006
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OKay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 8 months , and we are definantly in love. Lately we have been talkin about sex, a little more and more each time we talk to each other. Like last night we were texting each other and he said and i quote "Blaire, I love you, & you no that, i would do anything in the world for you. And , well now, i think im ready, for well you know, to have sex. I think we should try it. But only if your ready"
and the thing is , were young. He is 16, im almost 14.(one more week) and well, i would really love to loose my virginity to him, but he has already had sex(he used to be in the major party scene. He quit for me.) So should i have sex with him?
-Confsed (link)
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no honey! you could get pregnant! you are NOT ready!
kathryn
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Is it possible to track a cell phone, like to see where it is? If so, if the cell phone is off can they still track it? (link)
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you can call it
kathryn
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What product(s) can be used to get Sharpie permanent marker of a surface????
(NOT clothing... not wood.. um I dunno what kind it is...)
Please help. (link)
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Nail polish remover.
Kathryn
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I'm scared to death of tampons; but I need to start using them because I play volleyball and I don't want the pad to be visible. I keep trying to put them in, but they get to a point where I can't push it in anymore and it hurts so bad I want to cry. I've used almost a whole box trying to put one in; does anyone have any tips that might help this be less painful? (link)
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ask your mom
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Everytime my boyfriend (who i have been with for 1 and a half years) gets a boner, his penis is bent, like a banana. If i try to have foreplay with him, this makes it difficult and i want to laugh. Im not sure what to do. It makes intercourse unsexy and turns me off. He just doesnt give me the pleasure i need. Does anyone know what to do? im thinking of breaking up with him because i need to laugh everytime he gets horny. Please get back to me as soon as possible! (link)
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it is called an errection and its because of mens' hormones. there is nothing you can do to help that happen. the simplest thing you can do is just not look!
kathryn
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I know that people say you are too young to be in love. But does that mean I can't tell my boyfriend that I love him?
13/F
Thanks so much !! (link)
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no honey!! i think that is just something parents made up to keep their kids from dating. you can tell your boyfriend NAYTHING you want to tell him!
kathryn
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im 15/f almost 16 and i am a small girl.. 5'5 but 150 lbs.. it soudns like alot and it kind of is.. but i dont look fat... i am a little chubby espeically my stomache and my arms, even though i look like decent i really want to lose like alot of weight. first so i can have confidence and wear things id want to. 2nd just so i can be comfortable and 3 i really want to look good for my upcoming sophmoreformal
what can i do to atleast lose like 20 lbs within like 2 months? im a 9/10 -11/12 in pants now and i want to get in a solid 5/6 or 7/8
help i have no self confidnce!! (link)
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you really need to lower your snackage and sugar treats. eat healthy foods for all three meals. eat whole grain bread instead of white. things like that.
you also need to get atleast 1 hour of exercise everyday if you want to lose 20 pounds.
if you want a diet plan go to www.mypyramid.com and www.am-i-fat.com
losing just a few pounds will give you more self confidence. trust me.
i really hope i helped!
kathryn
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My grandmother told me she would buy one type of exercise equipment for me to exercise on. I don't know what to choose though. I need something that it pretty small or medium sized. My main problem areas are my thighs and bum. What would be one of the best pieces of equipment I could get? (link)
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Treadmill maybe.
kathryn
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ok im 15/f. my bf now we have been dating a little over a year, and i love him with all my heart, i would do anythin for him in this world we'll call him FRED.well we broke up for like 2 weeks and i dated a boy (bob)and i broke up with him because i couldnt stop thinking about fred. my dad dont let me see fred or talk to him but now that we are dating again i have been in such a good mood and everything like that. me and bob got along good and were good friends now but the other day he asked me to go to prom with him what should i do??? is that considered cheating if i would go with him or is that wrong or what(going as friends)? (link)
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tell him that you already got asked by "fred" but if something goes wrong, tell "bob" you will go with him.
by wrong i mean that "fred" has different plans.
kathryn
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Hi All,
I am thinking about taking classes to become a dog trainer. I have a lot of hands on experience already, but I have the feeling that a certification will be important. Eventually I'd like to start my own business. There is obviously a shortage of qualified trainers and many people own dogs. So I see a need for this.
So what do you think, would you rather attend classes given by a certified instructor or a self taught person?
I can buy many books on the subject and it will be cheaper than the tuition for a coorespondence course.
How about personal consultations in the home? If you could afford it wouldn't that be better than a class with 20 people and their dogs?
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Got to PetSmart.
Kathryn
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Ok, so I'm 16. My boyfriend is 17. It's getting increasingly harder to be anywhere alone with him without parents getting paranoid and feeling they have to "check on us". We're both responsible people who make responsible decisions and although both sets of parents know that I feel quite sure there's nothing that will make them feel differently...so that's not what I'm asking. I'm beyond trying to change them.
What I want to know is how to get around it...
I just need some sneaky ideas =P (link)
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sneaky....plan a "sleepover" at one of your friends house (girl) and ask them to cover for you if your parents call there. instead, you can go hang out with your boyfriend.
kathryn
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ok.. i wanna loose wat b4 the summer.. this way i can like look good in a two piece.. all i wanna do is get rid of the stomach... and the thighs.. but rite now all i care about is my stomach.. i weigh around 130 pounds.. and im 13.. but like everyone says im skinny... but like... i mostly weigh 10 - 15 pounds heavier cuz i have muscles... i have a little stomach but i mean its noticable.. how can i decrease it and how much do i have to do of it per day?? oo yea.. this guy has a crush on me.. but he told my friend he wil lask me out wen im skinnier.. and i eard him say it.. so like... i wanna lose the weight... (link)
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go to www.am-i-fat.com AND www.mypyramid.com. they will tell you what you need to eat, how much, and how much exercise you should be doing every day.
kathryn
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Is there a way to get your normal ipod (second generation) in colour screen... because i have seen pictures of them online and i got the black and white one... so i was just curious if there is a way of doin it... maybe by downloading something? (link)
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no. its all in the hardware inside the iPod. there is no way to change it either.
kathryn
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So today I took one of my earrings and started pressing it really hard against my cartilage in hopes of piercing it. (after sterilizing it, of course!) anyway, I chickened out. I want to know how much it hurts after... I want the truth! going to a profesional isn't an option. Any suggestions, comments, tips? thank you. (link)
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Go to claires and they will do it. i dont think you need a signature, maybe. it doesnt hurt ONE bit! just like a big pinch.
kathryn
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To preface, I came across this site because I did a search for someone that has passed on and found out thatthey used used to have a column here.
From my prespective, she and I had a special time together almost ten years ago. She was two time zones away yet we would be in touch everyday for a few months. I realize this is only a short time, yet I had initially ended it.
In the shortime thereafter, she and I would keep in touch and then because I acted stupidly with words she and I would not converse less and less.
Four years later, I took a trip out to where she lived to visit other people and ended up one night at a bar where she was and we were able to spend some private moments there talking and playing games that were available to us at the establishment. I felt, at the time, a certin affection for her that was similar to when we would be in constant touch with each other.
From that time until a year and a half ago our interactions were minimal - but the special place she held in my heart was something that was still there. She had told me once that when you love someone you love them forever and she said she still loved me. I had been resigned to the fact that the love of which she spoke was more than likely less intense than when we had originally interacted.
In late 2004 I had made arrangements to stay at her place because work obiligations had put me in a position so that I would be located where she lived. I did that in part because I wanted to see her again, spend time with her, and even though I could have found a place to live close to where she lived, I wanted to be able to spend some time with her and since she agreed I thought it'd be best.
Unfortunately, plans changed due to circumstances and when given an offer to go back home (albeit for a short period of time) I chose that instead of going to her. I wish I had chosen differently.
I found out through a friend that she had passed on late last year and I felt obligated not only to myself but somehow to her that I should go to her memorial service. I went to her service and let no one that was there know who I was in relevence to her nor why I was there. I went because I wanted to say, "goodbye."
It has been almost six months since then and I find myself in a position in which I think about her still. I sometimes feel that if I had not gone home that perhaps things would be different and I know that it is not something to concentrate on but at times I do feel as though maybe had I chosen a different course of action that perhaps things would have ended differenty for her.
I know she is in a better place now but somehow, selfishly, I don't find peace. I love her, will always love her and maybe I'm confused about things but I even then I do hope over time to find peace.
So, I suppose my question should be - will a part of me always feel this way? Will I grow to understand this over time, on my own? Or is there something there that will always be, to put it as loose as possible, nagging me? (link)
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Just keep on praying abput it and God will do the rest. As soon as your born, he has your life planned out from start to finish. It's like a big puzzle, and this is just one piece. If you keep praying, God will take care of everything and your puzzle will be finished.
kathryn
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hey does anyone have any ab workouts i can do at home besides videos, or the ball or weights. i need something more than crunches and situps. thank you. (link)
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An 8 pound medicine ball.
kathyrn
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i wanna get my belly pierced but my parentals won't let me. my questions is how do i persuade them ? (link)
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you could just do it behind their back. my sister did that and she hasnt been caught and this is her second year. your parents could catch and there could be a major consequences. if you are too scared to do that, just be a suck-up to your parents and do extra chores.
kathryn
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I have a math teacher and theres a bunch of girls that likes him. So I found out that they call him on his cell phone and they talk to him on the internet. I find this very strange
because he is like 25 and he lives with his parents and he's single. Half the girls that has his number is between 12-13. I have a bad feeling about this teacher because he goes to ball games and sits with those girls. Does anyone have any idea's on what to do? (link)
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First of all, its none of your business about how he wants to be a teacher so back off him! It may not be right bo you dont want to be catorigized of the tattle-tale-fun-ruiner. Let someone else get labeled that. It's for your own good!
kathryn
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How do you survive a horrible haircut that is short and curly? My hair is shorter than my brothers, and im a girl. Skool is tomorrow and we cant wear headgear. I look like a man, so what do i do? (link)
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Straighten it and it will get longer.
Kathryn
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i sweat like all the time! it's really emabarresing to have these huge sweat stains in school. i don't know what to do, i mean deoderant and antiperspirant just don't work. i went to the doctor and there's nothing wrong with me, i just need good deoderant and/or antiperspirant. does anyone know the name of a REALLY good one? thanks! (link)
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go to the doctor again and tell them that you NEED perscibed deoderant. you wear it at night and you wear regular deoderant in the day. it really works! my sister uses it
hope i works out!
kathryn
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